This time last year i was happy with my 4mnth relationship till i got sadly dumped in feb.. I was really low n depressed after that because i was totally into him n he made me feel different to all my boyfriend in the past. He really broke my hart n he quickly moved forward n got with his ex flame just after we had finished.. I thought id never be with anyone ever again but a few mounths after i decided to start dating again.. Beein unhappy all the time really wasnt doin it for me.. Seens then iv been with 2 lads and for some strange reason i keep getting dumped!!! The 1st just wanted to spend all his time with his m8s and the 2nd just went rong for no apparant reason.. They seem keen n then they just randomly end it!!!!!! What the hecks goin on... Am really scared of getting hurt again but if this carrys on am just gunna b 2 scared to comit to anyone.....
2006-10-17 02:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket. I know it is scary but you just have to keep taking chances on people. Eventually you will meet someone who will feel the same.
2006-10-17 02:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-24 04:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat!
I was with my last boyfriend for 5 months and he dumped me 10 weeks ago and i found a week later that he had gone back with his ex!. Like you i also fell in love with him and i felt that he was the one, but sadly i was not the one for him, I also got really low and depressed and i have only just started to see someone else.
I feel that i am a lot more guarded as i have been hurt and i am scared of being hurt again.
I think it will take me along time to feel safe again but i am just taking each day at a time,
You will meet someone and you will have a long and happy rel but it will happen when you are least expecting it,
Give yourself time girl and enjoy your life, its far more important to be happy and the rest will happen naturally.
good luck
2006-10-17 02:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't analyze it so much. There is someone who will make you happy out there. You can't have lasting chemistry with every bloke you come across.Go out and pursue other things that make you happy and your happiness will attract others. Everybody goes through periods of aloneness. These times make us stronger and help us grow as individuals.Don't be the type who is afraid to be alone,you know the chick who can't survive without being on the arm of some dork no matter how unhappy the relationship really is.You have got to remind yourself that whatever guy you are with is the lucky one not the other way around.
2006-10-17 02:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Ive just been looking through some of your past questions, and it seems to me that you life is a bit mixed up at the moment, you've been jumping from one relationship to another desperately trying to find someone, and by the sound of it just picking up anyone who comes along. take a break from everything, why not try to focus your energies on something else, go to night school, you will meet people who are trying to improve themselves, or join some kind of club. But you sound as though you need to break this cycle that you are in. Don't rush into finding someone to be with just because all your friends have someone. Good luck, get to know them before you hop into bed with them.
2006-10-17 02:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is about time that you take a rest, a brake, a vacation and re think the problem. You are going too fast into relations that are effecting you and in the long run you are going to get hurt. The effects that this experiences are very negative and because of the frequencies of them you are going to start mistrusting every man that try to get close to you and you are going to make wrong decisions. Take a brake and think it over and probably while you are on your brake the man of your dream will come to you, with out you looking for him. Good Luck.
2006-10-17 02:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God they left you. If they could just jump up and drop you then it is their lost not yours. God created someone just for you before the foundation of the earth. God know everything you want in a husband. Before you meet him you might meet a few other guys. Guard your heart, body and mind. There are guys that will take advantage of a young lady looking for love. Spend your free time looking for a church, reading the Bible. If you don't know God, Know that he love you so much that he sent his son Jesus to died on a cross for your sins. Jesus rose again on the 3rd day and he is now seated in heaven on the right hand side on God. Watch TBN. Find a local Youth Group join it. It will bless you!
2006-10-17 02:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by find my uncle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think maybe you've just not met the right person yet! I know, seems like complete and utter b o l l o x. But seriously, it will happen. The more you think about it, the less likely you are to find someone worth having. forget about needing / wanting to be with someone and just enjoy your life. The right people tend to come along when you least expect it!
2006-10-17 02:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first, maybe those 2 guys r just not interested in u.u want guys for all the wrong reasons.u want them coz u dont want to b lonely.maybe u should take some time off...like relax for awhile..go to spa,catch up with your girls..etc..then slowly,your personality change from depress and moody to bubbly and cute! then,maybe guys slowly starts to approach u seeing u at your best..then the relationship will work out.im scared of commitment too but im taking everything one step at a time.dont rush it."true love comes when u least expect it to" enjoy life.we dont need a man to cheer us up! :D
2006-10-17 02:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't think about a relationship so much. Just have fun with your friends and when the right guy comes along, you'll know it. Also--if you spend all your time with your boyfriend, that's not healthy and maybe that's why they break up with you. Just be your happy self and have fun wherever you are, even if you're not with him.
2006-10-17 02:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋