A guy was playing hard to get so the girl said she was giving up and wanted to go back to her old BF and he didn't want her too but still continue to play hard to get...he is 14..WTF
2006-10-17 01:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally its we women that play hard to get. Some guys will play around, to see how much the girl really wants them. This guy you talk about, needs to stop the game he's playing & see its not funny anymore, he's about to loose his girl to another guy. Women, like to be teased, but not played with, endlessly. They want a serious man, who will show her love, instead of making her go crazy. He is 14 so maybe he has some maturing to do. some guys have it, some dont. If he truly wants his girl, he had better act now, and Stop these hard 2get games.
2006-10-17 01:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he is 14 years old and he is still a little boy, teenagers act a certain way, for example he might be playing hard to get because he is really shy or intimidated by the girl.
On the other hand if the girl wants to go back out with her ex boyfriend than its her decision not because the other boy is playing hard to get but because she really wants to be with her ex boyfriend. I think you should not worry about guys playing hard to get. Like whoever you want to like and just have fun you are very young
2006-10-17 08:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think she should play hard to get too. Lots of guys out there that won't play games - she should move on. If these guys know about about each other, then she will never have a good relationship with either one. Make sure she knows School is more important then boys at this stage of the game. Plenty of time when one is graduated to go boy crazy. Oh and yes there are lots of players out there - so take your time and look for the good ones. Tell her good luck.
2006-10-17 08:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acne causes this weird behavior in adolescents.
First of all, the girl needs to grow up and mature, because she is "going back" to her old B/F in the event this guy doesn't come around.
Come on, grow up, literally. You are only 14, ownership is never a result of a relationship, and "having" to have a B/F shows you have serious insecurity issues.
The other kid probably likes her some, but doesn't want to be "tied down" by having a G/F, which is smart, because you are all to young to be playing this game.
Go home and hug your Mom's and Dad's. We don't get near enough of those. Let age and maturity handle the relationship issues.
Why so desperate?
Relax, be a kid. There is the rest of your life to be grown up, Believe me, once your there, you can't go back. Enjoy it while you can.
2006-10-17 08:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl should just forget about him. I mean if he's like that from the start and the girl is after him and he knows how he can PLAY her, then she's doomed!!! The girl should just forget about the old boyfriend because she probably doesn't love him or else she wouldn't be chasing this guy. She should just go out there and start meeting new people.
2006-10-17 08:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just showing off really. Trying to be a though guy. Kids always act stupid at that age. You just grow it off later. We have all been there. There are plenty fish in the sea, so never give up.
2006-10-17 08:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Vanilla C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
School should be more important in your life right now. Wait untill you are older... By then you'll be ready, and just maybe the boys will have matured into real men :)
2006-10-17 08:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants the girl to desire him (ego boost) but doesn't actually want to date the girl. My suggestion to the girl is to forget about him and date anyone else.
2006-10-17 08:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by lennox525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the point is these people are TOOOOOOOOOOO young to be playing hard to get , or for that matter "getting" with anyone period!!! live your life and , enjoy your youth, be a kid ..... there is plenty of time for adult things ....WHEN U BECOME AN ADULT !!!
2006-10-17 08:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is 14 what do you expect from him he is a child
2006-10-17 08:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋