I'm Elysium's friend. I'm 17 years old and i meet a guy also 17 when his gf was on holiday for 3 months (last year). He didn't tell me he has a gf (which, he later on said he lied coz he didnt want to lose me) He is dating the same girl but he's still also texting me. Meeting me, kissed several times and he says that he loves me.
I like him a lot too and i don't want to lose him. He's always telling me he's gonna break up with his gf soon. What shall i do???? I want him to leave her. I don't want to dump him. Eventhough on the other hand i know i'm not doing to right thing, it's just i love him.
2006-10-17 02:26:37 · 12 answers · asked by stargirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. He's holding you in the warm-up pen, just in case something happens with his current lady. That's is unless you don't mind being second string and picking up what's left over. If he was going to leave her HE WOULD HAVE ALREADY!
2006-10-24 19:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but it sounds like you need to leave him alone, first thing, is most of the time if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. And he makes all these promises and hasn't followed through because???? She has some terminal illness and he just can't seem to leave her, doesn't sound like it, sounds like he's just stringing you along, why should he break up with her, he can have both of you. He also started out lying to you, and you don't think he's done it since? Just think about it, maybe he's different than everyother man thats cheated, but just say he does actually leave are you going to be able to trust him and really think he wouldn't do the same to you........
2006-10-17 02:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by angesky2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is only using u for his fun and timepass when he is not with his other girlfriend. dont trust him , if he can cheat on his former girlfriend he is defenitely cheating on u too. this is truly going to give u a hardtime full of pain and sorrow if u continue with him, u r too young and dont spoil ur life . leave him just dump him as he is a cheat.
2006-10-17 02:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he won't stop cheating on u or her watever than say if he doesn't break up with his gf within the next week there is gonna b trouble and mean it if he doesn't break up with her he is nvr gonna so break up with him bsides this sounds like puppy love not real love as in the romance thing.
2006-10-17 02:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep as de brown haired avs said. If he is cheatin on her he will cheat on u too...den u can go and cut ur wrists or somethin..americans r major emo fu*ks lol
2006-10-17 02:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Squall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha! You THINK you love him! What should you do? Leave him, he obviously isn't reciprocating the feelings that you have for him. He is PLAYING you and you are letting yourself be PLAYED. You'll get hurt in the end, and you won't have anyone else to blame but YOURSELF.
2006-10-17 02:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you are not committing adultery so i would suggest try to find out why he is still with the girlfriend. because he could be inlove with both of you. don't sleep wake up and do some homework "wink"
2006-10-17 02:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by nomorepblm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should'nt go out with him if he's cheating now with you which is totally wrong he is gonna cheat on you later on imajine how his gf would feel if she found out two words how rude
2006-10-17 02:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never speak wit him again. right now you are teaching him how to be an unfaithful husband later, and believe me if he cheated on her, he will cheat on you too.
2006-10-17 02:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you 2 are mature enough, try the serrious talk about feelings for eachother. will be mature thing to do.
2006-10-17 02:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋