im a girl...for some reason almost all my friends are guys..im not sure why but it really bugs me that none of the girls want to hang out with me on weekends..like i have girl friends when i go to shcool and stuff..but for some reason they never want to hang out wiht me...no im not a loser even tho it sounds like it..im pretty attractive..and im nice..not bitchy or anything..i really dont understand it..and the guys i hang out with arent guys i like we just get along..and i dont want to hear you just fit in with guys more..theres got to be something wrong with me and i cant figure it out..it actyally makes me feel really sad so please help
2006-10-17 15:34:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls can be really catty, maybe they feel they're lacking something compared to you. They probably put on a front while they're with you in school. Its the way of the girl! But guys on the other hand can be really good, dependable and worthy friends if they are past that disrepectful pig-headed jerk phase. Don't feel bad you'll find that one girl friend who'll have your back maybe your looking for it in the wrong crowd. trust i've been there.
2006-10-17 15:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a guess, but it could possibly be that the girls are jealous of your friendship with the guys. You are in a position where you probably know a lot about your guy friends (secrets) and the girls are worried that you might not be able to keep their secrets. You know they might not trust your friendship. I know it sounds weird, but just think about when a guy gets married, it's very rare for him to still have the any female friends by the time the first year is up. Women have a hard time trusting other woman. Keep your chin up. There will be a female eventually that you will click with and be able to hang out with. In the meantime, just enjoy your guy friends. I'm sure their much more fun to hang with.
2006-10-17 22:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang around girls more and then they will get to know you and say that you are pretty cool and then they will hang out with you at the mall and spend the night at peoples houses and crap like that
2006-10-17 22:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should join clubs,hang out wit girl cuz or maybe even try to get closer to girls.but wat is wrong hanging out wit guys all the time i mean i do it and it don't bother me? just asking.
2006-10-17 22:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋