Singles & Dating - 17 October 2006

the kids are all under the age of 10,he's a great guy.she really messed this poor guys head up.i go see him now and then,he's a hard worker,and does an excellent job of raising his kids,comes home after workin hard all day,fixes their dinner,does the laundry...i'm tryin to be patient,cause i really like him,and we talk forever,about all kinds of things.he knows how I feel about him,he's one of my brothers best friends,and i have liked this guy for about 20 years.i know he's not in any hurry to be hurt agian,i can understand that.he know's me,and has since i was a baby.i don't want to scare him away,but ,how can I make this guy realize,not all women are alike?just cause she's a major flop,what do I have to do to get through to this guy?he's talked to my brother about me a few times,and said how it would be nice to have someone descent that he could trust.my brother told him he needs to tell me that,not him.lol.this guy is kind of shy though.need some real advice,not any sarcasim.THANKS

2006-10-17 16:35:21 · 14 answers · asked by curious1 3

it was the only way you could ever be with the one you loved.

2006-10-17 16:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by jas j 1

Tonight my girlfriend of 2 years didn't want to put out. I didn't act as angry as I felt inside. I made it seem like it wasn't a big deal. But on the inside, I was furious. I didn't want anything to do with her. And I got to thinking "Why am I so angry? I love this girl. I should respect her decision in not wanting to have sex." But I've heard that sometimes young people have a hard time telling the difference between attraction and affection. And I got to thinking, what if I have only been phsically attracted to this girl for 2 years, and her beauty and sexiness has fooled me into thinking that I love her? It sounds very stupid, but why else would I get so angry? I don't want to have those kinds of feelings, so why are they arising? If I don't actually love her then I feel like I will NEVER be able to love anyone, ever! Because I didn't flip out, we ended up messing around anyway... But still... I don't want to be ONLY phsically attracted to this girl!

2006-10-17 16:34:01 · 9 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2

I had my ex bf in my mailing address and I accidently sent him an invitation and my friends ex gf calls him and starts yelling at him. B/c he won't leave my friends ex gf's friend alone and he tells my friends ex gf's friend to tell me to leave him the F*ck alone. And then he tells my friend Hanna to tell me to stop sending him e-mails. And it was one e-mail. Why is he overreacting? Like this if he claims he doesn't like me and he likes my friends ex gf's friend.

2006-10-17 16:32:49 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

How are we ever gonna find an egg in all this ****?



HAHAHAHAHA, argghh, LOL

2006-10-17 16:31:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if so, how come? is there any man in the world who doesn't think it's a big deal even if the girl/woman doesn't have big boobs? im just wondering...

2006-10-17 16:31:30 · 10 answers · asked by honey_ugly 1

2006-10-17 16:31:24 · 18 answers · asked by confused 2

What are the signs? Guys, how do you show your affections for a girl you like? I am confused about this guy, and don't know if he likes me or not.

2006-10-17 16:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2

2006-10-17 16:29:50 · 1 answers · asked by aussiej 1

???? any ideas

2006-10-17 16:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your b/f lies about little things that dont even matter and then you tell him he's lieing and he deny's it?? what can you do?? i wanna try something with words first because i dont wanna let go not yet there is too much good in the relationship to just let it go...

2006-10-17 16:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Allright, it may sounds like I'm stupid ...
I've recently just broke up with my 6-yrs long relationship with my ex-bf. Needless to say I think I'm ready getting back to dating game. So, it's fair to say that I haven't been gone to the first date in a while. But past weekend, I did and it went great. But, he answered his cell phone during our date ... just briefly though. Evidently some of his friends asked him to go to a party and he said "well, can't really talk right now dudes ... I'm kinda busy ... yeah I'm on a date with a hot gal" ... Then he talked some more with his friends briefly and ended the phone. Ya' know it may sound stupid, but I really didn't know what he meant with calling me hot? I mean, cute or beautiful would've been better I think. I like him a lot but I do not want to sleep with him on our 2nd date. Any advice?

2006-10-17 16:27:11 · 15 answers · asked by Nicegal 2

How do you want guys hair down there to be? all natural, trimmed? how so?
How would you feel if a guy had a landing strip down there? Bald eagle??
And how do u keep it down there?? And does it change? and why?

2006-10-17 16:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by rasckal 3

it is the relationship water we are raised to swim in - rather obliviously and unquestioningly ...is it not is an old model we inherited from earlier generations for the survival of family and housholds and tribes?

Will it continue as the model for us? Is it still relevant?

2006-10-17 16:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3

2006-10-17 16:24:49 · 15 answers · asked by rasckal 3

Am I insane?
Yes, I have a stalker,
Kinda wierd when the shoe's on the other foot.

2006-10-17 16:23:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was not dating anyone and then I started hanging out with this guy who had a girlfriend well he cheated on her with me and now him and I are "openly" dating which is like the advanced friends with benefits, well he seems to be liking me a little bit more then friends with benefits ( I do know this because he told me) So what should I do just keep fooling around and not talk to him about it or should I ask him what he wants and if he says a relationship then I should break up with him?

2006-10-17 16:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by thelsntheatreowns 1

What would you do if your boyfriend told you he liked wearing girls panties? Would you give him some?
What would you do if he didn't tell you and just surprised you one day when you are about to have sex?

What if you were about to hook up with a random guy and he strips off his pants and he is wearing panties?
What if this random hook up asked to have your panties after you had sex, what would you do?

I know this is a lot to answer... but any help is appreciated.

2006-10-17 16:22:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Black Mafia 2

I just got out of a 4 year relationship and it is still very rough. my ex constantly calls and wants to know where i am at, what i am doing, and he gets very angry and threatens to do bad things. in the meantime, i am constantly being asked by guys to hang out or go out on dates or if they can have my phone number, and i am not ready for any other relashinships. How do i tell a guy they cannot have my phone number or that i am not interested in hanging out??

2006-10-17 16:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by Thomas L 1

My boyfriend of nearly 11 months left me last monday. I avoided him for a week until I gave in and came up to him to talk and try to be friends. We reconciled. He is a totally commitment-phobe. He gets scared so easily. It happened before. He came back after a week as well. (we were only together for a week when that happened the first time).

Now he says he wants to start fresh. all that puppy love crap. He wants to talk about us "today" and not too far into the future like before.

He wants a "regular" highschool boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

But I can't help but feel hurt that he doesn't want to talk about loving me. He wants to wait until we're older and who knows if we'll last that long?

He says he's not using me. He says that he respects me.

But what the hell, guys?

He's 18. A senior in high school. I'm a junior. He's leaving for college and will be in the state for 2 years.

Is he doing the right thing by slowing down like that?

2006-10-17 16:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by Gwyn 3

2006-10-17 16:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by babalu2 5

We spent like 7 hrs talking and he gave me a passionate kiss at the end. He called me that night to say thank you for a great time and actually said that he owed me dinner. Anyway, I emailed him the next day just to say hi or whatever y' know. He emailed me back to say hi back and actually called me later that night. So, I sort of told him that there's this movie I want to see and he said "I'd love to go see that with you sometime" and I suggested this weekend but then he said "I had to make sure something with my supervisor first and he said he'd call me back and let me know". Well, that was sunday ... and he emailed me on Monday just to say Hi but didn't mention anything about 2nd date. I know it's only Tuesday now but I really like him, so what should I do? Should I call him? I don't want him to feel like I'm clingy ... or should I wait till for his call? Any advices? Does he like me or just messing with me? I do know that he said he worked night shift at his work this wk

2006-10-17 16:15:44 · 2 answers · asked by Nicegal 2

I mean when you get in is the water always too hot or too cold and then when you get out its always cold

am i the only one or what???

2006-10-17 16:12:33 · 19 answers · asked by MAtt M 1

Ok, answer this q for me, title was for attention grabbing

I have dated some girls for a while but I tended to enjoy single life/pick up better. Now I have found a girl that is so beauful, smart and kind and I cannot control my thoughts, she is all I think about. From the first moment I saw her I knew she was special. But I don't know how to even approach her. I am so angry at myself because I feel like I am a 13 year old loser. I don't know what to say when I am around her, i don't know how to initiate converstaion with her, and I really don't want to screw it up because of the way I feel about her. I need some advice as to how to slowly establish a relationship with her that can potentially move onto somehthing else. I don't want answers like 'just walk up and ask her out' or 'just do it, what have you got to lose' I am at university and we aren't in the same degree although we share classes. Tell me what to do, Jumpy needs some advice for his damaged ego

2006-10-17 16:11:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 26 years old, and I'm still a virgin. I have had girlfriends, but have not progressed to that stage of the relationship, as I want it to be a special experience.

I've waited this long, and part of me thinks I should wait until I'm married. Another part of me thinks I should just get it out of the way.

I still want #1 to be a special experience. Do you think I'm way too old fashioned in this situation?

2006-10-17 16:10:21 · 32 answers · asked by Tiger1980 2

I know it sounds despret but i NEED HIM!!!!! And his name is Cole

2006-10-17 16:09:09 · 4 answers · asked by Caroline D. 2