Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

so i'm a girl, in college and theres this guy i'm into. we get along so well and we have so much in common. i'm pretty sure he likes me and we;ve sort of gone out a few times.
the problem is that he's had a few serious girlfriends while i've only had a few very casual boyfriends. i haven't actually been kissed either, just little pecks.
so my question is, if you really like someone would you be put off if they were really inexperienced? what if the first time you kissed it was awkward? what if they seemed a little shy or distant at times? would you be willing to move slow? if the girls good looking does that make any difference?
i'm just nervous i'm gonna mess everything up because i don't know what i'm doing :(

2006-10-15 15:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been haveing these dreams/nightmares of being raped by a teacher at the school i go to. I've always thought that he was cute or hot, but i don't think of him in that way. And sometimes he flirts with me and hits on me at school, could this be why i dream of him that way? So why am i having these dreams/nightmares? Help!

2006-10-15 15:32:14 · 7 answers · asked by Loverrr girl 1

body paint.... lie down on a big canvas.... and make our "own painting"....should I consider doing it?

How's that for capturing the "moment".... hmmm.....

2006-10-15 15:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by Uwanna Kissimmi 6

He had problems (insensitive, selfish, cheap, etc) but I still feel like I did something wrong or was not worthy. Rationally, I know he was not a good person and was not good to me. But emotionally, I find myself sitting here judging myself and being wounded. I hate it. How do I stop feeling like a victim and move on?

2006-10-15 15:30:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u are in a long distant relationship and you go on a so called date well to a dance and afterwards you go down on him is it considered cheating. should you tell that person if he is overprotective, overbearing, and has extreme anger probs?

2006-10-15 15:29:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my boyfriend and I have sex, he never c*ms, I do though. When I do, he wants to stop. What do I do to get him more excited during sex???

2006-10-15 15:28:16 · 33 answers · asked by hpdrew15 4

I found out when I read a chat log between them. They were talking about the time the had sex. I dumped her for it but he dose'nt know I found out. She did'nt tell him. I think they are still seeing each other. Now I have to look at this jerk every day. I want to smash his stupid face but I love my job. What would you do?

2006-10-15 15:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 15:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by lovelylady 2

my darling "him him" is my crush. his name is sam. he is perfect in every way. i love his eyes, his voice, his face..... he's great! but he doesn't like me. my friend Ally told him i liked him and he told my other friend Sammie that i scared him and that i was a spaz. i am not a spaz. well anyway
i love him so much, he's even the same religion as me, so there is a chance.
he just keeps breaking my heart. behind these hazel eyes.....
he flirts with this girl named Eva, this other girl named Casey, Ann, so many other girls! as soon as he found out i liked him he's pretty much avoid me. my heart is just breaking and having a heart time healing. i can't stand it! i often catch him staring at me and i love him so much but no, his heart just has to belong to Casey. it hurts so much! i don't know how to make him love me. advice please? thank you.

2006-10-15 15:23:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

One that will not get me thrown in jail preferably....

2006-10-15 15:22:38 · 34 answers · asked by ... 6

Well i like this girl so much and she's 1 year younger than me. I really want her to notice me but i only have 1 class with her and that is gym. She has been on some of my teams and she has given me some high fives here and there and ocasionally smiles at me. I try so hard to impress her since i am really good in sports. But a lot of times i get nervous. Like the other day we were playing soccer and i fell right on my face. And she helped me up... ♥ What do you think i should do to get her attention? I really need help please!

2006-10-15 15:21:59 · 21 answers · asked by Chris 1

My boyfriend and I are 4 years apart. He just got a new apartment and he doesn't have much extra money, and I have no extra money. I'm getting a little tired of going over to his house and playing video games/watching movies/hanging with our friends. I want to do something different and inexpensive. What can we do???

2006-10-15 15:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by hpdrew15 4

Do you like to make out in public? Are public displays of affection your metier? What is the most daring thing you've done in public, and did you enjoy it?

2006-10-15 15:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always talk to guys like I talk to girls. I have fun and just be myself. I say my problems and just always tell the truth. Guys always ask me out and get the wrong idea of me when I say no as if I'm a tease. Then sometimes when I say yes to a guy they think that I can be treated like I'm a toy while being used. What can I do to stop this? I mean I am seriously cluelous!!

2006-10-15 15:17:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend asked me to marry him on april 2 of this year.For my birthday in june he bought me the ring i picked out, the thing is i still don't have it on my hand. He bought it for me but he still hasn't given it to me. My whole family knows that he asked me to marry him ( i called them that day and told them.) Although i've developed a great relationship with his family (we've gone on vacations together) he still to this day has not told them that he asked me to marry him. i don't know what to do about it. should i tell him that if he doesn't love me enough to tell them that it's not good enough for me? I need some good advice. what could he possibly be waiting for it's been 6 months since he asked me to marry him.

2006-10-15 15:17:39 · 18 answers · asked by kristiem1984 1

So I told my friend that i wanted to be more than friends. He said he doesn't think of me like that. Ouch, but ok. Now what I want to know is WHY he isn't interested. Does he just not feel a spark? Doesn't find me attractive? Or is it likely to be something more personal (ie: doesn't like my personality)?

What I really want to know is is it ok to ask him why or will that put him on the spot and intimidate him? Is it likely to put our friendship under more pressure?

2006-10-15 15:17:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the second time I found out he is cheating on me. Should I lose him or try to keep him and give him one more chance?

2006-10-15 15:17:34 · 27 answers · asked by ... 6

2006-10-15 15:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 and i have beed going out with my boyfriend for over a year. I really love him, and we are thinking about sex. He suggested it over the summer, but i didn't feel ready, and said no. He stopped asking.
But lately, i have been thinking about it more and more. I know there is a chance that i could get pregnant if i do it. what are the best ways to prevent pregnancy? i know that i need to use a condom to protect from STDs, but is there anything i can use as a backup plan in case it breaks?
please don't everyone thll me to wait till i'm married or to wait till i'm 18!

2006-10-15 15:15:31 · 16 answers · asked by 2QT 2B STR8 <3 2

i was just wondering what makes a girl hott??!?!?

2006-10-15 15:14:49 · 16 answers · asked by me.. :) 2

2006-10-15 15:14:07 · 22 answers · asked by Helloooo Nurse! 1

i have a problem./ I am in a serious relationship and i have been in one for a year and a half. I have been hanging out with a guy, that is a friend but here lately theres an attraction and things have gotton out of hand a bit. he's in a relationship also, but he keeps sending me mixed signals one minute he's being a friend next it seems like he is more. What could this mean and what do i do? my bf is long distance. his gf is here.

2006-10-15 15:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

a boy at school likes me and i like him. but we are both too shy to say the first words to eachother. all my friends keep telling me to just go up to him and talk. but im just too scared to.what should i do? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I you have any suggestions email me at brandog90@yahoo

2006-10-15 15:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by brandi 2

my girl isn't poor but her parents don't support her, and I do, therefore I get her whateva she needs, when I get broke I don't ask her, cos she doesn't have any. She loved me so much, she would have done anything for me. suddenly, her feelings changed, just at once, so she dumped me! I know she didn't use me, so don't tell me she used me, I understand that feelings get changed, but not that fast, I tried to get her back, but she was so harsh, and she asked me just to forget her. It's been a week now, and I just can't stop thinking about her. Next door where I live, there's a beautiful chick, she wants me and she says that she could be better for me. But I still wanna my girl back, and I'm not ready for any relationship. My ex now says that it wasn't excited and what annoyed her more that I used my money to attract her! what the fcuk! not excited! how can I have money and not offering it to who I love? I know it's not a valid reason. I dunno, should I try again to get her back? or what

2006-10-15 15:08:57 · 15 answers · asked by Qonsul * 2

I got caught cheating for the second time, is a cheater always a cheater or is there any hope for me.. like can a leopard change its spots?

2006-10-15 15:08:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

a girl 20 years old. 5'4" 106 lbs. pretty face, slight resembelence to angelina jolie, very blue eyes, full lips, a few freckles, pale skin, long straight dark brown hair, kind of skinny but with an hourglass shape, kind of flat chested, intelligent, very sarcastic, can be kind of shy, also can be crazy when with the right people.
just curious and bored so humor me pretty please.

2006-10-15 15:08:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way to let a guy down easy? i know that they dont like to hear the whole "i value our friendship" thing, so what do i say?

2006-10-15 15:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by cali_baby 2

She is great, but we are 2 very different people. She is outgoing, spontaneous, and fairly straight-forward. I am more reserved, regimented and subtle. But our goals are the same which is why we work, simply b/c we appreciate our differences. I just want to know...

She has always been a free spirit. I never want to hold her back b/c that is exactly what I most cherish about her. But I need to know that she knows that I like her unsolicited attention from time to time. She is very busy, working like crazy and the only sure way to see her with any regularity is to set up dates in advance. Anyone else going through anything like this? I am so torn between wanting more of her time and giving her every inch I can manage to w/out suffocating myself. What the hell is my problem? Please give frank, honest answers, b/c I want this girl forever but it looks like we've got some things to learn about each other. What can I do for me, us? Suggestions?

2006-10-15 15:05:30 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6

2006-10-15 15:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

No he is not gay, he is 6´2´´ weighs 167 lbs., is bi-lingual like me, has an IQ of 136 (+/- ), has a B.A degree in management, is very witty and funny in both languages, does not drink or do drugs and has had a lot of girlfriends ( american, mexican, guatemalan, Salvadoran ) all of whom have asked him to marry them or live in together but as soon as he hears the word marriage he gets cold feet and ends up saying no, he was immature about that but now he says he is ready, my wife has tried to get him to meet her single friends ( most of them in their 45s or 47s ) but here is the catch: he does not look 49, he has some silver hairs on the sides but no wrinkles, and since he exercises his body doesn´t look as a 49er and frankly the women look either his age or older, he says that he is doomed and he won´t find anyone, is it true that if you don´t get married by certain age you better forget it?, should he look for younger women? what ages? where? how should he go about meeting wowen?

2006-10-15 15:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by Dang it 2