She is great, but we are 2 very different people. She is outgoing, spontaneous, and fairly straight-forward. I am more reserved, regimented and subtle. But our goals are the same which is why we work, simply b/c we appreciate our differences. I just want to know...
She has always been a free spirit. I never want to hold her back b/c that is exactly what I most cherish about her. But I need to know that she knows that I like her unsolicited attention from time to time. She is very busy, working like crazy and the only sure way to see her with any regularity is to set up dates in advance. Anyone else going through anything like this? I am so torn between wanting more of her time and giving her every inch I can manage to w/out suffocating myself. What the hell is my problem? Please give frank, honest answers, b/c I want this girl forever but it looks like we've got some things to learn about each other. What can I do for me, us? Suggestions?
2006-10-15 15:05:30 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i have to say is that you need to talk to her
2006-10-15 15:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My life is very similar to yours. My girlfriend is exaclty the same. outgoing, friendly. I used to not see her a lot because she used to work in the city and I lived about an hour and a half away. If you want to stay with her forever you have to committ big time. Wherever she is, you have to go see her. Try at least once to make it a suprise. I'm sure she misses you but you're the one who has to make the moves. About her being so different from you, just remember . . . opposites attract!
2006-10-15 22:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan "Batman" Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said, "but it looks like we've got some things to learn about each other.". Think about it...
You probably already know your answer.
I also think if she loves you, you would be the bright shining star in the middle of her busy day/week that she would make time for.
2006-10-15 22:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds a lot like my boyfriend i guess all you can do is be there and let her know how much you love her don't complain or blame her and talk to her
2006-10-15 22:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by angie!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and dicuss this with her and see wat happens
2006-10-15 22:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋