My boyfriend and I are 4 years apart. He just got a new apartment and he doesn't have much extra money, and I have no extra money. I'm getting a little tired of going over to his house and playing video games/watching movies/hanging with our friends. I want to do something different and inexpensive. What can we do???
2006-10-15 15:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by hpdrew15 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, depending on where the two of you live, there has to be plenty of free or low cost activities to engage in! If you live in or near a city, there must be days when (museums, clubs, etc.) admission is free. Check online or in a magazine that covers events in your location and see what events and activities are coming up that are free and low cost.
Besides that you guys need to add some variety to your relationship. Instead of hanging out with friends, spend time together and take a walk in the park or along the beach. Plan a picnic or outdoor lunch. Take up a hobby or exercise together. Go to a bookstore, or library together.
Even if you guys stay at home do different things! Cut off the video games and TV and have a conversation, Make up some romantic games you can play together. Get a bunch of index cards and write things down that you'd like each other to do (like give a massage or read romantic poetry or make a romantic dinner, etc.). Make it a point that the person has to commit to fulfilling what the other person wishes on the card and then take turns getting each wishes granted.
2006-10-15 15:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a list:
1) go to a nice, big book store like Indigo where they don't mind u reading the material and just look and read magazines and books. It's actually a really nice and calming experienxe- it's quite an intimate act too since it involves little talking, it's best to do with someone you've known for some time and are comfortable with. I did this with my bf and it was so much fun!
2) renting movies - it's cheaper than going to the theatres.
3) taking a walk around your area or somewhere else and just talking - you may learn something new about each other.
4) playing sports - its fun and free and lets u touch each other and flirt!!!
OK that's all i can think of now, but trust me on the book store thing, you'll like it:)
2006-10-15 22:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Alton towers for the day . I did this last year ! It was such great day just me and the girl of my dreams .
You could also Start the Gym Together . Help each other out cooking and things . Just keep each other happy but talking about everything and sharing everything x x x
Good Luck J X
2006-10-15 22:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For?
Romance: Pack some food and go to the park for a night time picknik, take some candles.
For Fun: For free stuff, just go to a club early before 5pm and eat free, or go on ladies night when ladies drink free, ask him to walk in after you, then no cover for you.
Go to the beach at night, if you have one near you.
2006-10-15 22:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be in the same situation like yours. we prepare home packed food then go biking around the park, sometimes we make camp by the beach & cook our food. BUT if you want to try something new, do some volunteer work in your local church or homes - you will not get paid but at least you get free snack & a deeper self satisfaction.
2006-10-15 22:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find yourself a man for casual sex! may not be every 1 solution but then again " life is for the living" e- mail me for more information!
2006-10-16 04:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by afroman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to go, and go, drive and drive and not to see the same faces, building go to parks, barbecue or just seating and love the empty space, peace and freedom in the mind.
2006-10-15 22:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR A WALK AND GET ICE CREAM, SIT DOWN TO A CANDLE LIT DINNER TOGETHER, PLAY A BOARD GAME...LOL, AT LEAST IT NOT A VIDEO GAME, PLAY TWISTER:)
2006-10-15 22:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you could go to the beach!!! and just walk around and stuff! thats always fun! or just go to the mall or something! or you could have a romantic dinner just you two
2006-10-15 22:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a wlak, go for a picnic, read the free gigs guide, get a hobby to do togeather, go for a drive,
2006-10-15 22:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋