I got caught cheating for the second time, is a cheater always a cheater or is there any hope for me.. like can a leopard change its spots?
2006-10-15 15:08:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would think so. cause if you're not happy with your current GF, then you'll always find a way to see someone else behind her back to satisfy your desires.
and you're not alone! trust me..i would say atleast 50% of couples have cheated. weather you're married, engaged, in a relationship~whatever.
we all want someone to come home to, but @ the same time we want excitement by going out with some1 else whom we don't have strings attached with. it's all a natural feeling~ but only do so..if you're ready for the consequences.
2006-10-15 15:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not believe a cheater will always be a cheater. Look inside your self and (your real inner self) and try to find out what makes you cheat. If need be, talk to a counselor because cheating may one day cost you a person you love deeply, and maybe even a spouse if you do not get to the root of the problem now. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 15:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but once a cheater always a cheater. My X , at the time we were together for 9 years cheated and I just could get over it. So, I left. Once the trust is gone, it's gone.
2006-10-15 15:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you cheat and still sleep at night is what I want to know! A Cheater is always a cheater! Especially if you've gotten caught twice.
2006-10-15 15:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by bluechicken818 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheaters will always be cheaters UNTIL they realize that what they are doing is childish and WRONG.
My best friend cheated on his 1st wife and of course that marriage ended in divorce.
He later became a Christian and realizes that what he did was wrong. He is happily married to a wonderful woman and never even looks at another.
You can change if you want to but you need to realize what it is that causes you to cheat.
Making a commitment requires acceptance of responsibility.
2006-10-15 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hope it is in your blood to cheat and hurt other people,what gos around comes around,one day when you are settled down and in love it will be your turn,that's how a cheaters life works out.waiting for your turn I hope.
2006-10-15 15:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. I don't think there is any hope for you. Are you addicted to sex or what is it? I don't understand what can make a person cheat. Sorry!
2006-10-15 15:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater always a cheater... but if you make up your mind about not cheating and you have a strong will then it is possible to get over cheating...
2006-10-15 15:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES a cheater is always a cheater! Cheaters do it for the thrill of the forbidden! Its a buzz they get off of it! It's like a drug!
2006-10-15 15:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can change your spots, but you have to get honest with yourself about why you cheat. You're unhappy with yourself, not with any partner you may have. I would venture to say that you're not completely mature, either. It takes a lot of maturity to take responsibility for one's self. If you find yourself in a relationship you're not happy with it takes quite a bit to be able to talk it over, and walk away if necessary. It's easy to cheat, and break up over that, rather than what the issue was in the first place. So, if you're willing to do the work, you can change.
2006-10-15 15:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by ICanCan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋