if u are in a long distant relationship and you go on a so called date well to a dance and afterwards you go down on him is it considered cheating. should you tell that person if he is overprotective, overbearing, and has extreme anger probs?
2006-10-15 15:29:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont really even think that you need to ask. If your boyfriend goes down on a girl, would you consider it cheating on you? I'm sure you would, so.... yeah.... same would go for you. Of course it's cheating and yeah, you should tell the guy no matter what. If he was that bad of a guy, you shouldn't be with him anyways.
2006-10-15 15:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by fayra_elm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First if you are with someone that is overprotective, overbearing and has extreme anger problems I would say get out of the relationship it probably isn't going to work but that is just me.
Second, should you tell him, probably not because he is overprotective, overbearing and has extreme anger problems.
And lastly yes it is cheating, if you are in a relationship with someone and you both have decided to be together you have cheated.
Even having a personal, emotional conversation with another man is cheating. It is called an emotional affair. It is cheating.
2006-10-15 15:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hedgie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are trying to skirt all around the issue -- THAT YOU DID CHEAT. You performed an intimate sexual act on someone besides your significant other. Why you did this is a totally separate issue. If you still wonder whether what you did was cheating, how would you feel if your boyfriend did, or had the same thing done to him?
Whether you should tell him is another issue totally. I am not one to suggest keeping secrets, but if you are willing to stay with your boyfriend, and there is NO WAY for him to find out what you did, much less that you went out with someone else, I would not tell him. It is better for his mental health and your physical health.
If you feel that you cheated due to the long distance and feel that you are missing out on life, then you should end the relationship with your current boyfriend GENTLY, and DO NOT MENTION the event that occurred.
2006-10-15 15:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well going to a dance with someone who is your friend, is not cheating. If he thought of you as more than just a friend, it's still not. If you went down on him on purpose, you cheated. If he pulled you down on him, and you didn't get off immediately, you cheated. Name calling your boyfriend is not the way to handle things. If you want to keep your boyfriend, apologize. After all, he's only jealous because he cares for you. If your intentions were innocent, tell him that. I mean he's a guy. Guys never get anything right the first time.
2006-10-15 15:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , sounds like your not happy in that long distance relation , and going down on another man and on a date is cheating . you need to tell the man your in a relationship with that your not ready to be serious and that you want to see other men . don't make him a fool by playing him , he doesn't deserve that .
2006-10-15 15:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about your long dist relationship if the person has traits like that? Sounds like you are having fun without him, although I would question the wisdom of intimate contact on a "so-called date." I would think long and hard about what you want for yourself.
2006-10-15 15:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by bozogirl123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn You are sucking some dudes pecker other than your so call boyfriend and you asked if its cheating? Wise up. Until you break it off with the long distance guy.. Yes you are cheating on him!
2006-10-15 15:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mmmm well i think that would be classed as cheating but then it does not sound like you want to continue the long distance relationship anyway --- it sounds like he has a lot of problems
2006-10-15 15:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would consider that cheating and you should break up with him and do the things u like that doesnt hurt anyone in the future
2006-10-15 15:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I don't consider it cheating, you are just exercising your lips and jaw when you go down on him. You are also doing some thing that you enjoy and there is nothing wrong with that. Did he go down on you, i sure would have. Its the same as masturbating while your spouse or bf/gf is away, its that cheating, heavens no it isn't. One last think, did you enjoy is ????
2006-10-15 15:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋