i have a problem./ I am in a serious relationship and i have been in one for a year and a half. I have been hanging out with a guy, that is a friend but here lately theres an attraction and things have gotton out of hand a bit. he's in a relationship also, but he keeps sending me mixed signals one minute he's being a friend next it seems like he is more. What could this mean and what do i do? my bf is long distance. his gf is here.
2006-10-15 15:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to have his cake and eat it too. if you feel like you dont want to be in your ld relationship, its time to dead it. specially since you're into another guy. kick both of them to the curb.
2006-10-15 15:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by project_twenty9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how invested you are in your current relationship, but it sounds like you may be interested in getting together with him. If he makes a blatant move, you should make it clear that you will not get involved with him if he still has a GF (very unfair to her). If you are both willing to break up your current relationships, there is no reason not to give him a try. If he won't, DON"T be the other woman. He will never respect you, and will only be using you. If he is really into you, he will have no trouble letting her down easy. Don't buy any BS about "I'm GOING to tell her, but I don't want to hurt her". He'll never tell her if he can have it both ways.
2006-10-15 22:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the guy will jump you for a quick bit then back to his girlfriend. You are not spending enough time and attention with your boyfriend. Nothing will happen if you don't think about what could happen. Good Luck.
2006-10-15 22:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by storyteller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a gf there and is sincere with her, he should be with her. Be forward ~~ ask him openly what his intentions are. In all probability, he is just using you because he wants someone on the side for sex or something. Be careful, do not get hurt, and good luck!
2006-10-15 22:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are smart then you will kick him to the curve, Live is just to dam short to be overwhelmed by Bulls bowels movement. The sea if full just go back to fishing for I am sure that he is doing just that.....................
2006-10-15 22:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it right away. If you don't, somebody will end up hurt and very disappointed.
2006-10-15 22:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship you are allready in duh. would you want your man to do this to you? plus he is just palying ya.
2006-10-15 22:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋