I always talk to guys like I talk to girls. I have fun and just be myself. I say my problems and just always tell the truth. Guys always ask me out and get the wrong idea of me when I say no as if I'm a tease. Then sometimes when I say yes to a guy they think that I can be treated like I'm a toy while being used. What can I do to stop this? I mean I am seriously cluelous!!
2006-10-15 15:17:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just start setting boundaries for yourself, if one guy sees someone treating you that way then they all will. stand up for yourself but still have fun
2006-10-15 15:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by nickdog1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can flirt and be friendly but you need to set limits on what behaviour you will accept from guys. Than stick to those limits. It doesn't matter if he's georgeous and charming or that your comfortable letting him treat you like a toy at first. If he gets a little, he'll always want more. If he gets alot, he will still want more! Also, show them that you respect yourself and they will respect you. But remember you aren't responsible for their thoughts, if they are reading more into your actions then you are meaning, that's their problem not yours. You will find out as you get older that flirting becomes more and more fun and better interpreted by the guys you'll meet.
All the best!
2006-10-15 22:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be single till you find the right guy. Just be friends with all the guys till you find a good guy that treats you with respect.Find a guy that likes you for you and doesn't want you for the wrong reasons like sex.Cause thats what alot of guys want and think when they see a cute girl.God made sex for marrage to have with your spouse not with all the guys you date,sex is a Gift from God not a game.The way you dress could have something to do with it too.If you dress slutty it could give guys the wrong idea too.But be yourself and its ok to be single till you find a guy that treats you good and likes you for being yourself.Dont change for anyone always be yourself.
2006-10-15 22:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by littleshygui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to seem mean, but men treat you as you act. You have to be a lady at all times. You cannot be lewd, laugh at raunchy jokes, then expect them to treat you as a lady. There is a time and place for everything. You can have male friends, you can be polite with them, but there is a barrier that you should not want them to cross because they picture you as a lady. They will treat women according to what they think of you, remember that.
2006-10-15 22:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know guys talk between themselves just like girls do. The best thing to do is say no to all the guys and that will solve your problems. Maybe saying no until you find someone to care about and he cares about you.
2006-10-15 22:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool that your comfortable around guys, but the question to ask your-self are you too comfortable around guys? How do you dress? Maybe the way you dress sends the wrong message. Has word gotten around that if guys pay enough attention to you, you'll have sex with them? These are just some things to evaluate.
2006-10-15 22:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have bad luck with who you go. Maybe you just behave the way and how the guys treat you - Toy, but nothing series to have.
2006-10-15 22:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know the guy better before doing anything --- the guys should treat you with respect not as a toy
2006-10-15 22:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush to give it up. Take your time and get to know the person first. Not that you haven't but really know the person before you dive into a relationship if you really want it to last.
2006-10-15 22:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play the chase game, give a lil then expect to receive allot, dont give in too quickly, let the man work a lil or alot depending on the man.
2006-10-15 22:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by SIR LEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋