my darling "him him" is my crush. his name is sam. he is perfect in every way. i love his eyes, his voice, his face..... he's great! but he doesn't like me. my friend Ally told him i liked him and he told my other friend Sammie that i scared him and that i was a spaz. i am not a spaz. well anyway
i love him so much, he's even the same religion as me, so there is a chance.
he just keeps breaking my heart. behind these hazel eyes.....
he flirts with this girl named Eva, this other girl named Casey, Ann, so many other girls! as soon as he found out i liked him he's pretty much avoid me. my heart is just breaking and having a heart time healing. i can't stand it! i often catch him staring at me and i love him so much but no, his heart just has to belong to Casey. it hurts so much! i don't know how to make him love me. advice please? thank you.
2006-10-15 15:23:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didn't mean "make him love me" i meant should i change for him or what?
2006-10-15 15:27:55 · update #1
and FYI i am not a pervert or a sex addict or anything like that! and neither is he!
2006-10-15 15:28:38 · update #2
You CANT make anyone do anything. There is no spell that exist for people to fall in love. You CANT change his opinion/mind. Move on and crush on someone else. He doesn't like you. He spelled it it out for you already.
2006-10-15 15:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by project_twenty9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey dont get mad when i tell you, but.......... Your a SPAZ!!!
He is looking at you b/c he cant believe that you like him. You cant make someone like you not possible, He is going through hormones now anyway thats why he is flirting... At best what will happen is you will keep trying and eventually he will give in b/c you will be an easy lay and then he will forget you ever existed until he needs a lay again... MOVE ON!!!!!
2006-10-15 22:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Laprincessa1182 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
step back and take a look at how you act around him that he would call you a spaz. do you get all nervous or jittery or babble out of control. if so walk right up to him tell him your only a spaz around him because he makes your brain turn to mush.. maybe he will look at you diffrently when he knows he does that to you.. good luck..
2006-10-15 22:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Robert H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times the hardest thing to do is move on...But if not ur gonna miss some great things in life like meeting someone that will love you maybe if you move on he will show interest or maybe not only time will tell
2006-10-15 22:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by peace_maker0521 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you dont know him enough to say that you love him. Do you know anything about him other than what he looks like, and who he likes. Lets start there. What is his favorite food? What kind of music does he like? What is his favorite passtime? Who is his best friend? Perhaps if you get to know him first then you can see if it is true love you are feeling or if it is just infatuation. Start by being his friend then go from there.
2006-10-15 22:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, u cant force someone to love you....what i suggest is......while u r head over heels in love with him...just date other guys...who knows, u might even start loving someone else just as much...dont crave for sam...just live ur life and if he loves u, an dif ur "meant to be" then eventually u guys would get together....good luck
2006-10-15 22:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you dont know what love is...there's plenty of fish in the sea. Im sure you are a sweet girl who could get any guy if you wanted....go play the field and leave him wondering why he gave up on the best thing he couldda had :)
2006-10-15 22:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Savant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called infatuation not love, true love is far deeper than you think, love at first sight only works when it is both parties feeling it not just one.Get a clue and find someone who likes you.
2006-10-15 22:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "make" him love you, it's not meant to be. You deserve better. I know it hurts, but time will heal...plus, you sound young, so there will be plenty of other guys you'll develop crushes on
2006-10-15 22:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make some one love you, it either happens or it doesn't. But if you really wan't him to like you, stop making it look like your desperate, try playing hard to get, or making it seem like you are to good for him, that might make him think twice about you.
2006-10-15 22:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by rex_pingu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋