Singles & Dating - 10 October 2006

I love my boyfriend, but i'm too scared to tell him. He tells me he likes me, and vise-versa, and he's told me he loves me two or three times, but each time he's said it he was drunk. Once was after this party when we went to bed, right b4 we fell asleep he told me he loved me. I didn't say anything back cuz well, he was drunk. He dosen't seem to recall saying it (not that i've asked him) but he hasn't mentioned it at all, or said it while he was sober. Does the truth come out when hes drunk? or is it just cuz he was drunk? Should I wait and not scare him away?

2006-10-10 07:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

personaly I WOULD NOT!!!!

2006-10-10 07:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by boxer 2

She says she loves me & want to rebuild faith in me, but keeps me away from my friends by trying to be around me always. She thinks a guy & girl can never be friends. Everytime I get social with someone (even my family members!) she feels she is losing me, in the sense that I find someone else interesting. I get frustrated as she doubts my intentions & questions me too much. Her suspiciousness in every action of mine gets us fighting and she feels sorry later. But this cycle has been happening twice every week since last 1.5 yrs. I tried ending this relationship but she threatned to kill herself as she has nobody else in her life, etc. (she even injured her wrist once). If we fight, she stops eating food & medicine (for Psoriasis). I feel like I am stuck as I certainly do not want her to harm herself but also I cannot live emotionally abused. Not sue if I love her or I have sympathy for her. Not sure if she loves me or considers me as a support system for her life. Not sure what to do

2006-10-10 07:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

she lives in east wenatchee washington

2006-10-10 07:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by angela c 1

i have feelings for someone that is alot older than me but people keep telling me that its not right, im too young to understand and that when im older ill know what they are talking about. Im over 18. can you help me understand why i shouldnt get involved with them?

2006-10-10 07:43:33 · 16 answers · asked by Janice 1

A couple weeks ago I met this really great drummer who was really nice and was so kind. A couple days after meeting him I met a guy who happened to really like me. The thing is I don't like him and I like the drummer. I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings what should I do? I can easily get in touch with the drummer but I don't want the guy to be mad at me for it.

2006-10-10 07:41:59 · 16 answers · asked by Nic 2

I have this guy that iv been with for a few years... i dont want to get all into our busness to much, i just was woundering if anybody would know how i can eather leave him nicelly or a nice way to tell him "hey look your not providing for me and my son, so you need to step it up a notch?" ,...lol i really dont know how to ask this question right i just need help... i love him, but dont want to be with him... there thats better..... ok so any idea what i should do?.. and please if your just ganna be a smart a** then just dont answer this question please just go to the next one... Thanks

2006-10-10 07:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Just me... 1

The man I am with seems to be overly too excited to see me at times.
I’m not sure if it’s the fact the women who look like I do normally don’t date guys like him.
However I do like him for who he is, after being hurt from ‘hot guys’ it got old. I was burned in the worst possible way.
So I wonder if it’s the fact that I’m the ‘foxiest’ thing he’s dated or if he’s worried that someone like him wouldn’t date someone who looks like I do.
I also worry that he will get paranoid that someone might steal my attention as well. He wants to spend free time with me, which is okay, however I am independent. I enjoy our time, but I worry that he’s scared to lose me. It’s the beginning of our relationship and unlike my past loves we have opposite rolls, where I am the independent and he seems to be dependent on me.

I don’t think he’s in-love with me because of the time frame. He was overly happy I cooked for him, he asked why he was being treated so well?

2006-10-10 07:40:25 · 9 answers · asked by Juleette 6

I'm a 20+ female. I'm looking for love in all the wrong places. I'm tried of all the game. All the money hungry women. I want someone who is going to be 50-50 with everything.

2006-10-10 07:40:05 · 3 answers · asked by Brownsugar 2

....i think we all have had, or still do have daydreams about things we would like to do...or have.... question is.....do you pursue any of those dreams to make them come true ??....or are you the daydreamer that is happy with just dreaming.........

2006-10-10 07:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by juslookin 5

do i just come out and tell him. i don,t want to hurt his feeling.but i do love him. but when we get married i don,t want him to smile. because he olny have three teeth.what do i need to say to him.

2006-10-10 07:39:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 07:38:48 · 3 answers · asked by saravanane71 1

i told a bloke,a bloke who i been getting on last night that i really did like him and he said he liked me too but he is messed up in the head at the mo he has just split up with his gf but what does it mean does he like me or not plz help

2006-10-10 07:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by Nickie 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and never has he had a girl that is his friend. Girls have always flirted with him in his classes but he always ignored or avoided them...until this semester. Early on this semester a girl kept showing up in some of his classes and he told me she was annoying and tried to ignore her but eventually gave in...i guess...and now they study together every tuesday for 3 hours. It started being at 1230 and its at 12. She calls, texts him, gives him stuff and compliments him all the time. They both think its funny that I feel uncomfortable about this and everytime he talks about her or I bring her up he gets this stupid grin on his face.He says he likes having her has a friend..give me a break. I told him he either stops studying with her or i will leave. he said if he stops studying with her now I will always give him this ultimatum and it will never stop. am i wrong for feeling this way...does he really need girls for friends??

2006-10-10 07:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

is someone trying to get in touch w/me but somethings wrong???

2006-10-10 07:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by boxer 2

pliz!!!tell me...i'm working so hard so i can move away cause it will hurt me to see this person with someone else...and why in hell are in the group of people that can get over someone easy and just star dating someone else..NO!! i have to be in that group that is goint to take us years to get over that person!!!LIFE SUCKS COMETIMES!!!

2006-10-10 07:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by nhng06 1

i was in love with a girl but she got married and moved, now her sister has crush on me and she know the story of her sis and me, she's young and wild and i can't b with her and i don't want to hurt her, what do u think?

2006-10-10 07:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do women think its ok to hurt men physically like kicking him in the nuts. Now most men walk away when this happenes, but I have seen a few men fight fight back and do way worse to the girl then she did to him. Why is it that although she started it, it's the man who gets labeled the asshole and not her.

2006-10-10 07:35:40 · 19 answers · asked by 571234 6 1

Last year I meet a wonder guy who is 13 years older than I am. After dating him for about a year i intriduced him to my mom. I was shocked to find out that he was her first boyfriend and lover. My mom said it did not bother her that we were dating.

The catch is that my grandmother told me that my mom was still in love with Chet. I have began to notice that since Chet and I moved in together my mom has started to visit a lot and when she does she wears shorty shorts, low cut shirts and often only wears a thong under her dresses or skirts.

Chet says he was way over mom a long time ago. I asked mom and she said she was over Chet but he still had magic.

My mom had a crummy life after she had me and ended up marring a couple of dead beat men 4 to be exact.

I went to college and meet Chet there who is a college professor.

My question is do you think I should worry about my mom and Chet. Mom is going to house sit with Chet when I go to a convention in Maine next month.

2006-10-10 07:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have yet to meet a hottie while shopping there...what gives???

2006-10-10 07:33:30 · 5 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1

personally since i am a gay dude myself i think that myself and other gay guys should be exepted but i want to hear wut other people think about this

2006-10-10 07:31:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Think about your dream man style.
How man do you prefer?
Thin man or Fat man and Why?
Thanks for your response

2006-10-10 07:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3

My fiance and I have been together for 4yrs, and r set to get married in 5mths. He cheated on me for 2yrs with his ex & has always had a lot of women he talks to that I don't know or feel comfortable about. he always turns off his phone when we are together and i keep seeing that he spends hours on the phone (late at night) with women I don't know. We live apart and he travels a lot. He says he's sorry but I can hardly trust him again. Besides these contacts he has with women that gives me sinking feeling in my gut, he's so nice and caring to me and my family. I'm so confused and feel like I'm drowning. Help!!!

2006-10-10 07:29:48 · 24 answers · asked by sweetginger 1

2006-10-10 07:28:47 · 19 answers · asked by Gym 1

Sorry if this is long but I'm driving myself insane over this situation. My boyfriend and I just broke up because he is going through a lot of crap right now. He has no time and has a lot of stress so he didn't think it would be right to date me. I know this is all true but I'm having 2nd thoughts because a little bit before he broke it off I thought he started to have feelings for his ex who he still hangs around with(could be paranoid though). I don't think she would ever take him back though because of his past. I also worry about him because he is such a great friend, I have a feeling all this stress in his life could lead him back to his past of drugs and alcohol. If he went back to that I would not date him. If everything calms down in his life I could see us getting back together but now we are just friends-but should I even think about getting back with him? If every time he goes through a crappy situation and breaks it off I don't think I'll be able to do it.

2006-10-10 07:27:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

....the way to a mans heart is through his stomach....if so.....what body part do us guys have to go through to get to the ladies heart.?
....lol......

2006-10-10 07:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by juslookin 5

2006-10-10 07:27:20 · 12 answers · asked by inlovebabe1591 2

2006-10-10 07:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

My boyfriend insisted that i'm pregnant but i don't think i'm. I still have a week before i find out if i miss my monthly but i was curious if most men know before the female. Have you ever been so sure that it did happen? i'm wondering because he has never expressed himself in such way. The way he told me almost made me believe that i'm. Is it possible that he knows and i'm in denial? i want to be pregnant and him telling me doesn't help cuz i feel like i'm getting my hopes up.

2006-10-10 07:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2

I have my girlfriend since 2 years and I really loves her and think to engage with her very soon ..

on those 2 years I've never had sex with her,, but I really keen on that (who doesn't!) but my only problem is she don't want to have coz she's a virgin, she reject to have it even from behind!

is there anyway I can turn her on and finally have it with me?!
she really loves me I couldn't understand why she don't want to have it then!

2006-10-10 07:23:36 · 43 answers · asked by Alex 2