I have my girlfriend since 2 years and I really loves her and think to engage with her very soon ..
on those 2 years I've never had sex with her,, but I really keen on that (who doesn't!) but my only problem is she don't want to have coz she's a virgin, she reject to have it even from behind!
is there anyway I can turn her on and finally have it with me?!
she really loves me I couldn't understand why she don't want to have it then!
2006-10-10 07:23:36 · 43 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls get nervous and other girls just are waiting till they get married. I love my boyfriend but im not going to lose my virginity till i get married. just cause she wont have sex with you doesnt mean she doesnt love you she just might not be ready yet.
2006-10-10 07:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by liketotalysydney 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The old "If she loved me she would......line". If you loved her your should respect the fact that she wants to wait until she is ready. You should also applaud yourself for sticking with her for the past two years because a lot of guys in your situation would have left days into finding that out so. Obviously you care enough about her not to make her feel pressured into having sex. Just keep the lines of communication open becuase nothing you can say or entice her with is going to get her to change her mind if she isn't ready so continue to love her the way you do.
2006-10-10 07:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is that she doesn't wish to have sex right now.
Is she young, or not comfortable with it from a religious point of view or is she a moral woman? This is something to be proud of, that you have a moral woman, not something to try and change because you want sex. She may love you very much, but even better she loves herself more and knows it would be very difficult for her to look at herself in the same way the day after.
2006-10-10 07:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to understand she is a virgin. I think she is waiting for the ring in her hand. And the ceremony. And about the behind thing well this is all new to her. she will start experimenting with u after or during ur honey moon. believe me. Well good luck. It looks like ur ganna have to wait a bit longer.
2006-10-10 07:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Twilight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to be a virgin on her wedding night. You have waited this long, wait until you are married, it will be worth it. I had a niece that got married when she was 30 years old and she was a virgin. Virginity is the most prized gift a woman can give to her husband. Just wait, it will be worth it!
2006-10-10 07:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be too intent on holding out. Her never having experienced the pleasure makes it easier for her to say no. Are there other ways you can please each other? Everyone has needs and before you become engaged you need to decide if waiting is something your willing to do. Your not wrong if you cant,you would be wrong if you proposed marriage knowing where she stands and then later getting angry or cheating because your tired of waiting. Be real with yourself and her.
2006-10-10 07:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I GOT YOU ALL WRONG!!!I understand that you want to be intimate with your lover but it also sounds like you don't respect her..she is not ready and she is one of the few that is actually waiting for marriage like it should be done you shouldn't pressure her against he beliefs if you love her like you say you do..either wait till you guys get married of leave her don't make her feel that her holding out on you is wrong sex is not the most important thing in a relationship
2006-10-10 07:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Missbribri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya get her realy drunk or drug her. P.S. Your a dumb a** for asking this and don't decerve a girl like that. If you aren't happy with your relationship as it is then go somewhere else don't try and corupt her. There are planty of girls out there who are more than willing to go all the way but the ones like the girl you got are one in a milion so get a clue man. Just imagine it was your daughter and a guy was asking a question like this.
2006-10-10 07:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by knight35966 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her morals alone. If you truly loved her you wouldn't pressure into doing something she doesn't want to she may want to wait for marriage to have sex maybe religious reasons or she just thinks that sex isn't a causal thing. You should be happy you have such a smart girlfriend with so much self respect. I give kudos to your girlfriend for standing up for what she believes in.
2006-10-10 07:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phillipe, First you stay too long without having sex with her, secondly she might not want you, she will love you as a person,but is not sexually attracted to you,I don't believe that she is a virgin as you may put, not because she don't do it with you don't for one minute ,believe that she don't do it with some one else, if she don't want to give it up, find a new girl,who is less than her treat that girl very well, and you ex will go crazy
2006-10-10 07:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her you will wait. Did you ever think that she wants to wait until you are married? To some people it's very important to maintain their virginity. She may feel that if she gives in to you and has sex with you, that you will leave her.
Trust me you aren't going to die by not having intercourse with her.
2006-10-10 07:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by richiegirl0204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋