My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and never has he had a girl that is his friend. Girls have always flirted with him in his classes but he always ignored or avoided them...until this semester. Early on this semester a girl kept showing up in some of his classes and he told me she was annoying and tried to ignore her but eventually gave in...i guess...and now they study together every tuesday for 3 hours. It started being at 1230 and its at 12. She calls, texts him, gives him stuff and compliments him all the time. They both think its funny that I feel uncomfortable about this and everytime he talks about her or I bring her up he gets this stupid grin on his face.He says he likes having her has a friend..give me a break. I told him he either stops studying with her or i will leave. he said if he stops studying with her now I will always give him this ultimatum and it will never stop. am i wrong for feeling this way...does he really need girls for friends??
2006-10-10 07:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont say with someone who makes you made especially if you told him how you feel about her.either way you look at it your going to hurt but you have to ask your self am i really going to put up with hisshit only you can answer this sorry but this is the whores kind of ultimatum ever
2006-10-10 07:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not need her as a friend but from what you say he certainly enjoys having her as a friend. Have you tried being her friend also? If he wants to hang out with her there is really little you can do about it. If you think there is more going on than meets the eye then you should confront them about it but I really think you are making something out of nothing. Has he been honest about his relationship with her, if he has then that shows respect for you and the relationship and I would leave it at that or find another boyfriend.
2006-10-10 07:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and have jealous feelings. It's not wrong, but you'll eventually start to lose that feeling.
It's natural for people to have friends of the other sex. It's nothing wrong at all. But, for your age, it's normal to feel that way.
If you are really suspicious that something else is going on, then you might be right and need to set your mind at ease, even if it means breaking the relationship off.
2006-10-10 07:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is out of line. If they are just friends she doesn't need to be treating him like her boyfriend which is what she is doing. I think what you gave him is a fair ultimatum. He needs to see it from your perspective. Tell him a few times that you have a study date or something with a guy and see how he takes it. This girl and your boyfriend ar disrespecting you and its not fair. You should not be their little joke. I think also you need to tell this girl that she doesn't need to be hanging on your boyfriend. Personally, I think he is cheating on you. Maybe you should do some checking up on him the next time he goes to "study" with her.
P.S.-have some fun with her and ask her if he ever told her that he gave you genital herpes which are super contagious.
2006-10-10 07:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the interest with him and consider out having a guy mate. not something hurts a guy extra to ascertain his woman with yet another guy whether you're only pals. Have a guy buddy and only talk approximately him each and every of the time once you're which comprise your boyfriend. He would respond the two by making use of "performing" like he does not care whilst deep down it is killing him to ascertain you giggling and enjoying yet another mans business enterprise and he's enjoying yours as properly or he ought to wish yet another lady buddy and don't understand the thank you to tell you so he lashes out by making use of being around yet another woman so which you would be able to diminish back off. yet once you do not wanna play stupid infantile video games then talk with him enable him understand the style you experience if he does not comprehend by making use of then that he's hurting your emotions then circulate on reason it could worsen and you seize them hugging or kissing.
2016-10-19 03:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i understand you completely.. Your boyfriend should try to understand you.. if you fell uncomfortable he should prove to you that there is nothing going on... Why don't you ask him to study with you instead.. Maybe if you help him study he will spend less time with her... but you mush really love him to be jealous like that.. plus he is your boyfriend... you should be the one helping him out... but Also try to understand him too... you can have friends that are the opposite sex.. and still not have anything going on... maybe it would help if you met this friend of his and get to know her.. maybe you will come to find out that there is nothing to worry about.. at the end you will never know if you might become good friends with her... But if this makes your boyfriend uncomfortable that you are trying to become friends with her then there might be something else going on between them that they don't want you to know... just be careful! Good Luck!
2006-10-10 07:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife use to complain all the time about her boss coming on to her, then they suddenly were good friends and spending time together outside of work. I was uncomfortable with it and she said they were just friends. We got divorced and they were married less than a year later. Follow your heart and trust your instincts.
2006-10-10 07:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does have a right to have female friends but sounds like she is more than a friend and he knows he is doing something that makes you feel uneasy and he doesn't stop that isn't a very nice thing to do. I say leave him.
2006-10-10 07:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be the same way,I mean really who studies for 3 hours!?! If I was you I would be very cautious about this other girl.
P.S. I like that would told him he had to choose,because if he chooses her you know you don't need him.
2006-10-10 07:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bay-B 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the respect of you he is in the wrong trust that I have been there and something isnt right.No you are not wrong.Honey that stupid grin means trouble.good luck
2006-10-10 07:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by lynn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋