Singles & Dating - 30 September 2006

ok ... theres a guy i went out with & he ended up breaking up with me, and he's the best guy i ever went out with ... & i still have strong feelings for him. sometimes it seems like he feels the same way, but truthfully, i would rather get over him already then ever go back out with him ... but then i feel like he's the only one i ever want to go out with. i tried talking to all my friends about it, but they all have been NO help! they all say the same thing, that it "takes time" & "i'm not gonna find mr. right in 10th grade and another guy will definately pop up" but its been a year now! ADVICE ON THIS PLEAZ!

2006-09-30 18:06:14 · 16 answers · asked by sammi joe 1

I am as you can see by NO means racist I will go with any race. But its as if my race ( though im a combination 0f 2) has a bad rap, whether the news, movies etc. Is anyone willing to talk? or give me a chance?

2006-09-30 18:06:07 · 6 answers · asked by haloengine7496 2

2006-09-30 18:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told my bf that im not into premarital sex when we first met that was also when he first made a move.earlyer today i was sitting on his bed thinkin about some thing and he comes and sits right next to me.we have some small talk then he started to kiss me on my shoulder and neck he almost got my pants off when his big brother whos staying for awhile walked by and trew a condom at his head and yelled i dont wanna be an uncle for any more kids.when i relized what happend i was shocked with my self hes never goten that close.my bf before him was reall agressive but my bf was really gentle.why is it that now all of a sudden he some how almost had sex with me most of the time i can just walk away from him or just say no. i know iv asked this before but i need more answers

2006-09-30 18:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by me 1

This guy I started dating lives with a hot girl whos been his roommate for the past 4 years. He insists theres nothing going on between them. Should I trust him? And what should I do.

2006-09-30 18:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Role reversal with foreplay How many women have foreplayed there man , kissing, carressing, nibbling all around except his privates for at least a half an hour .

When he does finaly gets to have sex/make love his first round is realy fast out of the chamber but instead of being a single fire breach loading musket you have turned him into a revolver

2006-09-30 18:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

I met a guy I really just wanted to do it to him but now I sort of like him a little more than I expected to what should I do .I love my man and I was just on some ol G-macking stunt out drinking with the girls and I was mad at my man .but this other guy interest me also He aint hit this yet but he could if he tryed Is getting some new penis really worth the risk of getting caught up .Guys do it all the time I just want to know should I go for it it Be grown and get gone

2006-09-30 18:02:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long Story Short:

Met this guy on myspace back in July 2005. We had sex right away. Started dating.
Then things moved fast we drove around to see each other, but mostly it was me, he came to my house to meet my parents, he said then he wanted to see other people so I agreed, but he said he’d tell me if he did, but instead he slept with his ugly ex and I found it out from her, told him i hated him for lying to me and I hated my self for trusting him.

Then we get back together, this is oct. 2005, now im jealous and I wasn’t before and I check his emails because im paranoid. We fight a lot and I find out he smokes more pot than I anticipated and he has no respect for me as a woman. More and more he disrespects me, but cries and tells me he loves me when I try to leave him. He asks me to meet his father around nov so I go.

Then I move to his city around jan. (I had already planned this b4 I met him) we keep dating but breaking up and fighting and the relationship gets more and more volatile because I am jealous and he doesn’t treat me like a princess, esp. with all I tried to do for him. I barely had friends so he tried to include me. We keep fighting on and off and I hook up with 2 guys between may and august. He had an ex gf visit in july and stay at his place. We were broken up during this time. But we both found out about these things and I was pissed. Needless to say he was angry about my hookups and broke a chair and cried until he threw up, drank himself to death for a day almost.

We still got back together and he was in his new apt now so we spent almost everyday together I slept over all the time and we practically lived together. We bickered about stupid things so we gave each other more space. But now his sexist roommate moves in and he sees how his gf kisses his *** despite how he treats her, and he wants me to be like that with him, but I have respect for myself. So he says his roommate convinced him to dump me so he does.

I am angry of course so I move on, but we end up sleeping with each other again even broken up, so I think im ok with this but end up realizing later that I still have feelings. This last break up was 2 wks ago but now its him who dumped me and now its for good. but now he says he’s moved on and its just sex and he hates talking to me about my feelings etc.

Why did he do this? Im still in love with the guy. If I ever told him I loved it I meant it. I love you means my feelings don’t go away over night, so how did his? How could he just give up and not want to work it out? So many times we broke up and got back together and he swore he didn’t have feelings anymore but he kept trying to be with me and me with him but he said we were too diff and that I wanted to much from him. I don’t know what he means. I just wanted him to be faithful. Why is that so hard?

2006-09-30 18:02:09 · 12 answers · asked by coochie1 2

My boyfriend has not called me in 10 days. I called him today and he hung up on me twice ( pretending there was a bad phone connection, who knows!). Now he just won't answer the phone. Anyway how would I figure out the passcode to his voicemail on his sprint cell phone?

2006-09-30 18:00:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 18:00:24 · 29 answers · asked by n8ve1 2

we broke up 6 months ago and she started dating this guy right after . . im talking like a week after . . but anyways i tried to get her back the first 2 months then i went NC since the middle of june. . .she has called or texted or left me a voicemail like 10-15 times since then and i havent answered or contacted her back. . .she just recently got into an official relationship with this guys and i noticed she tried to get ahold of me the day they started going out . . . she calls about once every 1,2,3 weeks and she called me drunk last weekend 3 times , 2 texts and 1 voicemail in 1 night and she said she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . .even though ive told her atleast 20 times that i cant. . . after we broke up she insisted we were going to get back together sometime . . . and she also is the type of person that cant stand to be alone and always has to have somebody. . . if she is completely happy and everything then why does she try to call me all of the time?

2006-09-30 17:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think? when you think of dating a guy.

2006-09-30 17:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by Jason N 2

I am currently single, and sometimes it's hard to date guys because, 1. They are intimidated by the fact that I sell sexy toys (I do in home parties for women........ the adult toy parties), or 2. They automatically think that I'm FREAKY and they want in on the action. What's up wit that?

2006-09-30 17:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by Kristine K 1

I am a single dad of 2 boys. I don't want anymore kids of my own. I don't mind someone WITH kids, but it seems all woman want marriage AND kids. Am I doomed?

2006-09-30 17:54:28 · 7 answers · asked by Shadow 6

i have a friend who invited me to lunch. i went to her house and she wanted to go on a picnic instead. does this mean she likes me.

2006-09-30 17:53:49 · 18 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2

I can't date until I'm out of high school. I'm not being bratty about it if that's how it sounds but I just wanna know if u people think thats fare or not?

2006-09-30 17:52:01 · 11 answers · asked by bunka_pixie 1

Ok Geeky Scifi Girls Star Trek or Star Wars Inquiring minds want to know :)

2006-09-30 17:48:48 · 8 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

2006-09-30 17:47:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

like nothin that sounds rehersed like a 101 word poem cause she is like so hot ps im in 7th grade she it to

2006-09-30 17:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's pretty pathedic I must say, I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. now, I've gotten offers : ) but i guess you could say im um, "choosy" lol. I'm comfortable once I know a guy. but any farther than that and they all go retarded. they all think this whole player thing is the way to go, but seriously, it's making all those good boys, go bad, i can hardly stand to be friends with some anymore. I mean am i the only one? do any of you have the same problems because seriously, I'm getting pissed with how guys in general act these days.

2006-09-30 17:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by loveisforeverdontforget 1

And where the hell can people find a quick free fix?!
It puzzles me!

2006-09-30 17:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The gf and I are at a weird point in the relationship. We have dated for about 5 mos now and it's either got to go to the next level or end. The situation exists, as I see it b/c the closer she gets to me, the more scared she is and more closed up she gets. She keeps alluding to an ugly past but won't tell me **** about it and that frustrates me ridiculously. It's like she wants me to dig just so she can bury herself deeper. Anyways, we decided to spend this weekend alone and talk about things Monday after work (and she calls me this afternoon and we talk for about 20 minutes???). I know I am not perfect but she won't confront me about her issues with me, either. I need her to talk and talk a lot. People keep telling me to be patient, but my patience is running out. Any things I can say so she KNOWS how serious I am that I just want to know her better and I will NEVER judge her? I am frustrated enough that I am afraid of the bluntness that may come across from me.

2006-09-30 17:44:38 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

There is this one girl in my school, whom i have one calss with (US History) and don't see her much in the hallways (i look for her but we have a gigantic school) and i don't have different lunch periods than her. in other words the only time to talk to her is after school or during US history. i need good ideas for coversation topics and how to start them and good times to start them. She is in my grade and i have talked to her before. And she does know i exist (atleast i think she does...)
I do plan to ask this question again another time during the day just inase if u people see it again...

2006-09-30 17:44:14 · 2 answers · asked by me, myself and I 3

i have a maga crush on a guy at school i think about him most of the time and i feel that he hates me bigger then the world and i feel ugly
he is popular and i am not popular i am in 8th grade he said hi once
and i frowned and walked on feeling like a jerk i frown when i feel incercure i have no conferdence and i really like him he has not said hi again i think he was dared to and now i am unhappy that was in grade 7 now iam in grade 8
will i ever get a boyfriend or am i too ugly and unpopular
and i have humulated myself heps like when he was walking down a corador and i was sitting with charis my friend near the wall and i tried to blend in the wall once one of my freiends said maby when i am 18 i will be pretty and he will start likking me but i think she is wrong i wished he would ask me out and like me but i feel that is impossible and my enermy found out and went up to him in front of his mates and said ithat i like im as frend andsadi to bec he likes meas a friend

2006-09-30 17:43:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She asked him if he thought she was pretty... he said no.
She asked him if he wanted her... he said no.
She asked him if she walked away, would he cry... he said no.
She turned to walk away, and he spoke...
He said , " You are not pretty, you are beautiful... I do not want you, I need you....If you walked away I would not cry, I would die."

Isn't this so freaking romantic and why can't men be like this?

2006-09-30 17:42:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 17:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

which 1 should i trust?

2006-09-30 17:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by adriane c 1

iz it wrong for a white girl to love black guys wit a lil bit gangsta in em?wit da flat billed hats ,baggy jean,an like rap music?oh and play sports?

2006-09-30 17:38:29 · 30 answers · asked by B#13 1

i have a friend who asked out a year ago and she said no but wanetd to be friends. we have hung out id say 5 times as much since then and have become pretty close. she never calls me to hang out tho. i aslways call her but we have a great time when we are together. we give each other long tight hugs and i kiss her on the cheek. im 19 and shes 18. we go to different colleges an hour apart. could her feelings have changed since a year ago? should i ask her how she feels about me? would she think im a weirdo for asking again?

2006-09-30 17:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2

How many women realize we judge you on you treat waiters , waitresses , customer service reps you name it .

I find Kindness to be one of sexyist traits a woman could ever have .

2006-09-30 17:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by bolounit1 2