we broke up 6 months ago and she started dating this guy right after . . im talking like a week after . . but anyways i tried to get her back the first 2 months then i went NC since the middle of june. . .she has called or texted or left me a voicemail like 10-15 times since then and i havent answered or contacted her back. . .she just recently got into an official relationship with this guys and i noticed she tried to get ahold of me the day they started going out . . . she calls about once every 1,2,3 weeks and she called me drunk last weekend 3 times , 2 texts and 1 voicemail in 1 night and she said she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . .even though ive told her atleast 20 times that i cant. . . after we broke up she insisted we were going to get back together sometime . . . and she also is the type of person that cant stand to be alone and always has to have somebody. . . if she is completely happy and everything then why does she try to call me all of the time?
2006-09-30 17:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also we were together 2 1/2 years . . . when she started dating him she even admitted it was just because he was there and that she cant stand to be alone . . i just dont understand why is she calling me all of the time like this just to be friends when she knows we cant because ive told her 100 times. . does she want something else? also what i really want to know is its been 4 months since ive talked to her and she keeps calling . . . .if she just wanted to be friends wouldnt she get the clue by now that i cant b/c the way things ended
2006-09-30 17:58:55 · update #1
She is doing it for "extra security". She feels you were reliable, not quite what she wants, but pretty close to what she wants. She wants to keep you around just in case. If this is what you want - stick around. If no - just tell her that you have moved on. Find someone who likes you as a first choice, not as a second choice.
2006-09-30 18:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok at first when i started reading this i thought you were my ex,
becouse i am in that chicks situation i do the same **** and i will tell you why the only reasons shes with him is so she wont be alone she still cares about you evadentally or she wouldnt be calling maybey you should think about some good times with her instead of all the bad hey you might work out and that might be the love of your life.good luck
2006-10-01 01:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by lilcavichick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to be her plan B in case all doesnt go well with the present bf.
2006-10-01 01:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by silverice_20002000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deep down she still likes u give her an other chance!
2006-10-01 01:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Monica V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she wants you back
2006-10-01 01:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋