I am a single dad of 2 boys. I don't want anymore kids of my own. I don't mind someone WITH kids, but it seems all woman want marriage AND kids. Am I doomed?
2006-09-30 17:54:28 · 7 answers · asked by Shadow 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sabres fan... well if you are looking to remain noncommitted forever maybe... most older women want some kind of committment at least... i am 33 divorced with 2 kids but would like to find someone i can at least settle down with again even if i dont get married again....and not all women want more kids either....so no your not doomed just depends on what exactly you are wanting out of it... know what i mean... i know i often feel the same way and have since my mid twenties lol life is out there just have to not be so picky i guess ... i am the same way expect to much of the other person... kind of the but "I know what I want" syndrome and wont settle for anything less lol.... good luck on your search....
2006-09-30 18:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding right? You are only 30 and there are plenty of men up into their 60’s and dating. Many women in their 20’s are single with children and don’t want any more kids either and there is nothing wrong dating someone a few years older than you. She is more likely to already have had all the kids she wants but won’t mind taking on yours as she will not have to go through the childbirth and getting up at night to give them a bottle. You will find that every year will bring more wonderful things into your life instead of subtracting from it.
2006-10-01 01:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you already have two. Get a vasectomy. This in NO WAY affects your manhood. All it means is that you'll be shooting blanks. And DO NOT tell anyone.
This way if any future lover comes in one day smiling from ear to ear and says "Oh honey, guess what? We're pregnant!" you'll know for sure that she's been playing 'hide the salami' with someone else. (had this happen to a buddy)
Stay away from single moms. They'll complain about all of their other ex boyfriends/husband, on how they are such @$$holes, how they treated her wrong etc... etc... Now along comes Mr. Nice-guy (you) and they want YOU to pick up the slack and be the father/provider to their children. Screw that dude! I just had my best friend fcuked in the @$$ this way. The thing is that I 'TOLD' him that his was going to happen, but did he listen? Nooooo! Thought that he knew better than me. Now he's got a broken heart and a sore sphincter.
Remember this: you can't be happy with anyone else until you're happy with yourself. Dating isn't over at 30. Be content for now just raising your boys. All of this other schitt will fall into place.
2006-10-01 02:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are waiting longer to have children these days, so most women in their 20's are still waiting or are newly married, you are not doomed at 30! you are just in a "pre-occupied" age group. Don't give up hope so soon, someone will come along. In the meantime just enjoy the extra time with your boys. Good luck.
2006-10-01 01:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by malraene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no... Finding a perfect partner calls for a perfect understanding of situation. Woman who understands you on your situation would definitely be your perfect partner. Be open to tell these things during your dating period and understand her situation with every decision she would make. Because in reality relationships are meant for two people sharing the thoughts....
2006-10-01 01:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Marlon Yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do you have any idea how many single moms are out there? You are only 30.
2006-10-01 00:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered someone with kids already ?
2006-10-01 01:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by skydiver4001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋