i have a maga crush on a guy at school i think about him most of the time and i feel that he hates me bigger then the world and i feel ugly
he is popular and i am not popular i am in 8th grade he said hi once
and i frowned and walked on feeling like a jerk i frown when i feel incercure i have no conferdence and i really like him he has not said hi again i think he was dared to and now i am unhappy that was in grade 7 now iam in grade 8
will i ever get a boyfriend or am i too ugly and unpopular
and i have humulated myself heps like when he was walking down a corador and i was sitting with charis my friend near the wall and i tried to blend in the wall once one of my freiends said maby when i am 18 i will be pretty and he will start likking me but i think she is wrong i wished he would ask me out and like me but i feel that is impossible and my enermy found out and went up to him in front of his mates and said ithat i like im as frend andsadi to bec he likes meas a friend
2006-09-30 17:43:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she told bec that he likes me as a friend but she told me he hates me and thinks i am a ugly ***** retard adn now i hate me even more then ever i wish i were dead even more
2006-09-30 17:46:00 · update #1
Time will tell and learn to use the spell checker.
2006-09-30 17:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - to get someone to like you - you have to like yourself. It all starts from within. Not just how you feel, but how you look. The better you feel about yourself, the better you will look to yourself and others. There isn't one certain look that is appealing to others. There is no reason to think of yourself as ugly. You are you and there is only one of you in the world. Be proud of that. Start from within and realize that you are a special person and you have something that no one else has. Then you are on your way. You can also find someone older, such as an older sister, an Aunt or your Mom to help you find ways to feel better about yourself. Get a new hair cut, try some new clothes - go for a new look. But realize that it is what is on the inside that counts, not the outside. And also realize that these are the tough years. It does get easier. Middle school and High school is the pits. Once you get past that - it does get much easier. As for the guy you really like - I know it feels like if he doesn't notice you that you are going to just die. But even if he doesn't - the right one will come along. I promise you - you will date and have fun. Just be patient and work on you. Good luck.
2006-09-30 19:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - I can barely understand what you are asking. If you think you are ugly in 8th grade but will be better looking when you are older you are pretty much out of luck there. You might get a better sense of who you are and more comfortable with yourself but you are going to look like look --- that's the way things go. Why don't you try to improve your SELF image before you try to impress someone else with your looks, be beautiful inside and it will show on the outside. Also use spell check - it will get you a few more steps ahead in the inevitable footrace of life
2006-09-30 17:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by gummybear1772 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start fixing your self up. READ self help books. THE POWER of positive thinking by v. Peale THERE are others out there. DR Dobson puts out focus on the family.HE deals with relationships. THE more you build your self esteem+ self confidence the more he will notice. START by fixing your hair+ nails. MAYBE a new out fit. YOU will feel better you will see. BTW i shopped at the second hand stores too and found awson treasures + yard sales too. you go girl ! !! !! ! !
2006-09-30 17:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hun. you just have to wait. you know what a guy loves in a girl? CONFIDENCE. I'm pretty serious about that. I know I have low self esteem. &like no confidence. But a lot of guys envy girls who have CONFIDENCE. believing in yourself will give you better luck with the boys. ;]
well, how to tell if a guy likes you? it all really depends on how he acts towards you. Is he protecting you? backing you up when someone talks bad about you? ha, if a guy stares at you. that's one. well, i donno. well, whenever a guy stares at me. i always know that they like me. &they actually admit it to me.
guys are pretty confusing to me. So it might take a while to see if he actually does like you!
i hope i helped.
good luck sweetie!
2006-09-30 17:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Jamie. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young, you will soon understand (I'm old, but I don't ^^ )...
You will have a BF, dun worried!
2006-09-30 17:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by bmthuat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not for you girl ........take it easy ....
2006-09-30 17:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by truli u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋