i have a friend who asked out a year ago and she said no but wanetd to be friends. we have hung out id say 5 times as much since then and have become pretty close. she never calls me to hang out tho. i aslways call her but we have a great time when we are together. we give each other long tight hugs and i kiss her on the cheek. im 19 and shes 18. we go to different colleges an hour apart. could her feelings have changed since a year ago? should i ask her how she feels about me? would she think im a weirdo for asking again?
2006-09-30 17:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her
2006-09-30 17:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, go ahead and ask her once again. There is nothing weird in asking a second time. It would just give her an idea that you love her dearly even now. Maybe that could even change her mind and make her start wanting you. But dear friend, please don't end up the friendship even if her answer is "no". But you can always ask her why it is a 'no' and what she is looking for in a guy.
2006-10-01 01:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Neha j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she would think you are a weirdo for asking her out again, but the thing that makes me wonder how she is feeling, is that she doesnt call you to see if you want to do something. It takes two, and yes, I understand that she has fun with you when you do hang out, but then why isnt she calling you as well ??
2006-10-01 00:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Island_Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one year is along time, and since you guys are in college (way more mature than stupid high school), i'd say yea go ahead and give it another shot. i mean come one, if she is mature enough, then even if she says no you will still be able to remain friends. i mean the whole thing that u cant remain friends after u ask her out and she rejects you is a very inmature thing typical in high school. but u guys r older so as i said before, you dont lose anything. if she says yes, then awesome. if she says no, well then suck it up and just remain friends; either way you dont lose anything.
2006-10-01 00:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by aruel100 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm... well if u have on;\ly seen each other 5 times in the past year u should just drop her as a "girlfriend type" and just be friends!! unless just kinda kid around and ask her and go from there!!!
2006-10-01 00:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~Manda_Panda~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leter her know that you still have feelings for her, and see how she responds. Ask her out.. but if she wants to remane friends, then stay that way. Don't let this ruin your relationship as friends. Good luck. :)
2006-10-01 00:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call her and ask her how she's doing once in a while. dont seem desperate. then make her come to u... u seem obsessive if u call and ask her out all the time. see how it progesses, and if it seems like she likes u more, then ask her about advancing to a higher level in your relationship.
best of luck!
2006-10-01 00:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by fanta chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to make sure, you'll have to ask her. And plus, I think if someone knows that they have been loved, they'll be thrilled. Good luck on that.
2006-10-01 00:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jennifer*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the friend zone, try to get her to set you up with one of her friends, there is almost no chance of you changing from a good friend to a boyfriend
2006-10-01 00:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to and are sure if she did say no it wont mess the friendship go ahead
2006-10-01 00:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ventured is nothing gained. in other words, go ahead
2006-10-01 00:43:28 · answer #11 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋