How many women realize we judge you on you treat waiters , waitresses , customer service reps you name it .
I find Kindness to be one of sexyist traits a woman could ever have .
2006-09-30 17:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, never realised it, or thought anything about it before. Does checking out the waiters butt count as a mark against us ??
yep it does but not totaly after all your doing something that us neanderthals(men ) do all the time when they check out women . Just dont stare.
2006-09-30 17:41:46 · update #1
Island_Mo... quote is under the first additional details post .Just to clarify .
2006-09-30 17:44:20 · update #2
Nope, never realised it, or thought anything about it before. Does checking out the waiters butt count as a mark against us ??
2006-09-30 17:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Island_Mommy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im in customer service (not the food industry) but I am always courteous even if I recieve less than great service. I know you guys and gals work hard for your money just like I do. But I was unaware that I was judged on how I treated you. In what way do you mean judge? As in who I am as a person or if I am a possibly good lay?? LOL
2006-09-30 17:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes actually my fiance' commented on the fact that I was so nice to a concierge at a hotel we were staying at for the weekend! We were just dating at the time but the chick gave our room away (we were 30min EARLY for our reservation) and she was extremely rude to me when I asked for a different one in with the same amenities so I calmly told her I don't want to deal with her anymore and I want to speak to someone in charge! my fiance' was ready to snap but I was just patient and calm through the whole ordeal! And he told I might be too nice for him until he pissed me off the next month! LOL I judge men that way also but instead it's what kind of relationship you have with your mother or whoever raised you and other women in general! Believe tit or not the men I had a serious problem with had nothing but negative stuff to say about their moms. My fiance' although his mom did do some pretty traumatic things around him he still doesn't bad mouth her all the time and he doesn't call her names, appreciate that a lot about men when they can still see some positive in a negative situation!
2006-09-30 17:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is hard to answer, you are absolutely right to do so. We men also judge women how they treat waitresses and waiters. If our dates are nice to us and then treat a waitress like she isn't a human being, then we know that is exactly how we will be treated eventually. Women would be wise to follow your advice, that's how you will be treated eventually by your date.
2006-09-30 17:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Question., I had heard that years ago as " Never judge a person by how they treat you, but by how they treat the server or store clerk?".
And it's so true, but really applies to both sexes. As for checking out a butt,fine or boobs,fine, as this is human nature, but be discreet and keep your comment to yourself if you are with your significant other.
2006-09-30 17:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realized that we are being judged on how we treat other people. Be it a waitress who you can easily be mean to, or be it our own boss.
Yeah, I've been a waitress at some point in my life. Let me tell you, this job sucks.
2006-09-30 17:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANK YOU for that. you are so right. if you're nasty to a "service" person, your kindness is only skin deep.
and do you know that even as i am writing my kudos to you, and arrogantly congratulating myself for being conscientiously KIND to EVERYONE, i am realizing that i can be pretty nasty to other cars when i'm driving. you might or might not think that's the same, but i'm pretty hateful and now i'm wondering why i think THAT is OK but mistreating waitresses, telephone soliciters, secretaries, etc. is not.
not that you were probably aiming for THAT type of a-ha moment, but actually, thank you for making me think about kindness in a new area!
keep looking, there are plenty of kind & sexy girls out there :)
2006-09-30 17:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Lips 4077 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when will men realize that we judge you on how many waitresses you check out within an hour dinner? I find complete attention very sexy and appealing.
2006-09-30 17:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm...okay... i dont really care... I was a customer service rep... do people realize after you walk away or hang up on us, we talk about you behind your back?
But... good for you. It was always nice to have nice customers during the day of dealing with @%%es all day long.
2006-09-30 17:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't care how women treat waiters. I only care how they treat me. However, I do agree a polite woman is sexy as hell.
2006-09-30 17:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋