It's pretty pathedic I must say, I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. now, I've gotten offers : ) but i guess you could say im um, "choosy" lol. I'm comfortable once I know a guy. but any farther than that and they all go retarded. they all think this whole player thing is the way to go, but seriously, it's making all those good boys, go bad, i can hardly stand to be friends with some anymore. I mean am i the only one? do any of you have the same problems because seriously, I'm getting pissed with how guys in general act these days.
2006-09-30 17:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by loveisforeverdontforget 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may take a while, but if your patient you might get some ware. Both sexes have it wrong now days. To most girls having a bf is like having something new: you show it off, you brag about it,and get tired of it after about a month. So then you go out there and get a new one. Guys want girlfriends for one thing....sex. which is why were all considered pervs. This is the general idea out there. You may be different but but that is the way it seems to be.
If it's of any consolation, I've never tried that road either(and I'm 16 and I would if there was someone that saw it the way I do.) But it's worth waiting for someone who is truly worth your time, love, and what most guys seem to have trouble with...comitment.
So if your looking for a 1 month long bf, don't be so picky. However, if you want it to mean something wait until some one comes special along.
>>>>>>C-MART...Two thumbs way up man, I would have rated your answer but I'm still level 1. I would have done my best to break his nose too.
If your having any problems with the football team, be careful with those guys they can get pretty dumb but they're still dangerous. Find a few Ice Hockey players if you can and have them help you.
Also keep things going with your girlfriend you've got the right idea about this, and there are so few people out there there that see it this way.
So it does me heart good when it is gone about this way. Good Luck dude.
2006-09-30 18:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by J W Hockey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that's how high school is. Look you may think that us guys are turning players on you and I have to admit that there are a lot of guys who put bad names on us for playing with some girls feelings and bringing them down to where they feel like $hit. I know that's wrong and that's exactly why I don't do it. Only it's also hard to find a good girl...you know what I mean? I have been with girls who are conceded and stuck up, but it's hard to find a girl who doesn't have a problem with herself. Every where I turn I see girls who dress, act, and talk the same. They seem to care about what guys think about their appearance and to tell you the truth I'm getting sick of that. It's seems that girls all act like this these days. I think these days everyone seems to be changing including girls and not to mention us men. What I'm trying to say is that everything eventually is going to change from time to time. It depends a lot on what's in fashion. Some guys do this because of the rappers and because TV shows it as a cool thing to do. The guy who gets the most girls is a player or a pimp. In other words a ladies man. The one with the looks that all girls fall for. Well that's all I have to say. I hope this answered your question.
Peace!
2006-09-30 18:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by rosenberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us are that bad... :-(
I'm 16 and I had never had a girlfriend until about five months ago. She is amazing. We've both decided to wait until marriage. I love her and can't wait to see her tomorrow night. I enjoy just sitting with her and listening to her voice, just holding her hand. I think that she may be the one. Not many people even know that we're going out, everyone just thinks that we are really good friends. I had to pay 38 dollars in overage charges on my cell phone bill just last month! I wouldn't have wanted to pay any less. I'll admit that there have been some guys that I, another guy, has stopped being friends with because of the way they treat girls. It just gets me so frustrated to see the way they talk to you guys and treat you guys. I'm in 11th grade, but I broke a seniors nose the other day. He was holding this girl's arm really tight and telling her something, I did'nt hear what, but she was telling him to let go, that he was hurting her. All girls at school like me now, but the football team is out to get me. The guys was their starting running back. I got in a lot of trouble for that incident (it was at school), but it just kind of happened. It was a reaction. I kind of feel sorry for the guys who are going to ask my younger sisters out. They just started sixth grade this year (twins). I told them I would ride their bus with them if they ever had any problems.
2006-09-30 18:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by C-Mart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u fell im 15 too and I've never had a bf, but i have gotten asked. I just want to find good guy friends.
2006-10-04 16:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by cm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so first off, dont wory about not havin someone w/ u. Second, if everyone is going "player" on u, then join something to meet new people (like sports, or a club) And third, be picky, find that special person.
2006-09-30 17:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy want one thing and one thing only.
2006-09-30 17:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋