This guy I started dating lives with a hot girl whos been his roommate for the past 4 years. He insists theres nothing going on between them. Should I trust him? And what should I do.
2006-09-30 18:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust him. everyone deserves a chance.
2006-09-30 18:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience i was the hot chick who he lived with and.......... well i guess Ur imagination can show u the rest.
She was there before you I'm sure they have great relationship esp him living with her 4 yrs wow.
They could be fooling around but they might not have any plans for things to be serious. That why they aren't open with it. Sometimes you can ask 2 people 1 thing and you'll get the same answer from the both of them ....like we are just roommates but once again your hearing it from the horses mouth.
Or maybe nothing is happening which is really hard to believe in this day and age.
I think that you shouldn't worry about it cause if she wanted him she could have him right? So don't be jealous of her or their relationship well as long as he doesn't make you feel insecure or uncomfortable.
Remember you always have choices and options. You don't have to settle for him. There are many men to choose from like choosing which grain to pick up of the beach lol.
If you decide to leave him, it might hurt but don't worry you'll get over it cause its just a feeling. Good Luck realize your worth hun.
2006-10-01 01:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is totaly up to you, if was already living with her and he says there is nothing going on then give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him. if you still have your suspicions about it confront them both if you feel you need to do so. but for now just leave it alone cuz if you like the guy and you keep harping on it he will just send you packing. give the girl a chance to you and her may get to be great friends, and really good friends are really really hard to come by. she could also be gay so who knows she may try to steal you away from him, the world is a funny place these days
2006-10-01 01:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they leaved together for past 4 years and nothing happen that means they r just roommates. trust him, dont worry. i would feel weird too but i would trust him, or just try....
2006-10-01 01:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt - relax and check it out for yourself. Let sleeping dogs lie
2006-10-01 02:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by leos1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you don't trust him you may want to reconsider the statement "my boyfriend";
to have him as your boyfriend you should b]trust him, and if he lived with that woman before you guys met, then why shouldn't you trust him? Or do you think you have reason to believe he lies to you? Then again, you need to reconsider your first statement..."my boyfriend"...
2006-10-01 01:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by georgia1402 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there not dating after four years and you've met her and she herself has told you nothing is going on,then what's the problem? Don't make up one.
2006-10-01 01:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him yea
look at the way they look at each other .... find out if theres anything there
2006-10-01 01:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is important..unless u caught him making out with thatgerl den thats another problem
2006-10-01 01:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him for now. You'll find out soon.
2006-10-01 01:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋