Singles & Dating - 25 September 2006

2006-09-25 16:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by I-C-U 5

I am completely lost when it comes to dating, I either rush in to quick or don't move fast enough. I never know when to speak my feelings or when to shut my mouth. I am a very straight forward gal and I hate beating around the bush. Any advice on how to approach dating?

2006-09-25 16:16:37 · 15 answers · asked by Askinqs 1

I CAN OFFER MINE!!!

2006-09-25 16:15:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love to see cute girls get heart broken by their boyfriend. When a girl gets dumped it makes me happy because the b*tch learned her lesson for dating a stupid worthless guy. Women are stupid when there are better dudes like me :P

Shallow girls need to learn their lesson.

2006-09-25 16:14:51 · 30 answers · asked by TT M 1

there is a guy that i was with before summer and we broke up over the summer and now we are most likely getting back together. Obviously i know its not an obligation for me to do anything with him but i dont know I feel like giving him head would be a good thing to do...i honestly i really want to. When we were together we didnt go very far...i hadn't gone very far and neither had he but over the summer things changed. I got fingered for the first time and many times after and he got head from this girl...well now its kinda like i have to do better and now im just really nervous about doing it because if i do i want it to be good for him and for it to totally push that other girl doing it out of his mind. And the whole DOING it part is wat really freaks me out. Its not that im not ready its just that im nervous and its like i was when i had my first kiss...scary but exciting. I just dont know how to go about the whole thing cuz i dont want it to be awkward an i dont want it to go badly

2006-09-25 16:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

While theoretically this may hold true, to a certain extent, my personal experiences have led me astray from this belief. I am curious if any of you have had a situation like this and did it "feel" right to you? Is it fair for BOTH parties involved or is it that on settles on the other since they are unable to get what they want? Is this moral to engage in or simply a matter of convenience/timing?

2006-09-25 16:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

perhaps because you thought you are not good enough and how did you deal with it or how do you plan to deal with it

2006-09-25 16:10:46 · 13 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

2006-09-25 16:09:35 · 21 answers · asked by italianrae1986 1

i want to know if this guy is courting me or if we are just dating.i know there is a difference..what signs should i look for if i'm being courted? and what signs do i look for if we are dating?

2006-09-25 16:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

lately my b/f has been acting distant. i understand that he has just had a death in his family(his child) and he's messed up right now. I try to be there for him but he just pushes me away. sometimes i don't hear from him for 2 days and we usually talk 5 times a day. No text messages, no emails.The more i try, the more distant he gets. What do i do? by the way, we live 2000 miles from eachother and only visit monthly.

2006-09-25 16:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by lilbit 2

Whenever I'm around people, I smile a lot. Someone talks to me, I smile. so my question is would you like a guy that smiles all the time?

2006-09-25 16:07:43 · 27 answers · asked by ermo447 1

i have known this guy since january.....he is 23 and an in the navy..i fell for him at first sight and i dont say it out loud but i kno this is real..deep down inside of me i feel that he feels the same way too but he confuses me so much..he wants to be sexual with me but doesnt want to say we are b/f and g/f he wants to order me around like a wife and gets mad when i try to talk to other guys..but then he turns around and insults me saying that i cant do anything right and he could get a job before i could..he also likes to bring up my ex a lot(sometimes when im giving him head WHATS UP WITH THAT?)and he moved in with my gramma and i at the end of august. sometimes he will offer to take me out but then he just turns around and says "WHERE'S MY MONEY".like even tho he offered to pay it was just a loan.or he will offer to take me somewhere then demand gas $(even tho he offered the ride as free) he recently went on leave and we talk everyday but what he talks about is well..please help

2006-09-25 16:06:01 · 16 answers · asked by mimori 2

I am only 13 but it seems like all my friends have one. I am not prety at all and I am not a person who has shape or anything ok i admit I am a bit fat and flat. i hate it i cant get gus to notice me other than if they want to play football, volleyball or just chat about how to get the attention of one of my friends that they like... I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!!!!!

2006-09-25 16:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel W 2

2006-09-25 16:04:29 · 15 answers · asked by mk320gti 2

You only want the best for them and hope they find happiness with someone even if that someone isn't you. Does anyone agree with me on this? Or do you believe you that no matter what you HAVE to be with someone in order to truly love them?

2006-09-25 16:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by jen 1

The problem is I always get sick from the stuff how do i get past this I really want to become a tabacco user

2006-09-25 16:03:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

me & my bf have been 2gether (kinda) 4 1mnth. thats how long me & my ex have been split. my recent @ 1st was callin me all da time. now when i call hes not there. it makes me think of my ex. speakin of him, hes the otha problem. he isnt a problem hisself, my feelins r comin back. i called him 2 make sure we r still friends. 10 mins lata my thoughts of our good xs came back. we dated 2 happy yrs. ill idmit it took a yr 2 say "i luve u".he cheated me recently, & im pissed @ that. but my emotions r bein refilled. i will say this, we neva madeout, or kissed. i still luved him. it was da same day me & recent met that we started r relationship& made-out a lil (above the waist.) thats wat makes me feel kinda slutty. that n startin 2 want my ex back.my bf now is related to my best friend n close w her bf. theyll get ttly pissed if i break up w him. wat should i do? try to get my ex back? wait n c wat happens w my curent? cheat? forget about my ex? im stumped & feel slutty & stupid causa this.

2006-09-25 16:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

Ok. i like this girl for about 1 year . she is nice and hot and every thing. i would say we r friends but i can say anything to her.
i need some advice

2006-09-25 16:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by Big Al 1

with her body that she enjoys it? I get tired of girls telling me I have no self esteem, I have great self esteem I just know what I like and know how to get it, is that bad or uncommon for women? Are we to play these weak timid creatures who don't know our genitals from a hole in the ground and can only enjoy ourselves if a man satisfies us or makes us feel worthy? Just curious

2006-09-25 16:00:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I have to wait until he say's the "L" word first? What if I say it and he doesnt say it back?

2006-09-25 16:00:15 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa 1

what does that stand for? my boyfriend said to come use those dsl??

2006-09-25 15:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by Bribaby 2

ok here it goes. i had a bf that did something that was not nice or respectful. so i got mad and acted out. ok he then agreed that we should brake up. now later after he called me i asked him why was he mad when he was the one who did the fuked up sh.t in the first place. he said he was just paying me back so thats why he agreed to break up. so my question is, how can a man do something wrong then get mad at you for acting out about it and then try and pay you back cuz you did something bad to him cuz of what he did to you in the first place. i know two wrongs dont make a right. so what would you call that what he was doing.

2006-09-25 15:58:07 · 33 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

my ex . .who used have issues with me coz, i smoke & drank occasionally. is currently dating a smoker / drinker.. how is that she had the issue with me, but doesnt seem 2 bother her that he does the same things?? is she deeper in love, that she looks past that ?.. .or has she accepted the fact that u really cannot change guys ? iam confused..

2006-09-25 15:57:58 · 23 answers · asked by Dj Enigma 4

state your age too,

2006-09-25 15:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Pros: He buys me nice gifts, he does things for me (like came to court with me to fight a traffic ticket, was there for me when family members died, helped when I got into a car accident, very reliable), takes care of me, very chivalrous...

Cons: I don't know if he is a cheat, but I do know he 'eyes' other women while with me, he and I are polar opposites, he's got a lot of female friends.

I don't know what to do...but Ive gotta make some decision...I don't want to live my life like this

2006-09-25 15:57:28 · 9 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

before i begin i want to mention that i'm a guy, 18 yrs old, and work at hollister

FIRST, one day in the hallway at school, my little sister's friends come up to me and ask about my new job and say with a smile, "i thought only hot people work at hollister." after an exchange of words, they smile, laugh, and walk away...

THEN at work, i was hanging out in the back, then my manager and some of the female employees look at me and say ,"damn we need some hot guys working here, we dont have any." they also smile and laugh.

i dont get it, are they hitting on me, or am i really ugly? its confussing the hell out of me

2006-09-25 15:56:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have this really great boyfriend, but lately he's been breaking all of his promises a lot and im getting tired of it. he says he has been busy. I think he might be to busy for a girlfriend right now. I've tried to work it out, but it doesn't help. My friends say i should break up, but part of me doesn't want to because i love him. We've been going out for 6 monthes. What do I do?

2006-09-25 15:53:01 · 10 answers · asked by bahamababe!! 2

I decided to make something of myself before proclaiming my love to her. 16 years and alot of hard work after I formed my own business and became a success. Still in love with her now ready to proclaim my love. Unfortunately heard she was getting married the same week. I could'nt break her heart or smash her marriage so I remained silent. She has married 3 months now and I feel like a piece of crap. Waited 16 years to let a girl know I loved her and didn't even knew she was involved. How would you feel if you were in my shoes?

2006-09-25 15:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does he like me? I can't be sure!?
Okay, here goes... Obviously, I'm fourteen, and I like this guy. I've known him for three years, but we've only started hanging out this summer... That was when I started liking him as more than a friend. And I know he was interested for at least a little bit, because he was asking my friends about me and flirting all the time, and we wen't to the movies with a few of our friends and he let me lean into him and everything. He even called me after. But now, he told my friend he likes someone else, and he sits with her on the bus and all. But I swear he kindof likes me, because he's always really close to me, even if we're working together in school he's like 2 inches away from me! And he always tries to make me laugh, above any of the other girls... but like I said, I haven't seen him when he's with this other girl, and I'm not sure what to think... I mean, if he didn't like her, why would he sit with her and everything?? I'm just confused. Any help?

2006-09-25 15:52:37 · 4 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1

i was dating this dude and we were seeing eachother like everyday for about 6 months,than all of a sudden i found out he was seein this other girl on the side that he met the same night he met me.i was with him more tho.i use to talk about bein his girlfriend.he said he didnt want one.he wanted 2 woman and i was suppose to be down with that,1 would know but the other wouldn't.of course i would be the `1 to know.i wasnt on that so i said no.next thing you know he told me the girl was his girlfriend.he didnt have nobody else so he made her his woman.we stopped chatin for a while. .he called back a few of weeks later and we talked and i was cool wit him for a long time.him and the girl broke up and he would call me everyday.he always said it was my fault we broke up.i thought we was building a relationship again until... he came over and spent the night with me and had his arm around me and next thing he wasnt talkin 2 me ,sent me a tex ..he gettin back wit her thats wrong isnt it?

2006-09-25 15:51:19 · 13 answers · asked by nova44307 2