i have known this guy since january.....he is 23 and an in the navy..i fell for him at first sight and i dont say it out loud but i kno this is real..deep down inside of me i feel that he feels the same way too but he confuses me so much..he wants to be sexual with me but doesnt want to say we are b/f and g/f he wants to order me around like a wife and gets mad when i try to talk to other guys..but then he turns around and insults me saying that i cant do anything right and he could get a job before i could..he also likes to bring up my ex a lot(sometimes when im giving him head WHATS UP WITH THAT?)and he moved in with my gramma and i at the end of august. sometimes he will offer to take me out but then he just turns around and says "WHERE'S MY MONEY".like even tho he offered to pay it was just a loan.or he will offer to take me somewhere then demand gas $(even tho he offered the ride as free) he recently went on leave and we talk everyday but what he talks about is well..please help
2006-09-25 16:06:01 · 16 answers · asked by mimori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how the girls have been swooning over him and how much "pussy" he is getting and how wonderful things are with his old g/f (whom he got back up with) he talks to me like im just one of the guys..like it doesnt hurt me at all to hear him say those things
2006-09-25 16:09:14 · update #1
thats not love. you are obviously a very young girl. i think you should marry him, and after he hits you for a couple of years you will get used to it and say you deserved it. and hopefully by then you will learn that you should of stayed away from that guy.
2006-09-25 16:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-25 16:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the curb (or gramma's). He's obviously a lower ranking navy punk. Spends his days taking orders so when he sees you his first thought is to order somebody around. And I'll tell you what....If you are down on me, I'd be saying something like "Oh thank you, you sexy thang". Last thing my mind is your ex. I'm thinking about how I am gonna return the favor when you've finished or before.
The boy (not man) doesn't appreciate the finer things (like you) in life. Toss him back and go find a man. You deserve one.
2006-09-25 16:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most military guys are players. Some are good guys, but most are wanting to see how far they can go in their pretty little uniforms. Tell him to get a life else where. Girl, move on, you deserve better than this. Let him have his old girl friend. He is a punk that thinks he is God's gift to women.
2006-09-25 16:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the stories about the broken down married women with completely abusive and dominating husbands? They never go anywhere or make meaningful friendships, get old fat and lonely, and everybody wonders what happened?
This is the beginning of that story. Dont be that woman.
2006-09-25 16:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but a know alot about them it sounds to me like he just has issues he want to be able to do whatever it is he wants to do but then again he don't want you talking to anyone else it also sounds like he has control issues he really don't want to be with you because if he did he wouldn't treat you the way he do
2006-09-25 16:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is just using you. How can you fell that he is "the one" when he treats you like that? If you were his "the one," he should do everything he could to keep you and make you happy to be with him. Being together should be joyful and fun, not antagonistic.
2006-09-25 16:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...you deserve SO MUCH BETTER than this piece scum....he is only walking all over you and NOT RESPECTING YOU AT ALL!!!! You need to find A REAL MAN, not one who is going to treat you the way this idiot is....good luck...=)
~PEACE~
2006-09-25 16:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you and stringing you along for his needs and his wants...he has no respect for you and will not commit to you as to him you are nothing more than a slit for his biological deposit and otherwise not worthy of his time. Where is your self-respect?
2006-09-25 16:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense intended but this fuy sounds like a real loser. you need to drop him like a bad habit. you deserve more respect than that. move his stuff to the curb.
2006-09-25 16:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by jjjesks75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋