I am only 13 but it seems like all my friends have one. I am not prety at all and I am not a person who has shape or anything ok i admit I am a bit fat and flat. i hate it i cant get gus to notice me other than if they want to play football, volleyball or just chat about how to get the attention of one of my friends that they like... I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!!!!!
2006-09-25 16:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be yourself. That is the most important part. Times have changed and it is okay to go after a guy yourself. So if you see a guy you really like, why not ask him out. It really is okay to do it that way now. So do not be shy, just get yourself a boy friend and it will get easier for the next time you need to find yourself one.
2006-09-25 16:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you It's just that guys see you more as there friend or advise person and I'm younger than you shhh don't tell and I have the same porblem most I have more guy friends than crushes but I'm sure this one boy likes me and you probley have a secert admirer to and I bet if you act a little more flrity or ware a low cut top they will notice you then they will be in love with your awsome personality (I don't even know you and I can tell you were made for love) and about the whole flat proble everyone goes at different pas but if you are really self conchies about it then might i suggest a push up bra? But don't stuff that makes you look really takcy
Best of Luck and I know you will get a guy so just keep me posted(and for a ice breaker a bring a dog by after school to get the soft dog lover guys attchie or spill your back back in frout of a guys locker and when he helps you pick it up stear into his eyes and wishper Thank You and then his name if you know it .)
2006-09-25 23:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Skylar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days looks are alot unless you see a guys with alot of the same qualities or just a great guy who loves you for who you are...yeah and again your only 13 years old you still need to grow some shape...get athletic, start healthy habits, and it'll work itself out just dont let yourself go because your friends have something you dont. Let the chips fall where they may and have fun as a kid i mean you dont want a guys just for the sake of a boyfriend, you should let those feelings find you
2006-09-25 23:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, your growing up, and it,s hard, Just because the other girls hsve bfs and you don,t is not a crime, just be yourself, and be true to yourself.
Beughty at your age is on the outside, it should be on the inside. If your a nice girl guys will notice one day. And being flat is not a crime at all.Your only 13, give yourself a chance to grow up a little more. Hope i helpted you
2006-09-25 23:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Donny T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your abit young of thinkin of having a bf as yet! Wait till u mature and more experience in life! having a bf isnt a thing u need 2 have!
2006-09-25 23:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by LiL' JON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you 13?you don't think you should wait for that you are too young guys only want sex that's all so sweety wait your time will come maybe 18 or until mariage
2006-09-25 23:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by eric2045@2045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i c your pprob i am just like you even a bit fat and peole dont notice me but my mom told me be yourself and i try and it acctualy works shocker jk
2006-09-25 23:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok looks arnt everything if a guy doesn"t like you it means your to good for them. remember this phrase there are more fish in the sea
2006-09-25 23:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by wayne e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower your standards, and remember the addage, there is someone for everyone. Be the someone for the dirty, dorky guy.
2006-09-25 23:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try flirting, or something fun. like a cool party
2006-09-25 23:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by perez_cristian_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋