Do I have to wait until he say's the "L" word first? What if I say it and he doesnt say it back?
2006-09-25 16:00:15 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we guys are always waiting for girls to say it, you girls may be shy, but we are shy too,if he doesn't say it, give him time, he's just shock(p.s i will love a girl to say it to me)
2006-09-25 16:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and my guy have been dating for a while now. He told me he loved me first and I would never say it back because I felt I didnt really love him. Finally after a while of him not saying it, and I finally felt it, I blurted it out. We have a good relationship and I do love him very much. Just wait for the right time, even if he doesnt love you back at least let him know how you feel about him. He just may say it back without hesitation. But then again it does scare some guys off, so make sure your not saying it to soon. Good Luck!!
2006-09-25 23:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by I Love My Man!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will problye have to say it first because most guys are shy about tell a girl the L word
2006-09-25 23:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Skylar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it doesn't matter who says the L word first. There's nothing wrong with saying the L word, if you love him just let him know. No need to bet around the bushes.
2006-09-25 23:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited forever for the guy I liked to say it back. He never said it again to me cause he wanted us to stay friends. Girls are moving ahead of guys. We can make the first move, so why wait for him to say it?
2006-09-25 23:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by amsurfgoddess202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stick your heart out there to get all trampled on, go ahead and say it.
if you'd rather play it cool, just wait.
But guys are afraid of rejection too, so you might have to send some signals to him to let him know he'll get a positive response. I use to write my bf little notes and sign them "love you, me" in a breezy way.
2006-09-25 23:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Olive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, the girl can say it first. If he doesnt say it back.... dont feel bad, he's just not to that point yet
2006-09-25 23:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's a federal offense for the girl to say it first. You could do hard time in prison.
2006-09-26 02:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it if you feel it. He may not say it back but that doesnt mean he doesnt care. he may not be to love yet
2006-09-25 23:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said it first, I was drunk at the time, but I did feel it and I meant it when I said it.
Thank god he said it back, but if he didn't I probably would have just pretended I didn't remember saying it!
2006-09-25 23:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋