Singles & Dating - 9 September 2006

Yeah, what's the best way to cope? I like both of them, but I can't stand seeing them together. I've quietly distanced myself, on good-terms, but is there anything I can do to help myself heal? Being near them makes me either very depressed or very jealous....

2006-09-09 16:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by Elminster 6

I have a Filipino boyfriend (yup I'm gay). He's a good guy but the cultural differences just drive me berserk. When we arrange to meet somewhere for dinner he's always late. The sad sappy Tagalog lovesongs, the tendency to avoid non-Filipinos, and the endless karaoke at Filipino parties (and anyone who is married to or dating a Filipino knows what I mean by ENDLESS karaoke). How can I keep these cultural differences from causing me to lose my mind?

2006-09-09 16:55:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never dated a girl in my life. Pathetic huh? Girls don't really show interest in me, and I don't really feel comfortable talking to them. I guess that's a major reason I have never had a girlfriend. So please help out this pathetic guy. I wanna know

(1) how to establish a close relationship with a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in me
(2) what signals girls use to show interest

I am not desperate though. I am already too busy taking care of myself. However, I see so many beautiful women at my school (I'm a college freshman), and I feel somewhat lustful. Haha. I wanna know what it's like to date a girl. Help ME! I need detailed answers!

2006-09-09 16:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think some of you may know what I'm talking about. I've come to discover that there are two sets of good looking guys. The first set is the most common, they're good looking and the good-looking girls chase them.

The 2nd type are the good-looking guys who keep getting ugly girls chasing them instead of the opposite. It's like the beautiful women keep a friendly distance with them but the ugly women have no problem flirting like crazy. Then some of the guys in this category feel as if they have no choice but to date one of them, then you have people coming up to you saying things like You could do better.

Now, all "personality matters more" issues aside, is it my imagination or are there a select few handsome men out there who can only get ugly girls to chase after them?

2006-09-09 16:53:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

like something thats toight and creative. not just simple flowers .... something funny at the same time if thats possible.

2006-09-09 16:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 16:52:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 16:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3

As unfortunate as it is for Asian men, they are at the bottom of the ladder in the dating market particularly in English speaking Western hemisphere. Asian men's lack of success in getting a girlfriend no doubt affects and translates over to other areas of life. One of the obvious reason being that being approved and recongnized by a female is most potent source for creating a postive male image for most men regardless of what race the man is.
However, there are Asian men who are able to have relationship with non-Asian women (namely, Caucasian women). Such would be the "exception", and they are still rare. Very rare. From my observation, majority of such Asian men who are able to get a white girlfriend are those who were born in America, Australia or other Western country, and who speak English as their native language with no Asian accent (most times such Asian men don't speak their parents' Asian language.) Is my observation correct? Can anyone give Asian men, who do not

2006-09-09 16:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're kind of friends. We just met like a month ago, but I really like him. He just got out of a long-distance relationship, and he wants to be in a more real relationship. What can I do to convince him to be in a relationship with me?

2006-09-09 16:49:01 · 11 answers · asked by myjanuary_22_friend 2

Is it true that unless a condom dosent break during intercourse...the viruses cannot passthru the condom and infect the other person?

Or is it that the partner has a remote/distant chance of being infected even if the condiom does not break?

2006-09-09 16:48:56 · 6 answers · asked by Andy 2

My girlfriend's boyfriend of 11 months, is a karaoke singer, he is an amazing singer. my girfriend doesn't sing. Well, when he takes her to karoake and when he sings on stage, the girls always want to sing duets with him and grab him to dance with them. When she sees this happening it upsets her. She doesn't like it when he talks to girls, she is afraid that the girls will take him away from her. She joined a gym a while ago to get herself to be in tip-top shape for him, she wants to look good for him, not that she wasn't in shape, she was, and goes to the gym regularly. When she met her boyfriend, this is what he likes to do is sing!

2006-09-09 16:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by Kit 1

My fiance went off on one when I told her I was having a night out with my best pal who was moving away two days later.I finished our relationship.Was I wrong???????????

2006-09-09 16:48:31 · 13 answers · asked by niolbonthrone 2

I've asked questions about this guy before, so bare with me please. I've seen my casual lover/bf/best friend for more 1.5yrs, about every wk/wknd. Went through alot 2gether, but never really became 2 serious. We both weren't really ready for a serious relationship but always gave each other mixed signals of something that could be more. He asked twice where I bought my jewelry from, & said awhile back that it'd be fun 2 get a log cabin 2gether, where he is from. He understood the fact that my parents were a lil better off than his, like he'd always compare them, maybe to see if I'd look down upon them, which I would NEVER do, if I liked him, I'd like his parents. I'm a city girl, he's from a small town, so I guess I seemed more uppity to him, but tried 2 show him that I liked him 4 who he was, not money. I always dressed nice cuz I like fashion(used 2 model) But I used 2 like the simple life, outdoor life like he does now. And now I regret that I didn't show him I can be like that.

2006-09-09 16:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by feisty 2

2006-09-09 16:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i posted a question a earlier and it regarded me as "fat" i weigh 175 and i am 5'3. i say that i am fat because that is the first negative thing people say when they are upset (i.e. if i choose not to talk to a boy his first reaction maybe "u fat anyway!!") but on my question alot of people seemed upset/disturbed that i consider myself fat... I AM BEAUTIFUL....lets get that clear.....but what do u consider fat????? and what don't guys like to date the girls that are in the middle (not skinny but not really fat fat)?????

2006-09-09 16:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies If someone where to ask you on a serious note what makes a great man what would you say?The reason why i am asking this is because I want to be the best guy i can be with my girl friend. What do you think?

2006-09-09 16:45:01 · 19 answers · asked by nick b 1

i love a guy who loves me too. our love life is very good and we r in love for 3 yr's. but the problem is i am becoming too possesive of him. and always thinking of him. how to stop doing this.

2006-09-09 16:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21, very handsome, live in NYC, have only been to 3 clubs/bars before I was 21, they were like teen-held events (including Webster Hall). I had bad experiences at each because I had no real friends who wanted to accompany me (unlike most guys who go), all the girls there were with some guys or too busy talking to their girlfriends. But now I'm 21 and figure things could be different due to my wider range of places to go, but I'm still scared because what if I encounter the same problems as last time?

I mean are there really women who go to these places to have sex? We hear people guys talk about it so much, yet I hear so many women despise of it. I lack the skills to initiate and close the deal, but can carry a convo. Will the guys there be a problem? Too many guys at a bar/club could steal one's thunder or intimidate even, like it did to me.

2006-09-09 16:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 16:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5

my girlfriend broke up with me and i havent talked to her in 1 week and a half.We broke up like three months ago but were seeing each other until like 3 weeks ago. we were together for three years should i call or let her go and wait for her to call me?

2006-09-09 16:40:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy flirt with me initially and his best friend told him he is interested in me, he kind of ignore me now. He ask me what i think of his best friend (our common friend) and what kind of boyfriend i want..

2006-09-09 16:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3

I have been dating a man for 12 weeks. We had a story book romance in the beginning, all complete down to the "wicked witch" (his ex wife). They have a child together and she was very jealous of me at first. She even threatened to not let him see his daughter. About 7 weeks ago he started driving a truck. He moved out of the house he was renting and is now looking for another apartment. I just came in from a road trip with him. His ex called and wanted to know when he was gonna see the child and during the course of conversation he told her that he would not be in until around 10:30 tonight, Saturday, and is leaving back out tomorrow evening. He told her he needed to do laundry and didn't know if he could see his daughter this w/end. The ex offered to do his laundry and for him to spend the night there. He swears that there is nothing going on, but I am VERY confused. Is it possible that they r just friends?

2006-09-09 16:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by daisy_baby002000 1

I met a guy from online. We hit it off. I spent a couple days with him. He says he really likes me. He wants me to do all the calling. He says he wants to see me again, but is busy for the next week. Doesnt know when we can get together but wants too.

2006-09-09 16:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by C S 1

What was the reason you left him/her ? What did they do, to break your heart?

2006-09-09 16:37:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

...thought you had to be 18 to be on here, whats the deal with all the kids asking sexual questions and then we or s.o. gets reported for saying ****...my daughter tried to get on here and said no you had to 18 ?

2006-09-09 16:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So theres this boy @ skool that i have a huge crush on but i'm confused how he feels. a few yrs we were good friends but then a grl told him i liked him & after she did that he stopped talking 2 me for the rest of that year and the nxt but this summer he started emailing me everyday & instant messaging me. i can catch him looking at me like @ lunch and stuff but when he knows that i can see him he turns quick! he talks to my bff al the time and tells her compliments about me but he never tells me anything. when we go to asemblies and stuff his friends and i r all friends so we sit nxt to eachother but he always sits furthest away.every once in a while though he sits really close with only one person in between us. but when i talk to my friends he comes up to and walks so close to me that i would trip him if i took a step forward. he hardly every says hi but when he does his face goes super red!Sometimes when he is talking to his friends he points at me and they all look and when i look at them they all put their fingers down and turn around.. he smiles at me all the ime and talks to me 24/7 on the comp. but he turns really red when i say hi at skool. i am so confused!!what do u think?

Additional Details

14 minutes ago
the prob. is that i get just as nervous as he does..i mostly just get tongue tied but every once in a while i turn red!

2006-09-09 16:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me why you prefer either one on a guy? Hurry I'm going to the mall to buy them. HAHA

2006-09-09 16:35:19 · 27 answers · asked by skoosh_me 3

IVE KNOWN THESE GUY 4 ABOUT A YEAR. WE WERE 2GETHER 4 A WHILE BUT I DECIDED I WASNT COMPLETELY READY 2 B WITH HIM SO IT ENDED AFTER WE SPENT TIME APART WE TALKED ABOUT IT, DECIDED TO REMAIN FRIENDS. HE NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. I ADMITTED I WANTED HIM BACK (4SINCERE REASONS NOT CUZ OF THE GF), HE WANTS TO STAY WITH HIS GF.ABOUT A MONTH AGO WE HAD A FIGHT, HE SAID HE WANTED ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE SO I DID. BOUT A WEEK AGO HE CONTACTS ME, I SAID I WAS MAD AT HIM SO HE APOLOGIZED. WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM? IT WAS HIS IDEA TO LEAVE ME ALONE. THIS WASN'T THE 1ST FIGHT WE'VE HAD BUT IT IWAS THE 1ST TIME HE'S TOLD ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE. THEN HE JUST CONTACTS ME OUT OF NOWHERE?!

2006-09-09 16:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 16:32:09 · 16 answers · asked by via 1

What attracts you to a man?

2006-09-09 16:31:11 · 20 answers · asked by yankee 2