I think some of you may know what I'm talking about. I've come to discover that there are two sets of good looking guys. The first set is the most common, they're good looking and the good-looking girls chase them.
The 2nd type are the good-looking guys who keep getting ugly girls chasing them instead of the opposite. It's like the beautiful women keep a friendly distance with them but the ugly women have no problem flirting like crazy. Then some of the guys in this category feel as if they have no choice but to date one of them, then you have people coming up to you saying things like You could do better.
Now, all "personality matters more" issues aside, is it my imagination or are there a select few handsome men out there who can only get ugly girls to chase after them?
2006-09-09 16:53:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It probably has to do with what else the guy has to offer. Looks alone generally aren't enough to attract women....we love a guy who is confident, friendly, funny, etc. If a guy comes across as insecure, a jerk, or something else unpleasant, we're not going to be very interested no matter how good-looking he is.
2006-09-09 16:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you say personality aside, but you CAN'T say that. what builds a relationship between two people. It's not how cute of a couple they make it's how they treat each other as people, how well they get along, how much they love and share concern. I know in my experience a person can become the most attractive person in the world to me because of who they are and a person can become ugly by how they act. Maybe these handsome guys your speaking of have realized that looks don't make a person and they have decided to give a erson a chance and not throw them aside like they don't matter when they truly do. If you continue to look at people and relationshipes this way you will end up in a bitter, loveless existence with no "Personality" to dig your way out, because right now your personality is very ugly.
2006-09-09 17:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with confidence. The way you carry yourself (ie. your stance and walk) can say a lot about you to a lot of people at the same time. This can affect the subconscious part of a person's brain. That part of the brain sees that and recognizes a good mate for reproduction (just like animals). Thus they would be inclined to chase them. The guys you refer to probably do not show a lot of outward confidence consistently. Or they have pushed away the "pretty" girls. But you need to remember something important. Some guys realize that beauty fades with time. So why date a beauty queen who is a ***** when you could date plain jane whose personality is that of a goddess? Give me plain jane any day.
2006-09-09 17:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Samael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think angel 174 said it best, but i dont fully agree with her, i believe that its just the way we hold our selves. oh ya believe me when i say i women with a good personality is way better than those women that clammer at the feet of the other guys. cause usually from my experience they are so messed up in the head their insecure and stabbing at everything before it even reaches them. however that is not saying they are are all like that i have met a few good women that are hotties and i do mean few but after the initial meetings then i start to see them through a different light. like my mind pushes pass the whole facade.
2006-09-09 17:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, well there is a reason for that. It's called : "HE's a DOG !!" and I don't care how goodlooking he is, if he's a dog, decent nice looking women won't want to come near him with a ten foot pole. He' s probably full of sh*it too and has horrible social skills. So he goes "skank" chasing; they run slow and he always wins! Makes him feel good. Great questions! Godloveya!
2006-09-09 16:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls don't care about a guys looks u just gotta find the right ones. Also all the guys i know actually do care whether their girls is cute or not
2016-03-27 04:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe these guys see the beauty in these ugly chicks. It's all a matter of preference.
2006-09-09 16:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda get it but it might just be that the girls have a good personality so the hot guy wont go for the looks,
2006-09-09 16:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? It could be that these good looking guys don't have a good personality. That's is my only guess.
2006-09-09 17:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by lavender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because the 2nd type are not as good looking as they think.
2006-09-09 16:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋