I have never dated a girl in my life. Pathetic huh? Girls don't really show interest in me, and I don't really feel comfortable talking to them. I guess that's a major reason I have never had a girlfriend. So please help out this pathetic guy. I wanna know
(1) how to establish a close relationship with a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in me
(2) what signals girls use to show interest
I am not desperate though. I am already too busy taking care of myself. However, I see so many beautiful women at my school (I'm a college freshman), and I feel somewhat lustful. Haha. I wanna know what it's like to date a girl. Help ME! I need detailed answers!
2006-09-09 16:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get off of the computer and learn some social skills. You are not going to establish a real relationship sitting on the computer.
There is no secret answer or directions you just have to get out and learn how to talk to people.
2006-09-09 16:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey... I'm younger than you but since I'm a girl I'll help you out. basic stuff: say hi to a girl you have in class, crack a funny joke, say nasty things about teacher in class (diffidently will make her laugh if she shares your opinion) start up a conversation about bands, ask her if she likes green day or fu fighters, find out what she likes and she'll talk back... the best thing is find out what you have in common... that will keep the conversation going. ask her questions that anyone would ask: what's your favorite color?, your band?, philosophy? get on speaking terms with her first. and say you share common ground with her and you find you both like the fu fighters, ask her to a concert with her friends and yours. ask her casually, like " hey, wanna meet up at this concert, my treat." she might actually say yes and be delighted. she might actually enjoy it and going with you. and if she says no then she may not be ready to go out. give her time to really know you. when she gets a little more comfy around you ask again. you really know when a girl is listening to you when she gives you eye contact, and laughs at your jokes. if she doesn't listen then don't ask her out... she isn't interested. act calm and cool, but don't act so cool she turns a blind eye. girls don't like guys who overact. be yourself and she'll listen to you and respond back. act like a good friend, some girls (like me) like the buddie- buddie hugs. to us it's cute and we love the attension that you give. listen honestly to her and what she says. if you like flirting by jokes you'll be surprised... girls will flirt back. and *bonus points* if you can top her flirt she might blush and giggle. it means she likes you for your charm and that is good cause 9 times out of 10 a girl likes a guy cause he makes her laugh. girls will remember you if you have a sense of humor and it shows them that you are at ease with them, which of course will draw more ladies to you. but always no matter what be yourself because no one likes someone who can't be true to themselves. :)
2006-09-10 00:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask a woman for help. Print out what you wrote and ask her opinion, then tell it's you who wrote it.
You sound like a good person.
2006-09-09 23:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew Noselli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail me and i will teach you how to get a girl friend mmwdemon@yahoo.com
2006-09-09 23:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha
2006-09-09 23:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋