Other - Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

Met a guy around 10 months ago through another guy friend we were like best friends and were also very attracted to each other. During the early stages he told me that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship with any1 at the moment. So we were not intimate, but stayed close and got even closer than before. That was when he started saying that I am someone that he would like to be with as he has a soft spot for me, I am very intelligent, ambitious and very articulate. Then eventually we started seeing each other officially & things didn’t 100% work out, but could of as we got on SO WELL!! he still wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship & he was a very self centered and indecisive which were his down sides. we both tried to move on several times and would get back again. We finally broke things off as I gave him 1 last chance to tell me what exactly he wanted with regards to a relationship and he said that we should be friends as he cant give me or anyone that right now

2007-05-29 23:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a few ex boyfriends (each relationsihip only lasted 3mths max) that i dumped because i cheated on him, or just didn't love him enough to stay commited.
i don't keep in contact with them on a regular basis, and yet they call me every couple of years saying that they wanted to see if i am ready to love them yet. I keep saying no.
now, i am getting married in a few weeks, and i have had a number of ex's ask me to choose them instead of my fiance. swearing that i'd be better with them, because they love me more.
what i don't understand is why is this happening? i may be able to comprehend ONE man doing this over the last 10yrs, but not this many. i am finding the whole thing weird.
would this weird you out? how would you help the ex's come to terms with the fact that you are just simply never going to love them in return?
why do you think this is happening to me? how can i avoid it in the future?
sorry if i sound like a basket case, but i think it's strange altogether.

2007-05-29 23:07:07 · 6 answers · asked by chilly 5

names of newly born babies(Tamilnadu)

2007-05-29 21:59:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not have any feeling towards these two girls.I consider them as my best friends ..but I happend to know that they loves me (i got it from my friends). i donot like to break my relationship with them....

main problem is..they did not tell me this directly. (they told this to my friends ,and they donot know eachother.

2007-05-29 20:35:53 · 11 answers · asked by hello 1

my family absolutley hates my husband. he has had his problems yes, but i do love him and have 2 young children with him and one has severe medical problems. the only way my family will help me with the kids is if we are apart. what do i do? i've had to sacrifice being (physically) with him, he's in a totally different state working right now just so I make sure he works and i have help with the kids. is that right? it's like i have to hide the fact that we are still together and i'm sick of it....pls help. i want my husband and i want my family.

2007-05-29 19:14:16 · 20 answers · asked by angelwachinovrme 1

you think my baby will forget me if i'm gone for 3yrs but i will keep calling her to here my voice. Communication will be helpful for me and my baby pls. advice me if this will help or not tnx.

2007-05-29 18:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by Rainier T 1

2007-05-29 18:32:20 · 24 answers · asked by VILAS S 1

2007-05-29 18:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by bigthang1984 1

ok. so there is this guy. and he is great. and im in like Love with him. weve been best friends for a while now. and so many people come up to me and tell me that he likes me too.
but i dont know what to do. GGGRRRRRR im so mad!
its not that im obsessed with him its just that. Hes Perfect.

[[ well thats how i think of him ]]

2007-05-29 17:50:41 · 1 answers · asked by Shantielmarie 1

(I already asked this once but got no advice!)
So I met this guy, "Jake", about two months ago, and we have started to develop a friendship. He's really cute, charming, and everything I want in a b.f. As you can probably tell, I have a major crush on him. About a month ago, I started to get the feeling that he liked me back. He was flirting with me and there were other signs of his feelings. Well, I was shocked when, about a week ago, he asked out "Cynthia". Jake and Cynthia never seemed to talk or anything before this. Now that they're going out, they hold hands & stuff, but you can tell that there's not a "connection". Since Jake started going out with Cynthia, he has suddenly become more outgoing and talkative towards me, doing things that seem a little different from his naturally shyer personality. Has his "romance" with Cynthia given him more confidence to talk to me? What's going on with him? Please help - I just can't tell how he feels! Thanx!

2007-05-29 16:40:53 · 7 answers · asked by I <3 Relient K 3

Ok, I feel like i am walking on this silver line at the moment, in one way is my happiness and the other way my family. I really love my family, but now that i have finished collage and got a degree, i want to move out and live my life the way i want to. the problem is that i know if i leave i will hurt alot of people and my family will fall apart forever. but if i stay my traditions and duites as a women that i need to follow will kill me because i just can not pretend to be a doll who cries and laughs only when others want to. I can either be selffish and leave a happy family into never ending tears or kill all my desires i had from my self and keep on pretending to be the perfect plastic doll who can't even cry when she wants to. What should i do, follow traditon or my heart. i wish there was a way in which no one got hurt and i could actully live my life rather than living it on someone else terms. what do you think i should do, why are only women the ones who have to sacrafise

2007-05-29 16:33:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants a BABY, not a kid, we already have 2 kids, we are so broke, cant pay bills or afford food. She is so desperate to get pregnant, we have decent jobs, work 2 jobs each, she never takes care of the kids we have, just wants to spend more money on credit cards. Why are people like that? If I can't afford something, I dont get it, period. And this BS that kids dont cost much, yeah right. She has to have fertility treatments to help her get pregnant, that runs $1000 a month, which she charges! I really truly love her so much, but her attitude towards money sucks. And she hates kids, has no patience for them, just thinks babies are cute and wants one to look like her, so she can dress it up and show it off! I do all the hard work like diapers and stuff. We cannot afford a baby, period but if she doesnt have one, she says she will be depressed her whole life, like something is missing.

2007-05-29 14:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Tim S 1

I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years. Seemingly we are very in love, but very intense for lack of a better term. When we drink we can fight like crazy. We've broken up like a dozen times but never more than like 12 hours. It seems we realize we can't live without eachother when we break up and its emotionally draining. Lately we're fighting more than normal with no catalyst other than drunkiness. I feel like I'd like to end it now because I feel like I'm losing.. I have always felt that in a relationship there is a winner and a loser at any given time.. The one who is more in love and vulnerable is obviously the loser. I think I am head over heels but there are little things between us that make me feel like I am more in love with him and I can't help thinking that at least ten times a day. He's ditched me for drinking many times and I feel like I've been cheated on, with beer not another women. If he loved me as much as I love him, he'd choose me over alcohol right?

2007-05-29 13:01:49 · 16 answers · asked by dgavin14 1

plan and simple my g/f is pregnant with my baby. She is the head cheerleader and i am the star QB for my high school football team. I will be the best QB when i enter the NFL in 6 years. We are only juniors and planning on going to collage after high school. We are dating and we did have unprotected sex, she is hot and i mean hot but i love her then just her body.

We do have jobs to support the baby, i will support her and the baby. She works at walmart and i work at movie gallary. She is only a couple weeks pregnant but she is scared already, she won't talk to me because i got her in this situation. I love her and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. My dad is a huge football fan and wants me to keep playing football until now, he wants me to quit football and focus on school and my g/f and the baby, i wont quit sorry but football is the only thing i am good at lol. Should my g/f quit cheerleading because she is pregnant. So what do we do, she is so scared and i am too

2007-05-29 12:40:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 12:03:45 · 5 answers · asked by Amador L 1

where have all the good ones gone

2007-05-29 11:27:31 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

About two weeks i had a dream about a guy i'v not seen in yeas.The dream was that i was walking over a bridge talking to him when a really nice bike came by us with someone on it, my friend then jumped on to the bike and waved goodbye leaving me standing waving back! I spoke to a friend about the dream n told her how peacefull the dream was and how i think he might have passed on or something bad was going to happen. Then a few days ago another friend said he had seen the friend from my dream, i told him about my dream and how i thought somethig was going to happen. Anyway i got a phone call today, i was told that my old friend was found dead in a flat this morning! I am now left feeling really freaked out!!!!!How would u react if this happened to you???????? This bit is for my friend, I love you P xx

2007-05-29 11:24:58 · 19 answers · asked by kid 10 2

my bosses birthday is tomorrow. she is turning 19. i need ideas on something to give her! help please! 10 points! serious answers.. she doesnt need a vibrator or anything...

2007-05-29 11:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Blondie!!! 2

i've been in a long relationship with my girlfriend and lately we have been having alot of problems.......she has been attacking me to go back to school and get a degree......change my work .......she is saying the passion in our relationship is not there anymore. We don't really have much time to see eachother during the week because of work and everything but when we chilled on the weekends and we would have a great time together. we are very attracted physically to eachother but she is very hungover about my faults. anyway we ended up agreeing to take time apart from eachother about a week ago. we are still talking and she shows signs she misses me butit goes no futher then that. now two days ago she tells me she is kinda talkin to someone but likes him more as a friend.now last night we are talking and she brings that up again and says the same things but adds she is so confused and doesn't what to do. i need help....what do i do.....? i'm sooo confused

2007-05-29 10:32:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She thinks I am mad at her, or that I hate her, or that I am regarding her differently than what she anticipated...

She.....was....is....will ever be mistaken...

2007-05-29 10:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by FOREVER AUTUMN 5

Okay.... im still really shy round my bf's family and he's not round mine anymore. (He's hung out with them more tho) but how do i jus come out and not be shy and jus be my self round them??

2007-05-29 09:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by Luvin' life! 1

lol, and its just a webcam. i like clicking on that profile and reading all the guys that think they are actually gonna here from them.

2007-05-29 09:46:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like I am with a friend.

No pevertedness or beating up necessary. ^.^

2007-05-29 09:45:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is in another country he went to see his mom because she was getting an operation. He left almost a month ago. He calls me when he wants sometimes he tells me that he would call at certain time and doesn't even call. He told me to buy phone cards to call him because the cards are too expensive overthere and that he would pay them when he
comes back. He tells me that he loves me and that he misses me alot that he can't wait to see me. Sometimes i believe him but sometimes i dont. I love him with all my heart but i think he really doesn't love me as i love him.

2007-05-29 09:15:26 · 22 answers · asked by Angie 1

i just dont get the thing. why do men like it?

2007-05-29 08:45:55 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

This isn't necessarily a personal question, but more of a question of personal preference. I just kinda want to know what people think..

2007-05-29 08:11:37 · 46 answers · asked by Ashleigh. 1

2007-05-29 07:17:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-05-29 06:12:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive known him 2yrs the 1st year he was locked up 4 eleven months ive ben calln him my big brotha cuz thats wut hes ben like always taken care of me stoppn boys from bothern me untill one day n march we were watchin a flick n he started kissn on me sayn stuff like i wont hurt you i only wanna take care of you i promise i wont ever leave you and he nut*ed in me n hes done it over god knows how many times he says he wants me to b his babymama and his wife p.s hes 20 and im 17 so could he b taken advantage over me because of my age i mean he has never hurt me intentionally but is there things i need to be aware of because im the younger 1 here

2007-05-29 06:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by demari b due august 13, 2009 3

In my mid 30's I dont know many of my generation or older that DIDN't get spanked (at home or paddled in school) when we were growing up. Are people just sayin that like they claim to recycle? I ask bcuz If spanking is SOOOO bad, why is this "untouched" generation so out of control?. I see now that kids provoke teachers to lose it and tape it on their cellphones.(pretty lame)

2007-05-29 05:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by Me 4