Okay.... im still really shy round my bf's family and he's not round mine anymore. (He's hung out with them more tho) but how do i jus come out and not be shy and jus be my self round them??
2007-05-29 09:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by Luvin' life! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is very hard to overcome shyness. Combine that with the neverousness of being around your significant other's family and it can feel overwheming.
The best thing to do is to be yourself and focus on not worrying on how they perceive you.
Try engaging them in conversation about themselves. Sometimes its easier to let them do the talking! See what I mean? If you take control of the conversation and and engage them first, it gives you a lot of time to get comfortable.
2007-05-29 09:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Moderates Unite! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be super shy around people. So I speak from experience: Work on in it! It takes a lot of practice to be able to work the shyness out. And it will probably still never go away completely. But if you work on talking more, being more social, and participating when you normally wouldn't have done so before, it will become easier. There is no other way to do it.
2007-05-29 09:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's really hard, because you are probably really nervous. You just have to remember that if your boyfriend likes your real self, his family will too. What really helps is if you find something you know a lot about or feel comfortable and like talking about. If you do, it will be easier for you to open up and you'll feel less nervous and more relaxed.
Good luck!
2007-05-29 09:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 03:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard to do, trust me. but u should be yourself! make some jokes, find out from ur bf what they like to do and start a conversation about it. find something u have in common, it will help a lot to get rid of awkward silences. lol
2007-05-29 09:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to hang out with his family. As uncomfortable as it may be at the time, it will eventually become easier and more comfortable with time.
Good luck. = )
2007-05-29 10:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to get use to seeing them often then later when they talk to you more and more and after you're getting to know them you won't be shy with them anymore.
2007-05-29 09:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become good at a talent, skill or proffession and allow others to ask you questions about a subject, activity or idea you know. nothing beats shyness like confidence. knowledge is definitely power.
2007-05-29 09:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it....sux but thats the only way.....or maybe spend more time until you feel comfortable.....mostly just starting being who you are and dont worry so much....your bf likes you and thats what matters!
2007-05-29 09:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by justashley541 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of thinking about what they think of you start thinking about them things they would want to talk about and things that they would want to do
2007-05-29 09:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋