My boyfriend is in another country he went to see his mom because she was getting an operation. He left almost a month ago. He calls me when he wants sometimes he tells me that he would call at certain time and doesn't even call. He told me to buy phone cards to call him because the cards are too expensive overthere and that he would pay them when he
comes back. He tells me that he loves me and that he misses me alot that he can't wait to see me. Sometimes i believe him but sometimes i dont. I love him with all my heart but i think he really doesn't love me as i love him.
2007-05-29 09:15:26 · 22 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should give him a chance he may really love you. Then if you break up with him you would have wasted a great relationship. My boyfriend is the best and @ first i though he would not be the best boyfriend for me but he has turned out to be. Just because he does not call you does not meen he is cheating or does not love you he is in another country. Email me if you want to talk. ~mariah
2007-05-29 09:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is enough info in this to determine whether he loves you or not. Love is a very strong thing, that mainly stems from trust. If you truly love him you must be able to trust that going to another country for his moms operation, is the best for him. So when he gets back that should be the time to determine your love. When he first sees you the look on his face should be easier to read than a book. That will be the best time to determine the extent of his love.
2007-05-29 09:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by jocho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his mother is ill, maybe he's just busy worrying about her. Him being so far away is no reason to not trust him..he is a guy and he may simply forget to call because he's taking care of his Mom.
Before you get too upset, talk to him about how his actions are causing you concern. When he gets back, you both need to sit down and have a heart to heart...now is not the time to make a big deal out of it. When you see him face to face is the time to figure out if he's hiding things from you..until then, if you truly do love him, be supportive and patient..but keep your eyes open.
2007-05-29 09:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is going through a rough time right now and he needs all the support he can get and hes doing the best he can by balancing his time and schedule for you.. At least, support him while hes over there... And, try buying the phone cards because it'll be easier for him.. He loves you don't worry .. You just don't feel loved because he is not in your presence..
2007-05-29 09:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 'Does my boyfriend really love me'
Well i think that it is just the fact that he is overseize and he wants to get into the life habit and that the fact that his mom got an operation things like that happen i know a freind of mine who once jumped to conclusions and in the end her boyfriend dumped her. Talk to him about how you feel but in a calm manner because yelling and screaming wont help but try not to jump to conclusions its hard to believe but then if it gets touch the only good advice i can give you is to look deep into your heart!
Bye, and good luck!
2007-05-29 09:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look he is with his family so you have to calm down. Also when he doesn't call it only means that he is busy or tried to call but couldn't get to a phone. If you need reassurance tell him oh i thought you were suppose to call what happened?? And he will tell you. If he does says I forgot then do remember he is with his family which he doesn't see often and when he gets back you will be his main focus. Have faith . If he didn't care he wouldn't bother to call at all.
2007-05-29 09:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For his sake I hope he doesnt love you. Lets see, he's off seeing his mother who just had an operation and your selfish a*s is worrying that he's not calling you when he says he will. Did occur to you he might be busy or its a little expensive you brat
2007-05-29 09:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never really know if some 1 loves you or not you just have to go with your instinct and find out for your self. . . if he calls you every day. . . if he wants to be with you all the time. . . no matter where you are at. . . then he most likely loves you but. . . if he just kinda calls once or twice a week and you dont really go out much then you never know
2007-05-29 09:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is expensive, (very expensive) to call from another country to us... my fam. lives in northwest of mex and they pay alot of $ when they call us.... may b with his mom in surgery and all the family around, it may b hard for him... when he does call, show him your concern and be supportive. besides, he's coming back soon so just be patient and stay by his side now that he needs you the most
2007-05-29 09:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by laa morenaaaaaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeeeeaaaaah, right. He's stringing you along. Probably telling the other chicks the same story. Kick To Curb.
2007-05-29 09:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋