I do not have any feeling towards these two girls.I consider them as my best friends ..but I happend to know that they loves me (i got it from my friends). i donot like to break my relationship with them....
main problem is..they did not tell me this directly. (they told this to my friends ,and they donot know eachother.
2007-05-29 20:35:53 · 11 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
donot do anything...please wait..
first you should make sure whether the news u heard is correct ..
second , if so ...just wait until its have come out from their mouth.
thirdly ..then you can take a decision.....and handle this situation decently and gently...............
donot worry....be friends..take care ..bye................
2007-05-29 20:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cheers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to figure out how to be honest and kind to both of them. Tell them how you feel. It would not be inappropriate to find a way to introduce them to each other, but I can't tell you how best to go about that.
If you don't have feelings toward them they should know that and you should tell them in the most diplomatic and gentlest way possible.
This is hard. Often it is easier to be hurt yourself than it is to hurt another person, especially two other people.
You probably can discuss this matter with friends you trust, but be careful what you tell them as it could get back to these girls and that might hurt them more than the truth coming from you.
Good luck. There are a lot of guys who would love to trade places with you.
2007-05-29 20:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule #1 never believe anything you hear and only 1/2 of what you see.If they feel this way they will tell you someday,until then continue the friendship normally.If they do ever tell you be HONEST with them.Honesty is the best policy.
2007-05-29 20:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then continue as being friends..
happened to me before, and they're still my friends after 7 years.
2007-05-29 20:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by rhkenji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you dont have feelings for either of them.. just let them both know.. it sucks to like a guy and he doesnt like you back.. just let them down easily.
2007-05-29 20:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Claudia M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them in a nice way that you dont have any feelings for them. but still you want to maintain your relationship with them. good luck!
2007-05-29 20:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your best friend they will try to understand you and maintain the friendship not the love .
2007-05-29 20:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about an honest talk, one on one, one at a time?
2007-05-29 20:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing. since you don't have feeling for either one, and they didn't tell you, then obviously, you weren't supposed to know about it. just continue to say and do nothing.
2007-05-29 21:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kali_Iceheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont know that u know? just act normal. you dont want to make ur relationship awkward.
2007-05-29 23:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by laughed and lived 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋