Other - Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

reading one of the papers today they said that on average females have slept with 14.5 partners and males slightly higher if this was the case would you tell your current partner about your sex life before them?

2007-02-08 06:31:03 · 17 answers · asked by DAVID C 2

my bf and i have been dating on and off for 19 months and mostly on. well, anyway, yesterday we were driving around and he said something about this ring that he gave me for my 22nd b-day: the James Avery silver "True Love Waits" on how it is my lucky charm or it brings me luck and i had to think that not necessarily. besides that he gave me the ring in the summer of 2006 while i broke up with him trying to figure things out and such. he and i know the Bible and stuff like everyone and my favorite verse from the Bible is 1 Corinathian(13: 4-8) and he looked at the ring and said that yeah my true love is out there and that " love is patient" he quoted Cotinthians which took me by surprise. then yesterday as well he asked about Romania, my home country and the price of the airfare and when it would be the best time for him to visit it-which turned out to be winter. Last yr.he asked my mom about food prices and such in Romania as though he wanted to come. help

2007-02-08 06:17:53 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5

I had a bad breakup with my ex gf. I love her so much and care, but I don't feel like I had that in return. She found someone else, but recently cheated on her new gf with ME! She told me recently she just wants to be friends cuz she's trying to respect her gf, so I said fine..she said that b4, so I didn't really believe it, but now, we don't talk at all. I use to give her so much damn attention, but now, I don't bother not even with one text. I'm so tempted to contact her, and I'm strong enough not to call or text her, but when she texts me, I'm a bit weak! Yesterday she texts me telling me her mom had a stroke, and I said sorry, but left it at that...no more replies after that, I thought maybe it's cuz she wanted me to feel sorry for her. I've deleted her number, but it's obvious she hasn't gotten rid of my number. Am I only someone she'll come to at her own convenience? When is it that ex's come back? I don't want to hope for anything, nor do I want to be back w/ her.

2007-02-08 06:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my boyfriends mom recently got evicted, so her,her son and her boyfriend are staying with us until they find a house to rent. That's not my problem, my problem is that her boyfriend wil yell and scream at her son ALL THE TIME!! And I come from a loud family, but this is ridiculas.All he does is call the kid a liar, and the mom does nothing! I really don't know what wo do. I don't like that he's always yelling in our house, I don't yell and neither does my boyfriend. I told my boyfriend that I didn't like the fact that his brother was always getting yelled at, but he did nothing. So my real question is...would you say something to the mom? Or just decide to leave it be??

Sorry this was so confusing, I didn't wanna use names :)

2007-02-08 06:11:58 · 20 answers · asked by giggles for breakfast :) 2

I just turned 30 years old and here's my story.....
I met a wonderful boy when I was in 9th grade. He followed me to my first period class everyday. He'd say, "hey girl, come here for a minute." I'd say, "I have to get to class." One day I stopped and talked to him, we hit it off and ended up together untl his death. I was 20 years old and he was 21. At the time of his death, we had a son who was 1 1/2 yrs old and a 2 month old daughter (now 11 and 9 1/2). Ok folks, he passed away of a seizure on 6/6/1997. I have since had 2 more children (2 & 4) by someone who I'm no longer with, but I still cry sometimes about my two oldest childrens dad. When I think about him my chest hurts and I'm still so hurt. He treated me so well and I loved him so much. He was a beautiful person. His death was all of a sudden, here one day and gone the next. Should I still be this hurt? Will I feel this way for the rest of my life? I'm just not sure if this is normal.

2007-02-08 06:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned 30 years old and here's my story.....
I met a wonderful boy when I was in 9th grade. He followed me to my first period class everyday. He'd say, "hey girl, come here for a minute." I'd say, "I have to get to class." One day I stopped and talked to him, we hit it off and ended up together untl his death. I was 20 years old and he was 21. At the time of his death, we had a son who was 1 1/2 yrs old and a 2 month old daughter (now 11 and 9 1/2). Ok folks, he passed away of a seizure on 6/6/1997. I have since had 2 more children (2 & 4) by someone who I'm no longer with, but I still cry sometimes about my two oldest childrens dad. When I think about him my chest hurts and I'm still so hurt. He treated me so well and I loved him so much. He was a beautiful person. His death was all of a sudden, here one day and gone the next. Should I still be this hurt? Will I feel this way for the rest of my life? I'm just not sure if this is normal.

2007-02-08 06:09:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned 30 years old and here's my story.....
I met a wonderful boy when I was in 9th grade. He followed me to my first period class everyday. He'd say, "hey girl, come here for a minute." I'd say, "I have to get to class." One day I stopped and talked to him, we hit it off and ended up together untl his death. I was 20 years old and he was 21. At the time of his death, we had a son who was 1 1/2 yrs old and a 2 month old daughter (now 11 and 9 1/2). Ok folks, he passed away of a seizure on 6/6/1997. I have since had 2 more children (2 & 4) by someone who I'm no longer with, but I still cry sometimes about my two oldest childrens dad. When I think about him my chest hurts and I'm still so hurt. He treated me so well and I loved him so much. He was a beautiful person. His death was all of a sudden, here one day and gone the next. Should I still be this hurt? Will I feel this way for the rest of my life? I'm just not sure if this is normal.

2007-02-08 06:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The make an L with your fingers dosen't work. Pls help

2007-02-08 06:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by Happy S 1

My boyfriend is a great person he likes underground hip hop he likes concerts and things like that and his birthday is coming up I've only been with him for about 6 month. I'm stuck I dont know what to get him So guys help me out with some gift ideas

2007-02-08 06:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by bonita 1

My girlfriend is in the Army, and I am in the process of trying to rejoin the Army. I know that there are going to be some upcoming hardships with the possibility of seperation due to deployment and training and all that, but I am wanting to know if anyone has any advice on the situation. How we can help to make the relationship last and also to make it easier than what a lot of people say its might be.

2007-02-08 06:04:19 · 2 answers · asked by deftonehead778 4

My child's father left when he was 8 months old. I went and filed for child support. I had his name, birthdate, social, and all previous addresses. They sent him a certified letter and they said since no one was there to sign for it that my case was closed. It is now 7 years later and I have tried to find this guy on my own. He has not filed any tax returns in the past 7 years. How can I find this guy so that my child can start receiving child support?

*******serious answers only - all others will be reported as abuse - thank you************

2007-02-08 05:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by Faith 1

Is there a woman that is a mother or soon to be mother have the time to maybe email me and have a coverstation with me. Im looking for someone serious that maybe able to help answer some questions that I have. Not someone that just wants to make jokes and act like a child. If so please let me know. Thank you very much in advance.

2007-02-08 05:36:18 · 11 answers · asked by miss lady 1

My man and i are getting married in one month he is a great guy and makes excellent money, he has always been good to me and has never raised and argument or a hand at me, i know that i am luck to have some one like him...however he is not exactly equipt very well and he is pretty small...what can we do so that we can have sex? ((I dont want to leave him because that is a pretty shallow reason to leve someone))

2007-02-08 05:31:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-02-08 05:24:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He never did anything to help me with her. He's always been dodging me. I feel that if he wanted to be in her life more he shouldn't of had tried to control mine. He left me harassing voicemails, which lead to a Order of protection. I now have a two year order... But he did want visitation. I don't want his money after two years you wanted to bring up the fact that you want to see her. She doesn't know him or his family. I am afraid that something will happen. He was engaged when we got together which he lied to me then. When my daughter was born his family didn't want him to reconize her or put his last name. He did but i wouldn't hear from him...only when he wanted to visit me. After i got tired and moved on with my life he decides that he wants to be apart of her life. Which by then to me was to late. He was jealous that i moved on. He doesn't want my daughter to know any other man but he hurt me and left me to do everything alone.

2007-02-08 05:15:20 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5

2007-02-08 05:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Heather T 2

I read about a murderer in the papers and his mother stood up for him saying he was her precious son. That man took 3 lives ... ...
In this day and age where everyone is supposed to be independent, it is easy for a family member to want preferential treatment because of blood relations. Yet such a system would erode away since now people are less inclined to be responsible!

There is also working in the family where a family member would be putting more work than any non blood relations simply because he is family - thus the guilt trip.
Is this guilt trip justifiable?

Cases can come up when one family member says to the potential family employee that he should do more using words like, "I am your Uncle," yet there had never been much communication or personalities are very different.

If you were never close to your relatives due to generation gap, character differences/other reasons or the relationship ended - do you owe them anything?

2007-02-08 05:06:27 · 10 answers · asked by thinkpp 2

Okay here is my dilemma. I have a lot of females friend who whine about Valentines day. What is the big deal? I would like to hear other people's opinion about this fabricated day. I am in a long term relationship and have no desire to recieve a gift that day. I would prefer not to be generic and he buy me roses or candy just because he thought it was nice. Why do men get so bogged down with "having" to buy that day or they will make the wife/partner feel inadequate. How many women buy for men? It seems that this is a single sided holiday....but then again what do I know, I never give or receive on this day. I buy him things all the time without thought or stress....more because I liked it and thought it was a nice gift to say thank you for being such a great partner!

Just curious as my partner and I have been discussing this for a few days now. For the record we have been together for 20+ years and have 3 kids.......so long term is REALLY LONG! lol

2007-02-08 05:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by jjchicagoca 2

like how do you know if your friend is in a abusive relationship or not

2007-02-08 04:55:24 · 21 answers · asked by hoco_boy09 1

take my question in any sense you like...

2007-02-08 04:53:05 · 9 answers · asked by X 3

2007-02-08 04:42:13 · 1 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3

i have a friend marc hes really rich but really ugly and nerdy hes 19 and hasnt been laid what should i do to help him?

2007-02-08 04:39:36 · 11 answers · asked by brett h 1

i now live with him. my kids wanted to finish the school year out in their school before coming along. the kids said that they now want to live with my mother and visit me on weekends.
i've been with my kids from the start (single parent) worked to take care of them. this guy is good to them and me. in everyway! What do i do?

2007-02-08 04:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by ☼ utopia ☼ 1

im 17....18 in march and have never had a girlfreind. i dont understand but there's this girl in school that i really like and dont know how to ask her out. dont even konw if she's intersested in me.
how can i find out and get her attention.
any help would be great : )

2007-02-08 04:27:56 · 28 answers · asked by Vikrant S 1

Me what I love most about my life right now is my husband and our two teenage boys, and my true friends. What I love least is an unfortunate argument with a guy friend that I thought was a true friend but, I was wrong. Oh well, whatever! Life goes on. Take Care all.

2007-02-08 04:08:51 · 7 answers · asked by art_girlt 3

I am 26 years old....not yet married, 50lbs overweight, poor....and I have an 8 year old son. I am so confused on what to do. I wasnt planning on having kids with my fiancee until after we were married. I do want a family, but I dont want to get any bigger, and honestly we are having a hard time making ends meet now the way it is.......can anyone relate to me, and please give me some advice? I dont want to make the wrong choice, I am scared!

2007-02-08 03:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by travischrissy 2

Does anyone else here feel that true happniness NEVER lasts? It seems like whenever something is going well in life, we always have to pay a price for it later. For everything good that happens (whether we are in a good realtionship ect) ''fate'' always has a way of making a balance.
To the same extent, it never seems to happen the other way around though...I think it really sucks! ='(

anyone else feel the same?

2007-02-08 03:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by L666 1

i am in love and pregnant by this guy and he's the love of my life nobody knows im pregnant but my best friends family and his,,,, i scared to tell my mom because i dont want her to make me stop going with him we're engaged to get married when i turn 16 hes a really great guy we've been through so much stuff together but came out strong his mom died last year do u think my mom will treat him like her son and be cool with it our do u think she'll call the cops?????? what would u do????? do u think we should still talk or go our separate ways ????? not to 4get theres a baby well 2 because im having twins

2007-02-08 03:46:25 · 26 answers · asked by tamika 1

My b/f says I nag him when my monthly is on. I must admit that I do, only because there are things that we can't do. Do you, ladies, get the same hearing or something different?
Thanks,
Mom of B & D

2007-02-08 03:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by Mom of B & D 5