My man and i are getting married in one month he is a great guy and makes excellent money, he has always been good to me and has never raised and argument or a hand at me, i know that i am luck to have some one like him...however he is not exactly equipt very well and he is pretty small...what can we do so that we can have sex? ((I dont want to leave him because that is a pretty shallow reason to leve someone))
2007-02-08 05:31:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Size has nothing to do with it! You need to try new things if you aren't happy. Try Karma Sutra! You can even find it online!
2007-02-08 05:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with jjchicago. Get out before you are trapped in a situation whereby you are obliged to stay just because you don't want to be shallow. Be selfish while you can, once in a relationship, you have his feelings to consider and i can imagine him being inferior and having to top that 'little' size with his ego or anything else which can be worse.
Marriage is a life time commitment. Sex may not be a priority but is is important. It compliments a good and healthy relayionship. You can buy sex toys but you cannot buy the real satisfying original warm flesh feeling if for an instant you decide to really want it real.
Breaking up is a messy affair, so make a clean and fast one now or you will have to endure a messy or dirty tangle later on. Imagine a worse situation when children are involved. Be smart.
Yet, if you decide to proceed, be heeded and know what to expect. Good luck.
2007-02-10 03:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyluck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay going out on a limb here but props to all those wonderful people who gave great advice. I unlike the others would be shallow. If I am not sexually satisfied then it will bring issues later down the road. Think long and hard (no pun intended) on your decision because it is much easier to end a relationship than get divorced. Toys and oral are great but sometimes you just need that good ol' fashion lovin! I speak from total "shallow" experience! It is horrible I know but I also know that after 2 years and talk about marriage and family it was much easier to cut the ties early on. He is more than likely better off without me anyway. Why be in a relationship that you have doubts? Only you can decide but best of luck to you all the same.
2007-02-08 05:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by jjchicagoca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one! I am not sure that your problem can be solved! There are many claims that there are some medicines or pills to extend or longat man's department. I am yet to hear from those who have benefinted from such medicine.
However, I want to emphasize that size is not that important, but may be to you. If that is the case and there is no cure or practical help, then you are more likely to strained relationship.
I hope it is not. I wish you the best.
2007-02-08 05:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work with ya got honey. He is probably way more insecure about it than you. You make sure he orally pleases you and then what happens after that is for him. Size really doesnt matter but if it does to you, you two should go to the sex toy store and find something he can use on you together....
But it may make him insecure if its too big, so avoid the big pink donkey dinks, if ya know what i mean. Good luck...
2007-02-08 05:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of sounding rathe riske', have you ever heard of "oral sex" by chance? Or even using a hand or an adult toy? If he has problems with erectil dysfunction, then have him go to his doctor and get some Cialis! It works better than Viagra anyday of the week!
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2014-11-21 19:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not have the biggest "book" in the library. I have been married for seventeen years and have learned to complete an oral exam prior to taking on any new courses. In the last ten to twelve years I have been able to use my book to "find the right questions to get a positive response." She has told me there are two courses(positions) that I ace every time!! Keep on reading together until you find some courses that are mutually beneficial!!!
2007-02-08 06:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can still be great regardless of his size. Buy a book on Kama Sutra and you can try out different positions. You may find one that works wonders.
2007-02-08 05:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Eternal Storm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD QUESTION! DIFFICULT ANSWER!
Have you entertained the idea of teaching him oral sex (giving and receiving) -- Toys are a plus...and just make it work for you..experiment and see what can get you an orgasm with what he has...
GOOD LUCK and congrats on the wedding--I commend you for not leaving for a shallow reason
2007-02-08 05:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋