I had a bad breakup with my ex gf. I love her so much and care, but I don't feel like I had that in return. She found someone else, but recently cheated on her new gf with ME! She told me recently she just wants to be friends cuz she's trying to respect her gf, so I said fine..she said that b4, so I didn't really believe it, but now, we don't talk at all. I use to give her so much damn attention, but now, I don't bother not even with one text. I'm so tempted to contact her, and I'm strong enough not to call or text her, but when she texts me, I'm a bit weak! Yesterday she texts me telling me her mom had a stroke, and I said sorry, but left it at that...no more replies after that, I thought maybe it's cuz she wanted me to feel sorry for her. I've deleted her number, but it's obvious she hasn't gotten rid of my number. Am I only someone she'll come to at her own convenience? When is it that ex's come back? I don't want to hope for anything, nor do I want to be back w/ her.
2007-02-08 06:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My problem is, if she calls on me for anything, I'll be there. When it was the other way around, I never got the time of day...it's hard to accept, but I'm tired. I feel she's done with me completely, but do they usually come back???
2007-02-08 06:15:25 · update #1
I think that she only is taking you for granted.. she knows that your always gonna be there no matter what.. but, how about you?.. is she always there for you no matter what?.. I think you should move on.. you are so precious and I think a lot of people will see that in you.. If you were really meant to be, then fate will bring you back to each other..
2007-02-08 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar situation not long ago! You have to know that when someone loves or cares about you they never want to do anything that will hurt you. Ask yourself if you would or could treat her the way she has treated you and if the answer is no then it's probably because you love her. When people only care about their wants and needs it's a sure sign they don't care about yours. You deserve better so in usher's words "LET IT BURN"
Sonia in Columbus
2007-02-08 14:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you love someone, no matter what they do, you can only be there for them and hope that one day theyll appreciate you as much as they should. I know it sucks and hurts but loves like that sometimes. It not a lightswitch you can just flip when you dont want in anymore, you just have to take the bad with the good, and i hope in your future everything goes well for you.
2007-02-08 14:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem my x broke up with me and never stops calling makes it hard to get over you just don't respond to them well I'm sorry about your brake up.
2007-02-08 15:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on
she is not a faithful person
by the way same sex does pass on STD as well as heterosexual
so please take care
and let this woman go
2007-02-08 14:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋