I am in love with this guy and im 15 and he's 22?

Question

i am in love and pregnant by this guy and he's the love of my life nobody knows im pregnant but my best friends family and his,,,, i scared to tell my mom because i dont want her to make me stop going with him we're engaged to get married when i turn 16 hes a really great guy we've been through so much stuff together but came out strong his mom died last year do u think my mom will treat him like her son and be cool with it our do u think she'll call the cops?????? what would u do????? do u think we should still talk or go our separate ways ????? not to 4get theres a baby well 2 because im having twins

Answer 1

ooooh...you might want to keep that under wraps as you can get the guy in jail.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, I hate to be so harsh, but both of you are total idiots!

You're fifteen years old, you still have school, and a life to build of your own. First of all, you obviously don't know what love is, seeing as how you're talking. I wouldn't suggest you throwing your life away to someone who is 22 years old!

He is 22 years old, and most likely, you are not the only girl in his life. Even if you were, someone better, more his age, will come along, and you will be left alone, without a husband, or a father to your baby. Another statistic.

I hope your mother does make you leave him, because this is not right, she should call the cops because this is very illegal, most states the age of consent is 16 years old.

And even then, it's consent 16 to three years, meaning when you are 16 you can only have sex with someone three years older than you. And to get married at 16, you need a parents permission for the emancipation.

Even then, he would have to have a job to support you and your expenses, and your baby's. Not to mention, you would have to show that you can go to school still, hold a job, and still take care of your baby.

I have to say, you are a total bloody idiot.

Answer 3

At your age I don't really think you know what love is and at his age he should have known better. But than again I have a friend who met a 15 yr old at church, he was 25. They got married at 16 with parents approval and have 2 kids and are very happy. On the other hand I know another guy who dated a 14 year old behind her Mom's back and when she found out she pressed charges. He's in jail for 30 years now. So, moral of the story tell your Mom. Honesty is the mature thing to do, and your Mom will see that and appreciate it. Good luck!

Answer 4

There's no way all this can be smoothed over and you live happily every after. At best, all hell is going to break loose. Any 22 year old man going with a 15 year old girl is not a nice guy. He's manipulating you and your situation. This guy is not going to accept his responsibility as a parent. If he was a real man, he would immediately start making realistic plans for the babies and face your parents with you and accept what ever consequence befalls him. You may have been through a lot going with him but, he hasn't been through a lot going with you. This man doesn't love you. You're too young to understand what real love is about. This man is selfish and only loves himself and it's not surprising if he has another girl pregnant too. You may as well tell your mother now because she's going to find out. I hope she has this guy arrested or run him off with a shot-gun. Make sure you go to court so it can be legally documented that this statutory rapist is the father of your twins and, also, to get child-support payments. Please, leave this person alone, stay in school, take parenting classes, make plans for your post high-school education, and make plans for your twins as their mother. If you continue seeing this man, you'll be pregnant again within a year of your twins birth. This guy is bad news.

Answer 5

Dear God---one of you , well both actually did not take the responsibility to use protection , you are underage and he is immature. For one, by having sex with you he is guilty of stuatory rape...secondly you are 15 years old, you are not in love, you may think you are, but you have not even begun to become your own person yet or learned any life lessons to be in love...however, you are about to learn a very hard life lesson. You will not be able to hide this pregnancy, hopefully you have seen a doctor, obviously you have as you say you are having twins. There will be questions asked as to who the father is--you are going to have to divulge this. It is up to your parents or social services who will more than likely become involved as to whether or not charges will be pressed against this guy. You are 15 and not ready for children, if your parents are not supportive, and don't be suprised if they are not, they will be the ones raising this child, not you )they may be taken away from you. Also, do not expect this guy to stick by you, you are a child, as is he. Do you really think you will get married and live happily ever after. If your parents let you bring these children into your home, he will have to pay child support , don't be suprised if he takes off or denies he is the father when things get a little bit hairy. My advise, have the babies and give them up for adoption, there are many loving couples that are emotionally and finianically stable that will give those innocent babies the life that they deserve. I hate to sound mean, but in all reality, you are too young and he is probably a worthless piece of crap to have sex with a 15 year old.

Answer 6

Do you understand that Yahoo can trace your IP, forward this to the local police based on your IP and you could be getting a knock at your door in no time? Don't you know that the FBI and local police search websites like this one looking for sexual predators and terrorists?

If what you said is true, there is a chance you go back home any day and find your mother that you don’t want to tell anything waiting for you together with some cops to start asking you questions about your future to be “husband” in jail.

If is not true, go offline, and be ready to explain this to the cops when they knock at your door.

But anyways, if this is true, you need to talk to your parents, or look for help and counseling at your local government agency. You are going to need help (specially if that story of twins is true), financially, morally, and physiologically. If things go well, and your boyfriend is serious about this as well, then maybe you can avoid the police and try to have a family with him.

I just wonder what is so freaking difficult about using something so simple as a condom. Why can’t people (specially young) just turn on their brain for a second before having sex and use some freaking protection.

Answer 7

I am the mother to a four year old daughter so I have to talk to you like a mom and I am telling you I would call the cops this man should know better than to get involved with a child and he is a criminal for what he has done though I commend you for keeping the babies because they do not deserve to pay the price for what this man did. I do know that you are grown up enough to know what you were getting into but a 22 year old man should stay away from little girls!

Answer 8

Sound like you got your self in some s h i t....

Now your worried what your moms going to do when I bet you didn't think that when you were asking him for sex right?

Remember you cant hide a pregnancy for the whole nine months...

Your going to have to tell you mom and if I was her I would be on the phone with the cops...

Your still a Little girl you haven't even seen whats out there for you..

Now I bet you fill stupid...

P.s.
A baby doesnt mean the guys will stick around....

Answer 9

Let me tell you this straight. Okay, I'm a 16 yr. old and if I was to get pregnant by a older guy my family would take his a** to jail. You don't need to be dating a 22 year old guy. You need to date your own age. You are six years younger than him and a minor what the he** is wrong with you? You need to finish school and stop messing with this guy. If he really loved you, he would respect the fact that you are young and need to keep his hands off you. Feelings isn't love. Have a nice day!!!!

Answer 10

Let's see. An adult 22 years old man has sex with a minor 15 year old (which is illegal and punishable with jail time) getting her pregnant. There is not a chance that your mother will take this well. Not a chance. Nor should she.

He is a child predator. He is a sexual deviant. He is no good for you.

Jail time for him.

What makes you think you can legally marry at 16 without parental consent?
http://www.coolnurse.com/marriage_laws.htm

Answer 11

You mentioned you both have been through alot together. HELLO you are 15 you haven't been through much of anything yet.

If you are telling truth..which I doubt..because you are 15 and have been to the Dr. without your mother knowing ??? Either way there is a baby or 2 involved and THEY COME FIRST