Other - Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

We use it have good sex and as many times as possible but for some time now he does not desire me anymore and he has resorted to masturbation.
Our marriage has been rocky, but am wondering because I have always availed my self as a wife but he seems to prefer masturbating.What makes it easy for one to masturbate and is it normal when one has
a willing wife?

2007-02-08 18:17:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I not let go of him. He is the typical Pisces, I am the typical Virgo, and sometimes I just wonder why I like him so much.

Pisces opinions especially.

2007-02-08 17:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by Femme 2

Okay, my husband has a friend from work. He's young, about 19 I think and his girlfriend is 20. They were having sex quite a bit (you know how guys talk) but now he has decided he wants to wait for marriage before they have sex anymore. They say they will get married some day, but haven't really set a date for it. I know she would like to continue having sex, but maybe she respects his decision. It just seems really backwards to me. Do you think their relationship can survive something like that? To me it seems like giving a baby a taste of candy and then taking it away.

2007-02-08 17:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever I have a one night stand or make love with my guy friends, I develop a deeper love(platonic) and respect for the guy.

Is that normal and how could that be? Both were great experiences.

2007-02-08 17:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

2007-02-08 17:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by Steven A 1

after you had a one night stand or made love to/with that person for the first time?

And things feel different since then?

2007-02-08 16:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

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That's him
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That's me

I'm usually never a shallow person but in the past two years I've been with this guy who is totally out of my league in everyway possible and I don't know why he picked me at all. 8 girls have crushed on him and only 1 dude has crushed on me since the start of our relationship. I know I'm not supposed to care about those sorts of things but in the back of my mind the thought of us not working out because of my insecurity consumes me. I know I love him and he claims to love me to, however I feel that I am wasting his time. Is there anyway to boost my self esteem up without plastic surgery? Should I tell him how I feel or will I sound crazy?

2007-02-08 16:38:19 · 5 answers · asked by Kismet 3

i want my hubby to listen to what i have to say instead of ignoring me we're having problems with his mother cuz shes a crazy woman, he listens to her complaints about me but when i try to clear up the lies he tells me to shut up and that he doesnt want to hear my garbage about his family, i get sad cus he doesnt believe me when i didnt do anything, the mother inlaw does this so he stops speaking to me she loves it when we fight and not talk to each other, alot of people told me i can bring him towards me by sex is this true?

2007-02-08 16:31:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my girlfriend and i have been daiting for a year now and she dumped me out of the blue because i am not man enough for her or what ever im crushed what do i do
she cheated on me once before but i let it slide and now i think she had cheated again and so she calls me and tells me its over what should i do i feel so heart broken

2007-02-08 16:25:13 · 15 answers · asked by brandon f 1

I think a decision I might make today could effect 2morrow! I might regret it. I would just like to hear some other people's regrets.

2007-02-08 16:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by ♥BabyGirl♥ 2

My gf's associates from back in the day are coming to visit Korea for a day or two. Apparently, these people are coming from Europe cause they are flight attendants. They are going to be in Japan for 2days for a lay over or something and my girl has suggested to them hanging out since they haven't seen each other for 15-20years since they were in elementary school. Anywho, she tells me that they will be meeting up next week and I can join if I want but they will be speaking in Danish and she doesn't know if I will enjoy it much. By the way may I mention all of these people speak English. She has told these people about me to them and etc. I got upset with my gf because she won't even take the time out to translate for me or to speak in English for me. I don't know am i being selfish here? I told her god I wish you would be more considerate. She thinks that I am trying to change her. Do you guys consider that changing someone?

2007-02-08 16:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by XX 2

Can a married man have a relationship with another woman for 16 months and yet claimed there was no love feelings, only physical? He did tell her he loved her but he said those words to please her coz he knew the woman wanted to hear those words. The man ended the affair over the phone after 16 months and went back to his wife and family. Men, I need your honest answer on this.

2007-02-08 16:13:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 16:05:34 · 33 answers · asked by Aimee 3

My mother in law of 14 years has tried to help my husband get together with other women even encouraging him to split up with me. She puts down our children by stating that they are too mature for their age and that they should be as hillbilly as the rest of the family. Well she didn't say the last part but that is what I am dealing with. It is my husbands mother. I have went out of my way to be kind to her and she always says things to me like " I love you more then my own daughters" and then will do something so far as to tell my husband that he can bring a girl to her house. I know this because he tells me. At first he is upset but then his mom will lay the drama in and make him feel sorry for her. I am so afraid this is going to drive me crazy. I have been dealing with this insecurity from her for 14 years and I have finally said enough is enough. I love my husband very much and we are happy. Please any advice will help.

2007-02-08 16:00:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 15:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by bigturkeyme 6

My fiance ran off and took our daughter. Since shes been gone I've gone to some therapists (one we both went to before she left) and dicovered she may be bi-polar and/or ADD. We have been together for nine years and this is completly new news. She's by her parents who probally have no idea about her conditions either and this may be allowing them to controll her, not really on purpose. I think by not knowing this I reacated to her and her actions wrong and that may be what caused her to over react and run. I love her more than anything and need her to realize that and will do what ever it takes to be together. I think not knowing about this before make it harder for us to communicate. She won't take any calls from me. I need to know one great thing I can to to win her heart back so we can talk again and work on this.

2007-02-08 15:41:31 · 2 answers · asked by Beav 2

I'm 20 years old and ive been told many times by friends and mom that i need to mature and become a man. The thing is that i was raised by a single mother so i never had a father figure at home. Most of the "masculine" things that i learn on my own were from watching older friends of mine or just figure them out. I feel that maybe thats the reason i don't have a gf. Maybe i need to get in touch with my masculine side, but how?

2007-02-08 15:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mystery 1

My mother is a sociopath, and my sister who wasn't raised by her sees my life as my mothersbecause I said nick meaning nickname on a IM page she got I had a boyfriend only six months after my husband passed that would be something my mom would do. How do I get my sister to understand that I am not my mother and I am not in need now or in the near future of a boyfriend.

2007-02-08 15:36:30 · 7 answers · asked by Marla D 3

2007-02-08 15:10:04 · 4 answers · asked by CoronaKing 2

Sister in law has two kids, 5 and 3.
I am married, have an 18 month old and another due in August.
I do not have a bad relationship with my sister in law. She is a little nosey though. I think it is unreasonable and is asking too much to temporarily move in. I believe this is not in the best interest of my own family. I cherish time alone with my wife and son because my job requires me to travel. My sister in law has a good job/salary and should be able to manage this situation herself. She wants a couple of months to find a new place and save some money. Her father does not agree with the divorce, so moving in with him is probably not an option. She does not have a good relationship with him either. My wife would like to help her out with this, but respects what I want too. Your thoughts to my quesiton would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2007-02-08 15:05:16 · 9 answers · asked by Makr 2

ok i know valentines day is coming up and i still dont know what to get my boyfriend for valentines day and i know its usually the guy getting the girl something but i wanna make a change this valentines day so what do you think i should get him and i dont want to get him anything stupid so dont say anything stupid. and remember its a gift for valentines day! thanks

2007-02-08 14:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known my man for 10 years but after I married we stopped talking to each other. Around the time I filed for divorce, I ran into him. I was given the divorce and my man and I decided to get back together. It turns out that I've matured a great deal and we can actually conversate for hours. I got full custody of the children and their father is not allowed visitation because I was able to prove that he was very abusive and could not be trusted alone with them as he had used our daughter as a sheild while breaking my ankle. Occasionally, I will let him see his children out of pity. They are his kids too, but he shouldn't have acted the way he did. My man asked me a couple of days ago if I wanted to marry him. We've both been through a divorce and I just don't want to out of fear of the future. Having to have that pinned to me for the rest of my life and all the hassle of possible bad endings. What does everyone think? My mom thinks it's great, but she's old school too.

2007-02-08 14:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by Proud Muslimaah-Beautiful Islaam 3

and in love and know you are loved,but no way to contact the one you love,but know she will be here tomorrow.....

2007-02-08 14:41:43 · 20 answers · asked by David M 2

I feel embarrassed when my husband buys condom while we shop in a store. I asked him not to buy when I'm with him, but he preffers to buy condoms when I'm with him. Is it good? I don't like him buy when I'm with him. Give your suggestions.

2007-02-08 14:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Just4YA 2

he talks about her more than he does anything else.every day all i hear about is his grandma.not for the first couple of months it was ok but after that it got really annoying. I'm really not trying to be mean or anything.what should I do to get him to quit talking about her so much

2007-02-08 14:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by Dannylvr 1

for those who got offended with my question about loosing virginity. i am sorry. i dont have any bad intention when i asked that. it's just that i read more and heard more news about it and many are hiding coz they are ashamed. that's why they never get justice for what happened to them.
again sorry for those who got offended

2007-02-08 14:27:19 · 7 answers · asked by ihatehim 2

2007-02-08 14:24:01 · 2 answers · asked by funnygirl 4

With regards to what they think of you, whose opinion matters most?

2007-02-08 14:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by kewtber 3

she's married 5 years , he has three grown children, and their very educated, his daughter is executive of the estate, and he did have a will , when he was alive they both had the same lawyer, she called him today and he said he was the lawyer for his children and that she doesn't need a lawyer, can she get screwed if she doesn't have a lawyer representing her?

2007-02-08 14:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by ASHDEL19 2

Okay, so me this other girl used to be VERY good friends...until she started dating my brother. She has been very unfaithful to boyfriends in the past, and this time seems to be no different, even though she promised me she wouldn't do that to my brother...Since then, I've had about 5 people tell me that she has been holding hands and hugging with her ex. I confronted her about it, and of course, she denied it, and my brother believes her. So her and I are in a huge fight now, possibly a friendship tarnished beyond repair. Everyone is just telling me to stay out of it, but I feel protective since it's my brother. Can someone just give me some advice as to what to do...I would REALLY appreciate it.

2007-02-08 13:47:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous