ok my girlfriend and i have been daiting for a year now and she dumped me out of the blue because i am not man enough for her or what ever im crushed what do i do
she cheated on me once before but i let it slide and now i think she had cheated again and so she calls me and tells me its over what should i do i feel so heart broken
2007-02-08 16:25:13 · 15 answers · asked by brandon f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its ok to feel upset after a broken relationship. The problem doesnt lie with u, bt with ur gf. If she had cheated u once, the probability of happening again is high. Since she doesnt cherish u, u ought to deserve someone better. Meet up with ur frens for they will be the one standing by u at this crucial time. In a few mths time, u will get back on ur feet and things will get better. God bless. =)
2007-02-08 16:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look at the facts. From what you wrote it sounds like she didn't have much respect for you, and it also sounds like mostly she hurt you. Where as you find other things in her that you care about, if she dumped you accept it, take the time you need to get over it, and then go find someone that will be good to you and love you. One of the questions I would say you need to ask yourself is why do you think you want someone that abuses your affections for them? Finding someone that is actually emotionally healthy for you, would be much better for you. This in the end will be her losing not you.
2007-02-09 00:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by tabby_tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know all that crap you STILL have on your "things I've got to do list"? Well, now would be an excellent time to dive into some of those items. In other words, occupy your mind with ANYTHING not related to her. This total blocking out of her will be anything but easy, but the more you do it the easier it becomes...........that was experience speaking right there.
2007-02-09 00:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by gotmini02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were you i would talk to her and if that goes well ask her why she dumped you.If she says i am not telling you she most likely cheated on you so if that happens go solo for a while and find your match.
2007-02-09 00:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being single for a little while! It can be fun, and it'll give you a chace to heal from this and eventually start seeking a relationship again.
2007-02-09 00:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by alc051001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do NOT talk to her. do NOT try to get back with her. do NOT let her think you're forgiving her.
Just ignore her and move on. If she cheated on you, she's obviously not good enough for you. Find someone better.
2007-02-09 00:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by andreamntngr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a man...tell her she's a whore grab a beer and watch some sports. Women do nothing but complain...learn to zone them out and you'll have a much happier life.
2007-02-09 00:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Col. Forbin 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if she was willing to hurt you before and not consider your feelings that one chance you made a big sacrifice by staying when you could not trust her but i think it is for the best. faithful girls are still out there just be single and try to heal your heart.
2007-02-09 00:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with life ..................
have you not looked at the variety of woman that are around you
on a daily basis ? Choose one, ask her out all she can do is say
no, case and point.
2007-02-09 00:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. This girl sounds like a b*tch. Rebounds are great and help you move on fast too.
2007-02-09 00:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by bittersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋