Other - Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

My 16 year old son is dating a 19 year old girl who just told him shes pregnant. He wants to marry her, keep the baby, and adopt the son she already has. I told him he has to leave her and if he doesnt ill send him to live with his grandparents or to boot camp. A baby will mess up his whole life. He ran away, Im not worried because I know hes ok and at his girlfriends (she called me so i wouldnt worry). I dont want to get her in trouble for being with him because she hasnt dont anything wrong, and they do love one another but i do want him to leave her. How can I get/make him come home ?

(im his dad, his mom died a long time ago)

2007-01-25 15:33:14 · 31 answers · asked by Beeraw 1

who are we to judge people??? if god says that he loves everyone then who are we to say that someone isnt good enough to hang with or to say they are lame or ugly?? what makes us so speacial that we can just say that to people. it isnt like any of us are perfect so who are we to call out someones imperfections? who are we to complain??? if god can accept someones imperfections then why cant we??? if god is much greater than any of us and if someone is good enough for him why cant we except them ???? why do we do this?? why do we have to say something bad about someone else to make us feel better??? if ogd can accept them then why cant we??? odbiviously our lives arent intresting enough so we have to talk about someone elses to keep us occupied

2007-01-25 15:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by carebear_destroyer 4

2007-01-25 15:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Darian T 2

I am so annoyed with my partner I'm thinking of leaving. We have hardly any money at the moment and he keeps spending it on stupid things! I wanted to spoil my little girl because she has a ear infection so I bought some things for her in woolworths. Some disney dvds and comics. I am now overdrawn for spending £20 and I wish I'd never spent it. He has just spent £350 on kennels for his dogs! I had flu and had to go down the doctors, I fell into the road because I was dizzy, I told him about it and he refused to stay home from work to look after our daughter because he needs the money. His dog had £350 spent on it and he won't even run a bath for me when I ask. I feel so sad that I can't rely on anybody to take care of me when I'm ill. Am I just moaning too much or should I kick him in the head!

2007-01-25 15:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean when guys call girls their shorties?

like i kinda no.....but just making sure

2007-01-25 15:09:00 · 9 answers · asked by ellerey n 2

If you could have one choice....either perfect health for the rest of your natural life, or perfect love. Which would you choose? That's a tough one.

2007-01-25 14:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

grand children its beneath them.... do you think i should just give it to charity.. do u think they would want it. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FUND OF IT AND REALLY WOULD LIKE FOR SOME ONE TO HAVE IT THAT I REALLY LIKE.

2007-01-25 14:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by Seeker of Truth 2

My mother has a very long painful illness. Everyone else cried like crazy at the viewing and the service. All I have is a big empty space in me like a vital organ is gone and a deep sadness. And sometime I just feel relief that she is no longer suffering. Am I not grieving as I should .

2007-01-25 14:41:28 · 22 answers · asked by Kjj 2

I start college in august, and My Girlfriend's grandmother doesn't want her living with me in an apartment, even though im financially stable and have roven trustworthy. How can i try to change her mind?

2007-01-25 14:34:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

That even now you think about it and it makes you smile, laugh, or light up inside.

2007-01-25 14:32:04 · 23 answers · asked by livlovelaugh 2

My girls think that they can make a mess when ever and where ever they want and never have to clean it up. They also know that I will give in and clean it for them because we live with my parents and I know my parents will be mad at me. I tell there dad what thier punishments will be if I have to clean up thier mess and he says ok but never follows thru and blames me for them not doing anything and acting the way they do. Outside of recording him and our conversation about what the rules are I dont know what to do since he always claims that he didnt say that or I never told him
what can I do since i dont always have a recorder on hand

2007-01-25 14:07:38 · 1 answers · asked by nancy m 1

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2007-01-25 14:02:12 · 2 answers · asked by James M 5

MY QUESTION IS OVER HERE
My question doesnt have a enough space so here it is......
there is this guy at school who is perfect and u wouldnt even know until u meet him.He is funny respectful kind smart. Hes everything to me.....He thinks i am a spaz so he doesnt really want to dance with me at the formal. What shgould i do.. I am a littel crazy but i am pretty calm to like normal.Plz help me The dance is in 15 days. he means more than anything to me right now..........

Spaz, ( jk )
Kathryn

2007-01-25 13:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by bubles*pop* 2

what age is it leagal to drop out of school? i have hated school since preschool ive never had any friends that like me for who i am so im always not being my self. i kow im not going to college because i wont have enought money and i don't want to go i hate my life and school, i hate homework so i don't do the homework and when i don't do the homework my mom gets mad and yells and if i don't do any homework my mom gets in troubble and i dont want that but i HATE school, could anyone posibly please help me with this and my life if you help me i'll return the favor!!!

2007-01-25 13:39:59 · 2 answers · asked by anime_manga_geek 2

I Hate You! Why you say this to your partners, friends. Whats the reasons you may hate someone.

2007-01-25 13:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by foniboki 4

2007-01-25 13:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by trip 2

We are married for almost two years, and we have a child together. I know that in the movies you just KNOW if you love the guy, but I am confused. I adore him, but when we argue (and we do so constantly) i feel as if i almost hate him. He makes me cry something awful.

2007-01-25 13:29:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this old friend of mine came into my life, we're clasmeyts wayback in high school he's my ultimate crush... we studied in different university wen we turned to college, he texted me and told he wants to see me, we've met and he was my first kiss!! after the kiss we bcame close with each ader and i thought he's going to be my bf but i lost my cp and our communication has stopped, after 6 yrs im already working and have a bf for 5years, as i chcked my old email acct. coz i forgot the password i found out that he sent a lot of msgs. and he also indicate his cell. # so i txted him so, we met agen, i found out that he has a gf for 5years also just like me, we see n talk 2 each ader very often,until sumting happned between us, we made love many times,i know that we're both cheating our bf and gf but we tried to stop what we had but it's very difficult b'coz i still have feelings for him, now he's avoiding me and it really hurts me lot.. he told me he loves me bt dat's nt d ryt ting 2 do.

2007-01-25 13:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by cled29 1

ever feel like a little kid in grownups clothing?

2007-01-25 13:20:18 · 9 answers · asked by *KiM* 6

2007-01-25 13:18:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 13:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by Lei 1

I need really thought out and real answers from knowledgable people. Here is the problem:

My Ex and I decided not to talk anymore, but it took a turn for the worse. We started arguing alot and so I decided to call him and he wouldn't answer my calls so I stopped calling.

I emailed him last Tuesday with a last effort to get him to stay with me. He decline. He said he had no feelings for me and Goodbye. So I kindly accepted and moved on.

Well Today I was on Yahoo and put a picture up of a new guy I like on my yahoo icon. Then I noticed he changed his icon to some girl. Then I put a status message up about my friend and then he put a status message up about the girl. And this continued for a 30 mins to an hour.

He said we were through but people told me he was jealous. I don't know what to think. Give me some insight into whats really going on.

2007-01-25 12:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2

Me and my friend were arguing over what's right and wrong in a relationship..like when each of us get boyfriends.

But anyways...she says that it's ok to have a girlfriend like another guy even though she has a boyfriend.

And I told her....NO....it's ok to be confused about a relationship but they better think about it really really hard and figure out who they want to be with.

Then she argues that it's not going to lead into marriage and it's just a highschool relationship.

I told her that in order for a relationship to be full and pure each of them needs to be dedicated to each other.

She says: NOT MARRIAGE! Doesn't matter. Still ok for a person to have a crush on someone else when they are on a relationship.


I believe I am right on this but....that's mostly what people think...that they are the right ones and everyone else is wrong. So what do you think? PERSONAL Opinions please.

2007-01-25 12:49:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

both boxers are catholics, and just before the fight the grandmothers for both prayed to god for his guidance and asking help for their sons to get the title, somehow at the end of the fight one of them wins the title, Does it mean GOD chooses whose winning and whose losing?is it the prayer that makes the difference?

2007-01-25 12:46:33 · 3 answers · asked by steveivan2 1

At hebrew school, theres this guy and it looks like he kind of likes me. but i dont want to say anything because i might embarrass myself; but if i do i might have myself a boyfriend. I DONT NO WHAT TO DO. HELP!!!!

2007-01-25 12:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 12:14:27 · 8 answers · asked by nathaneal b 1

ok so I have been with my boyfriend for one year. In his past he had one real girlfriend that he loved very much but they broke up because they lived far away from eachother and she found another guy, well he was heartbroken and moved on and like 2 yrs passed (in those 2 yrs he never talked to another girl, until he met me) and he met me and fell in love all over again, even though she left him he still talked good about her and says she is a good person. She recently broke up with her man and now she's trying to locate my bf and see how my bf is doing, she also found out we are getting married and she cried I found out by one of his cousins but I can tell he felt sorry for her, so my question is since she left him and he had no choice but to forget about her would he still like her? or I'm I just being paranoid becuase she trying to be in the picture again, I mean she has a kid already and she's trying to talk to him how stupid is that!

2007-01-25 12:00:38 · 5 answers · asked by ♥AMO♥ 3

I had a relationship with him for 3 years. We split up 2 years ago but met a few times a year without being together. I got close with someone for a couple of days (while still apart from the other person) who turned out to be a complete creep but nothing really happened emotionally or physically. I completely regret this. I'm considering in the future that I could reunite with my ex. He still wants me. Is this right or not ok?

2007-01-25 12:00:14 · 7 answers · asked by green_fuz_1 1

2007-01-25 11:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by ddzaszcxascs 2

2007-01-25 11:43:09 · 21 answers · asked by bluebird 1