I had a relationship with him for 3 years. We split up 2 years ago but met a few times a year without being together. I got close with someone for a couple of days (while still apart from the other person) who turned out to be a complete creep but nothing really happened emotionally or physically. I completely regret this. I'm considering in the future that I could reunite with my ex. He still wants me. Is this right or not ok?
2007-01-25 12:00:14 · 7 answers · asked by green_fuz_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your relationship with your ex was good (or potentially good) to begin with, then yes! Only you can decide if it was a losing situation that would be bad to go back to. But it doesn't sound like you are saying that.
There were reasons you two had a relationship for three years. If you still like him, & he still likes you, then yes - give it a whirl!
2007-01-25 13:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are ex's for a reason, but who am I to speak?
6 1/2 years ago I met my boyfriend, 8 months later we broke up, 2 1/2 years later we started dating again, 3 months later we moved in together, 2 1/2 years later here we are.
My point, if you think that it may be a positive thing in your life then by all means you should explore, you never know, you may just end up the way we did.
Think a great deal about it first, take things slowly and if things don't work out, know that it wasn't meant to be.
Whichever way your decision goes, I wish you all the best!
2007-01-25 12:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by j_goodwin27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am laughing cause you sound like me in alot of ways.lol I wandered in and out of a no-win relationship for over 10 years. If it didn't work the first time, what makes you think it will work out now. You will do what you want in the end, just use your head not your heart.
Gmomma
2007-01-25 13:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its ok but if i were him id have a problematic thought of how many people even if it were 2 the way id be thinking knowing it could be only one and what type of thought that wasnt acuired but from another man kinda taking in the learning personality to certain things and that much kind not changed at all and how much different dealing with problems or arguements that thinking or truth about myself could cause. could be the most of the problem but yea you should keep the idea yea id have to cope with those thoughts and hope she wpould try to help but yea i would.
2007-01-25 12:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure I would cause we are much older now and hopefully more wise to not worry about the other person but we should have just worked on our own selves and everything would have been just fine. I can't change you but i can change me type of thinking with maturity comes later on
2007-01-25 12:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They r called an ex for a reason. Why go back? I say move forward.
2007-01-25 12:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by beachprincesssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to watch yourself the things you find yourself continuously doing can define you its difficult to see over the horizon looking back if it didn't work then has something different happened to make you think it will work now.if not then dont
2007-01-25 12:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by poet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋