I need really thought out and real answers from knowledgable people. Here is the problem:
My Ex and I decided not to talk anymore, but it took a turn for the worse. We started arguing alot and so I decided to call him and he wouldn't answer my calls so I stopped calling.
I emailed him last Tuesday with a last effort to get him to stay with me. He decline. He said he had no feelings for me and Goodbye. So I kindly accepted and moved on.
Well Today I was on Yahoo and put a picture up of a new guy I like on my yahoo icon. Then I noticed he changed his icon to some girl. Then I put a status message up about my friend and then he put a status message up about the girl. And this continued for a 30 mins to an hour.
He said we were through but people told me he was jealous. I don't know what to think. Give me some insight into whats really going on.
2007-01-25 12:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds jealous and he is trying to get you to feel the same way. He might still like you deep down, but I would ignore him if he is acting that immature.
Don't let him get to you, that's what he wants!
2007-01-25 12:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous. It's never easy watching an ex with someone else, even if you know beyond a doubt you don't want to be with them again. Pride, jealousy, ego, whatever you want to call it.
If you really want to make a clean break (and you're using Yahoo Messenger), put him on "Permanently Offline" - that way he'll never see what you're up to unless you run into each other in a chat room.
Given what I've seen of Yahoo chat rooms since they eliminated user-created rooms, they're full of bots anyway.
2007-01-25 21:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are far from the point of letting go and moving on, and you are wondering if he still has feelings for you.i can understand that you are looking for any sign that he still loves you. it is not uncommon for an ex spouse to show signs of jealousy when they think the other is moving on, especially if they have had the advantage of being the one to break off the relationship. the one who is suffering the heart-break is held an emotional hostage ,and it is hard for some people to let go of the power they have over the other person, they enjoy the power.i wouldnt hold hope on the childish acts he did on yahoo as an act of reconciliation. i wish you the best
2007-01-25 21:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes games. tell him about Sorry, and Life, and Sorry your the weakest link, those games because you deserve better say it mean and never turn back. Oh what a loser. Now all of a sudden he wants you because he thinks someone else s going to get the cookies. Let him know you threw the cookies at the new guy and the old one is not it any longer
2007-01-25 20:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really care what to think? It sounds like you are feeding into this guys nonsense. Leave him alone with the childishness and all. This doesn't really require too much elaboration.
2007-01-25 21:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, do you want to be with that kind of guy who wants to play games? I dont think he is jealous, he is just messing with your mind.
2007-01-25 20:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short for games if this new guy is cool why dont you give him a chance?
2007-01-25 20:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you to think that you're doing better than he is. He's a tool....you're better off.
2007-01-25 20:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by vaderandbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silliness this guy is not ready for a serious relationship
2007-01-25 20:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by steffi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋