Other - Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

Okay so my best guy friend is my next door neighbour. He's had a crush on me forever and we're really good friends, but he asks me to be his girlfriend every so often and I always say no because (and I know this sounds cheesy) I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's not awkward around us, and I know he really likes me alot but I have no feelings for him in that way WHATSOEVER. How can I get him to stop asking me out so I don't end up saying yes and ruin our relationship?

2006-12-28 08:04:04 · 2 answers · asked by lauriee.xo.33;; 2

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now(the longest ever!)Have I hurt her?Would she still be thinking about me?The friendship over?

Would she answer if I called?What if she don't answer?

2006-12-28 07:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a kid that lives in the house behind my house. He can do no wrong in his grampa's eyes. They have thrown golfballs over so many times that I could open a golfclub today! My husband was out chopping wood and SAW them throw things over the fence, including chunks of ice. I walked over to talk to them again and his grandfather said it was the kid's uncle. When I told him I SAW the kid he tried to say it was some other kid. Seems I was so loud that LIttle Johnny's grandmother came to the door. I told her I had a camera set up to tape EVERYTHING that goes on. She *SAID* she would talk to him.

Now I need to know what I should do to keep the brats out of my backyard and to stop throwing things. I told them I would call the police, but I doubt that would do much good. Should I keep the stuff for the police or throw everything out?

2006-12-28 07:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have a boyfriend however over the summer my friend (guy and boyfriend's really close friend) and I went to this summer program together (my b/f didn't get accepted) and after knowing him better I liked the fact that we could talk about anything and that he had great communication skills. I didn't fall in love with him or anything like that but felt bad for feeling a sense of attraction towards him for communicating and listening so well to me (at times more than my own boyfriend) is this natural? Should I tell my boyfriend what I felt over the summer?

2006-12-28 07:50:51 · 3 answers · asked by Ivanna 2

gotten excited by a total stranger?

2006-12-28 07:46:03 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 4

would you spend molding someone, teaching them how to be perfect for you?

2006-12-28 07:43:52 · 34 answers · asked by T Time 6

What is the difference from a big sexy woman oppose to a ugly skinny woman?

2006-12-28 07:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by lanea e 1

I have two friends that are ery important to the family! Not bad at all but good friends. I go everywhere with them and they are always over! We are all Saints fans and on that memorable Sunday that the Saints beat the Cowboys something happened! My parents and I kinda had a fight and one of my friends had already left! One stayed. To make a long story short me and my dad almost fought if I wouldn't have left! My friend took me away and the next day bought me back. My dad told him not to come over anymore!! Was he right for telling him not to come anymore, because to me he was being a good friend?? Or was my friend wrong for interferring?? Just need some thoughts!!

2006-12-28 07:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by aaroncageman 1

2006-12-28 07:18:38 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 07:12:01 · 50 answers · asked by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7

2006-12-28 07:01:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I split up with my ex 5 years ago because we decided we were a bit too young to settle down. I loved him to bits but we started arguing and we both thought we shouldn't ruin a good thing. I did what I wanted and he did what he wanted. I loved being young free and single and after about a year I met somebody else. We have a child now and it's really good, I just can't forget my ex! I hate it, he was the most stunning person I have ever seen. He was funny sweet and kind. I don't want to feel like this and I wondered if anyone had good tips for getting someone out of your head. It's only recently I've started to feel like this again because I found out my partner cheated on me. I know that he regrets it and he told me the day after it happened. I don't think it will happen again. I don't wanna wreck my family by getting revenge but the temptation is getting stronger. My kids mean the world to me and I need someone to give me a reality check! lol

2006-12-28 06:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriends son was just killed and I really dont know what to say to him to offer some comfort without obvoious bringing up the painful death of his son. Its only been a day since the passing and we really havent spoken much since he is making funeral arrangement, but the time will come where we will have alone time and I dont want to say the wrong thing like, "How are you doing?" that question sounds so stupid knowing good an well he is not doing well at all. I also dont want to just talk about other stuff pretending nothing happend, but I also dont want to talk about "it" and pour salt in to his wound. How do I approach him? What do I say?

2006-12-28 06:43:27 · 10 answers · asked by snoopdog79936 2

If you are cheated, abused, betrayed and blamed even you were innocent and you turned into never ending darkness. Now, if you have crystal-clear prove of his/her forgery which can put him/her behind bars, you still love him/her, will you complain to police, even if you are sure that it will mess his/her life totally.

2006-12-28 06:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by V 5

How do you keep mentally alert and physcially sound with long working hours over a number of years ?

Just curious but would be most appreciative if you are able to share your experience on avioding burn out.

Serious answers if you please.


Tried the following:

- Eight cups of strong Coffee or caffeine equivalent
- Eight cups of Water
- Five hours sleep daily except on Sundays
- Twelve hours sleep if work stretches over seventy two hours
- Vitamins: B 2 x 100mg; C 3 x 1000mg; Zinc 2 x 50mg
- Eye drops

The mind gets to a stage that seems to slow down accompanying tasks that take forever, with the side effects of not being able to sleep soundly as soon as the task is completed.

Suffice it to say, working hours may not be renegotiated with higher management. One would be kidding to say that it is not a dog eat dog environment.

2006-12-28 06:42:00 · 6 answers · asked by pax veritas 4

My 11 year old daughter has a bad habit on puting her fingers in anything im cooking or eating to sample the dish.I cant stand it when people do that .What do you think?

2006-12-28 06:32:59 · 41 answers · asked by Ms.Pickle 3

My ex boyrfriend of 9 years, father of my 2 kids was accused almost 2 years ago for something. He denies it - Doesnt seem possible but you never know anyone. There are video tapes, that dont show anything. 2 years and he is still fighting strong waiting to get a trial. My family doesnt like him after this, they have seen him guilty in their eyes. We are no longer together becuz of this now just cuz I had to move. I am currently dating someone who is a pretty good guy which my family loves. But as the time I goes by my ex makes me happier, but I also enjoy that my fmaily approves...Any input?

2006-12-28 06:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1

i have never seen my dad get my mom a present without her asking for something,my borther always asks me to get his girlfriends prestents, &now my boyfriend who is following the same path. im trying to tell him that its not the gift itself that matters to me at all, but the thought that goes into it. i just want something thoughtfull, i dont care if he found it on the street, but he keeps telling me he doesnt know what to give me. ive given him so many hints and even told him a few things i thought would be thoughtful and he is still having trouble. i told him i can buy shoes and clothes myself, and i wanted him to give me something special that has meaning behind it. weve been together for 2 and a half years,why is it so hard for him to think of something special?he wrote me a poem a few monhts ago for my birthday and never gave it to me,its in his computer, so i told him for the holidays to print it out and frame it for me, and he said thats not agift because i already told him. help

2006-12-28 06:28:09 · 7 answers · asked by bar22bie 2

I'm just looking for ideas on how to wow my gf of 4 years. I get her flowers and jewerly for no reason, but I'm looking for something out of the ordinary...something off the wall. Could you help?

2006-12-28 06:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by dwarner33 2

I live with my man.We've been together for 2 years now. He acts like he wants space but he doesn't want to go out with friends. What should I do?

2006-12-28 06:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know how to tell my husband that the baby i am having is a ! we already have 1 and the doctors told us it was a boy. well when i went in today for my 3rd ultrasound...they said it was definitly a ! it will break his heart not to have a son and it will kill me because he has a son by another who used him as a sperm donor, and i dont want her to be the only one with his son. i know this will break his heart but i dont know how to sit him down and tell him its a when he has it in his head that its a boy. the hard part is he started to buy clothes for him and gets really happy when thinking about having a son together! we only want 2 kids because pregnancy is hard on both of us and i cant go thru another. so what is youre advice on how i should tell him? i mean he even seen the weiner!! ( on the ultrasound the 1st one) WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-28 06:12:32 · 1 answers · asked by danielle 1

I hadn't seen or heard from my friend in over a year and all of sudden she started calling me all the time and showing up at my apartment cause she needed a place to stay. Since then, I've allowed her to sleep at my place many times free of charge even though I'm a struggling single mom. Now she has been staying with me for over 2 wks, pays about $50 a wk and buys her own food.

The problem: the studio is not big enough for two adults and a toddler. Some things she does-like being stingy with her food, leaving her things lying around and talking on the phone late at night-gets on my nerves. I told her all this and she says that I'm insecure because she has friends and I don't. I told she should go stay w/ her friends then. The reason I let her stay with me is that I had the impression that she had no where else to go but the girl has relatives and many friends. Now she keeps calling me from work and apologizing for offending me.

2006-12-28 06:04:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am very egoistic person..i am workin in MNC as software engineer...i dont know any work in kitchen..today morning my mom called to kitchen....i helped little but dropped milk....and asked her sorry..and also said i will clean by myself...but she hit me like something...i dont get tensed for hiting me..but she said i wont come up in my life never and i will lose everything wat i have in my life..after hearing this i poured hot milk on her..then also she didnt stop she said i will die in fire...she said that my hubby will send me divorce notice once i get married....am i wrong or she?
my friends are asking me to ask sorry to her...but she had done more good to me in past..only because of her i am in MNC

2006-12-28 06:03:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

beauty is oaky sometime-but it is not always appears what it really is-it can be decieved. I look for quality..So do women know their quality..it seems like guys know more about what gives the value of quality to women, then they actually knows about themselve, am i not right, guys? Do women understand what gives them quality?

2006-12-28 06:01:44 · 2 answers · asked by ME 1

He is very hard to shop for and I dont have alot of money but I want to get something that he can have for ever--help

2006-12-28 06:01:39 · 2 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1

i am very egoistic person..i am workin in MNC as software engineer...i dont know any work in kitchen..today morning my mom called to kitchen....i helped little but dropped milk....and asked her sorry..and also said i will clean by myself...but she hit me like something...i dont get tensed for hiting me..but she said i wont come up in my life never and i will lose everything wat i have in my life..after hearing this i poured hot milk on her..then also she didnt stop she said i will die in fire...she said that my hubby will send me divorce notice once i get married....am i wrong or she?
my friends are asking me to ask sorry to her...but she had done more good to me in past..only because of her i am in MNC

2006-12-28 05:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 05:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by psecada 2

We share 2 children together and have been together 6 years. He is younger than I am. Afraid of committment due to parents failed marraige.

2006-12-28 05:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by GREEN_EYES 1

My boyfriend would like to propose to me, but he has asked my dad on christmas, but my boyfriend is feeling like my dad is giving him a yes and no answer. What can my boyfriend do and or say to talk to my dad, about letting him marry me?

2006-12-28 05:35:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a relationship have you ever:

Please be honest. I just want to know how often things like this happen.

1. Been beaten
2. Beat your mate
3. Been cheated on
4. Cheated on your mate?
5. Been verbally abused?
6. Verbally abused your mate?
7. Been married?
8. Been divorced?
9. Found your soulmate?
10. Given up on finding your soulmate?

2006-12-28 05:30:10 · 24 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5