I have two friends that are ery important to the family! Not bad at all but good friends. I go everywhere with them and they are always over! We are all Saints fans and on that memorable Sunday that the Saints beat the Cowboys something happened! My parents and I kinda had a fight and one of my friends had already left! One stayed. To make a long story short me and my dad almost fought if I wouldn't have left! My friend took me away and the next day bought me back. My dad told him not to come over anymore!! Was he right for telling him not to come anymore, because to me he was being a good friend?? Or was my friend wrong for interferring?? Just need some thoughts!!
2006-12-28 07:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by aaroncageman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your friend took you out of the house and brung you back the next day. This was good because it was a way for you and your dad to calm down, cool off. Your dad should understand this if this person who is a friend of the family. I understand your dad being upset that you did not come back that night too, but he has to think how far that arguement would had went if your friend didnt interfere. Talk to your dad, remind him that hes a friend of the family and was trying to help in good intentions. Ask him what he would do if it was him the friend of a family helping that family calm down. This is not anything to be angry and shut out a good friend about. Also maybe your dad need more time to cool off about that. Maybe that friend can visit one day when your dad is fine and talk to him to patch things up. Life is too short to keep behaving ridulous with grudges that make no sense to have so long. Hope everything works out for u, take care.
2006-12-28 07:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by i_shout_plz_care_4_each_other 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is wiser than your Dad. In times like that it is best to walk away and come back when things have settled. Your Dad is wrong to not let this friend over anymore as they DID help out the situation.
2006-12-28 15:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on a lot of things, your family, your age, how bad the fight was, if it would have lead to injury or just words, your relationship with the friend...
but just knowing what i do (i'm assuming you're a minor), i would say your dad is in the right if this other person took you from the home without his permission.
2006-12-28 15:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by tinketew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur dad probably misinterpreted ur friends good deed to be a good friend. he probably thought the friend was trying to bring u somewhere and do things or it can be that he thought it was none of ur friends business. but i think ur friend did a good thing he knew u were upset and he helped u dats what friends are for. and ur dad probbaly didnt get that. and he was being a good friend. i guess parents really dont get us !
2006-12-28 15:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more to the story? What did your friend say while at your house?
So you wouldnt have left if not for your friend? maybe you shouldve worked things out with your family instead of leaving..
sounds like we are only hearing 10% of this story i need more details to be bale to help out more..
2006-12-28 15:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by n_maritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably mad cause you weren't supposed to stay out all night. I'm a Dad and sometimes we have to control who allows our kids to do the wrong things...
2006-12-28 15:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by The Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some fight over a stupid baseball game? cmon now, lets get real. thats ridiculous.
2006-12-28 15:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋