i am very egoistic person..i am workin in MNC as software engineer...i dont know any work in kitchen..today morning my mom called to kitchen....i helped little but dropped milk....and asked her sorry..and also said i will clean by myself...but she hit me like something...i dont get tensed for hiting me..but she said i wont come up in my life never and i will lose everything wat i have in my life..after hearing this i poured hot milk on her..then also she didnt stop she said i will die in fire...she said that my hubby will send me divorce notice once i get married....am i wrong or she?
my friends are asking me to ask sorry to her...but she had done more good to me in past..only because of her i am in MNC
2006-12-28 05:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Two very immature people for starters. This is no way to have a relationship with anyone...
There is never a good reason to harm anyone and it sounds like you learned this behavior from your mom... this needs to stop immediately!
You have a high chance of repeating this behavior down the road to your own family.
Why does your mother feel so badly about herself? Maybe she needs some counseling.
Anyway apologize for being so ridiculous and ask if you caused any damage. Then you need to sit down with her and be honest about the abusive speech and actions.
This is serious and will need to be resolved with help most likely.....
2006-12-28 06:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all deals with ETHICS...
If u r still reading this.. then let me proceed....
I think this is the best advice coz u r admitting that u r an EGOIST.
So The mistake could be possibly from ur side from what u have described if it is exactly the same with what had happened.....
U said dat u r working in an MNC n admit that u donno any work in the kitchen...
May be ur mother was really very busy n didnt expect u to spill milk.. or may be she was a bit disturbed by something dat had happened sometime ago... so PLEASE STAND IN THE SHOES OF UR MOTHER for a while n think...
u'll understand everything... n i'm too young to give u a suggestion coz u r in a position wherein u can imagine urself to be someone...
so I sincerely advise u to follow what ur friends have said and please please please apologise to ur mother...
because no matter whatever u do... u can't repay ur MOTHER... that's the most toughest thing in the world....
moreover u r saying dat she had done a lot good to u in the past. n its only coz of her dat u r happy now in the MNC... then... what more to think???
BETTER LATE THAN NEVER...
immediately plz.... go n apologise to ur mother...
Regarding the kitchen work... u just convince ur mother dat u will learn it slowly n gradually coz u r also working in a MNC n so u'll be strained in ur job... So explain it to her in course of time dat u'll learn those jobs also coz itz a mandatory for women in INDIA to learn all household work.......
n plz plz plz plz Never repeat such an act of spilling hot milk or anything like dat on ur mother... its very painful u know...
Just think of urself in dat situation n ur child doing the same with u.... Mind this U said that u r an egoist.. So itz not tough for u to be in such a situation . after all u r also gonne be a mother in the future...
so PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ... love ur mother.. n never hurt her.....
Plz.. I request u...
P.S
IF U REALLY SEE MY MSG N FOLLOW THIS.... Do reply me at sankar_8187@yahoo.co.in coz i'll be happy dat atleast u've valued my words n all my pleadings haven't gone to the wind.
2006-12-28 14:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Encyclopedia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't be sad dear she is your mom..say sorry to her....it happens sometime..it was wrong that u pore hot milk on her very bad ...just feel sorry 2 her she will hug u...mom is mom... learn some time how 2 cook help her some time..she need u dear pass some time with her ,share with her ur problems be her best friend don't fight wd her like a small kid..u r a big girl now ...take your responsibility..don't hurt her in future be a best daughter...may be she was tensed and depressed thats y she told u like this..don't take her wrong ....be her loving daughter ,good luck..
2006-12-28 14:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U LEAVE WHO IS WRONG.
U POURED HOT MILK ON UR MOTHER. REALLY I WONDER.
FOR ANY DISPUTE THERE WILL BE MISTAKES OF BOTH PARTIES. DONT U KNOW THIS SMALL THING?
DONT THINK WHOSE MISTAKE IS. FIRST SAY SORRY TO UR MOTHER. U MUST DO IT. BLIND PEOPLE RECOGNISE THE PRECIOUS THINGS ONLY THEY LOOSE IT.
IF U DONT CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE U WILL GET MANY PROBLEMS. CHANGE UR ATTITUDE. READ GOOD BOOKS ON PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT.
u need not tell u r egoistic person as ur username tells
2006-12-28 19:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have taken the first step and admitted you are egotistical, so now, you have to stop being so. Apologise and sit with her and discuss the problems you have between you. Recognise you both have faults and work on them between you to put them right. Love combats everything if you really give your all.
2006-12-28 18:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mothers are just like that I think she was just trying to help you out you see. Any how she is just trying to make your life better even though she is wrong sometimes think about all the times she has helped you out. gave you things did something for you just dont say anything to her it will make her feel really bad...
2006-12-28 18:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax
2006-12-29 00:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋