Other - Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

2006-12-23 15:34:10 · 14 answers · asked by nadie 1

i've known the guy i've fallen in love with ONLINE for over two and a half years, due to his job and my being in school (college) we've never been able to meet up. Well that and his ex-girlfriend keeps stalking him, she and her friends will kidnap him for a week at a time and starve him in an attempt to get him to go back to dating the ex. he's asked me to marry him... even though we've never met. Is it real?

2006-12-23 15:27:36 · 10 answers · asked by C S 1

my fiance has a step son almost 1 year.. i have no problem with taking care of him and all, he was adpoted btw.. i love my fiance and his step son. my problem is, i know how much my fiance loves his son, he is the world to him. I have problems with accepting his son, sure hes cute and i can take care of him and watch him grow up. Theres something in me thinking, i dont even know his child, and i love him cause of my fiance, not because hes going to be my son also. my fiance adpoted him before i knew him.

Did anyone go through something like that, how do i over come it?

2006-12-23 15:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom provides the essentials and all (food, shelter, whatever else we may need/want) but she's just a terrible person and a bad mother. you can't talk to her about anything serious, and she's very oppressive. she's a control freak and abusive. she's my mom though and i can't help but love her. i just can't be expected to live under her rule and pretend to be happy. she's the type that expects me to take care of her in old age and all, but i just don't think she deserves it, and frankly, i don't want that type of burden. i'm seventeen now, and i've got to start thinking about my own life and college and all. i don't want to get rid of her, but i don't want her ruining my life anymore.
anyone else with this issue or with advice?

2006-12-23 15:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by tanj 4

why do i have a problem being naked, I feel so scared and ashamed. help

2006-12-23 15:04:28 · 14 answers · asked by dontbeme 1

I have High end autism and my hands are weak am i cut out to join the military (maybe the air force)

2006-12-23 15:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by James C 1

2006-12-23 14:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by ec 3

my mom doesnt have much money at all one small income 2 kids with needs doesnt work anyway she got me 5 or 6 small things for christmas and a new puppy(it came from my dads friend so it was free it doesnt count)but my stocking isnt going to be halfway full i know everything she got me yet she doesnt know that i know what she got and im worried if i tell her she will feel really sad and guilty and try to buy me more which is just wasting her money to make me happy last night she was on the phone and i heard her crying because she couldnt buy anybody anything not even her own parents i dont want to tell her but on Christmas if i act surpised shell know(she always does when i act)then shell get sadder than she is now and try to make it up by using all the money she can spare to buy me something expensive and that wont make me happy at all it will upset me because that money is for her school so she can pay instead of having to quit what should i do i want to make my mom happy anyway i can

2006-12-23 14:50:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i felt like doing that, but i guess something made me change. in times, my mom gets really worried about me that anytime, i might try to do that again. what should i do? even though i got over it and thought that what i tried to do was stupid.

2006-12-23 14:31:22 · 15 answers · asked by emme 5

In our family gathering once, my grandmother who likes to tell stories once told stories of my embrassing moments in my childhood years. How do I tell her nicely to stop telling things to my boyfriend especially my past life? I love her but I don't want her to meddle sometimes

2006-12-23 14:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by karrie 1

the relation ship has been getting kind of sexual. and i really like him.

2006-12-23 14:12:01 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so totally pissed off to the point of wanting to end my new marriage. Here goes; my husband is very close friends with this woman and her family. Matter of fact, she is the one who introduced us. He wants to buy her a car and put the car that they once shared together in the shop. My thing is why does he have to buy her a car considering the fact that she now has a job and can buy her own car. He seems to want to make sure everyone in his close knit circle of friends and family are straight while he puts me on the backburner and act so stingy and tight. When i mentioned my concerns he told me I act like I am jealous of this girl. Mind you, she is a lesbian. That really pissed me off. He had a truck that now his father uses all the time. Why should I give him access to my car when he feels he can buy cars for everyone else. I just don't get it. It just doesn't make sense to buy a car only to have someone have access to it, and not the wife. Is this some bull or what?

2006-12-23 14:07:17 · 19 answers · asked by stella 2

2006-12-23 14:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by Nikia P 1

There are so many people all alone and so depressed. If only we could know each other, then we would feel so much better... how can I know another person who is alone too????

2006-12-23 13:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Nathan A 1

I have gotten myself into the worst position any pregnant women could find herself. This is my story. After five years dating a man who started out being a great guy turned out to be a selfish "you know what". So after getting my degree in massage and trying to make a living where he wanted to be only to find out it wasn't working, I decided to move to a place where I could make a living. 2 weeks before I move I find out I'm pregnant { while on birth control}. So I decide to stay. Now 20 weeks into my pregnancy and he is totally ignoring me. He's rude when he talks to me, he tells his friends I give him no freedoms, and he disapears without saying anything. He has been a great father to my 6 yr. old from before but now what is he doing? This man is 32 and his major goal is getting ****ed up and alcohol and drugs. Now I find myself with really no place to turn no job and no money. What am I to do?

2006-12-23 13:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by babyboyz 1

There are so many people all alone and so depressed. If only we could know each other, then we would feel so much better... how can I know another person who is alone too????

2006-12-23 13:43:16 · 14 answers · asked by Nathan A 1

2006-12-23 13:21:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-12-23 13:18:58 · 9 answers · asked by joy_hardyman2003 2

It was my new job and he was my new supervisor. He thought highly of me in the beginning and that was why he offered me the position. I thought we have a good relationship. But now, I wasn't able to do well at the job because my production was not up to their standard and I had been giving verbal warnings by him... and I may not have my job anymore pretty soon ... All these just happened so quick and fast and I just didn't know it would be like this .... I feel so broken-hearted and sad and really didn't mean for this to happen because I think he would be a good person for me ... But now it is just such a mess ...I don't know what to do... I feel so broken hearted... What should I do?

2006-12-23 13:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Raines 1

2006-12-23 13:04:50 · 21 answers · asked by GARY C 1

there is this guy that i chat with he told me that he has some troubles in his life so i rtied to give him some advices but then i found out that he needs a profissional help so now he's angry with me sending threats, i don't want to hurt his feelings but i dont wanna chat with him any more ........ any ideas? ......please
if more info needed....... i'll answer any questions ....

2006-12-23 13:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Princess 3

How many of you are saving yourself for marriage??

2006-12-23 12:59:22 · 16 answers · asked by Perfection Personified 2

2006-12-23 12:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by Lou B 4

I want to know what I can do now, my partner left me yesterday, RIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS though she said that she wil always love me forever and that she is sorry about leaving me, my mum made comments about her that she hated.....she cried when telling me that she and I wern't together anymore....and it made me feel really sad, angry and hurt....all in one and well now I really just dont know what to do anymore at all, I sent her an email saying that I will always love her, always care about her and that maybe one day we could get back together but right now I just dont know what I can do to cheer myself up and make xmas with the family bearable, it was spose to be with Laura :( now just thinking about what we had planned for tonight.....I dont know what to do now so if anyone could give me some advice that would be great...how to make xmas bearable and what else to do now...thanks all

Mitch :(

2006-12-23 12:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-23 12:34:14 · 26 answers · asked by BudLt 5

My fiance's birthday is on January first and I bought him tickets to see his favorite baseball team. However, the game is not until April and I won't have the tickets in hand until March. I need some cute ideas or a good way to tell him his gift without actually having it to give yet!!

2006-12-23 12:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by truelovernr1122 3

I have Christmas day off this year because it ended up that way on the schedule, so I plan to have dinner with my 2 kids and significant other. When my kids were small growing up, they were ordered by a judge to go to their dads house every year over schools Christmas vacation. I literally did not see my kids for over 2 weeks at Christmas from the time they were 2 yrs old until they were both 17 and refused to go. He only lived 15 miles away. He refused to let me see them for the holidays. Now he and his wife are divorced and he never aknowledges the kids. I get severely depressed every year at Christmas now even though my 2 adult kids are with me. I cannot seem to get past it, so this year, I went all out and spent a fortune and arranged a dinner and am trying not to spend Christmas crying. What else can I do to make me get past this old baggage? My daughter and son deserve for me to be happy. They are 18 and 21 yrs old now. I dont wanna be sad anymore. I cant help it.

2006-12-23 12:25:15 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2006-12-23 12:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance recently moved to Puerto Rico (his birth place) and wants me to move there, too. I do not speak Spanish. I'm scared out of my mind and don't know what to do. He has a good job, but my family is here, my job, my friends, essentially the entire other part of my life that is not him.

All I hear is how beautiful it is, but crime ridden, bad schools, difficult to find a job and outrageously expensive. Is it really all bad like that?

2006-12-23 12:03:14 · 6 answers · asked by SelfGrill 3

my partner left me yesterday without any warning of any sorts, my mum made some comments about her that I told her about cause I couldn't keep them from her at all......and so close to christmas too, we were due to spend xmas together but now I am spending it with my family insted and I am abit sad, I feel angry, upset, hurt and I dont know what to do now as I just feel like I had no warning of any sort before she left me....if you want a copy of what she sent to me send me an email but I just dont know what I can do now or how to cheer myself up at the moment, I feel almost depressed, I am also mad because of everyone being so happy at this time of year apart from me it seems at the moment, I just feel like maybe the world should end, she told me that she would never leave me and always be there for me but obviously not now!!! I just dont know what to do anymore in life.

so how can I help myself?? please dont say get pets as i already have a dog a 3 cats.

thanks in advance
Mtich

2006-12-23 11:59:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous