It was my new job and he was my new supervisor. He thought highly of me in the beginning and that was why he offered me the position. I thought we have a good relationship. But now, I wasn't able to do well at the job because my production was not up to their standard and I had been giving verbal warnings by him... and I may not have my job anymore pretty soon ... All these just happened so quick and fast and I just didn't know it would be like this .... I feel so broken-hearted and sad and really didn't mean for this to happen because I think he would be a good person for me ... But now it is just such a mess ...I don't know what to do... I feel so broken hearted... What should I do?
2006-12-23 13:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean if I didn't make the first mistake of not focusing on my job completely, then I would still be able to do well at my job and have a good relationship with him. It was my fault because I wasn't that focused seriously on my job and I also was not aware of their expectations of me in the beginning.
When he (the supervisor) gave me a written warning, he said that it has to do with my future there with the company. I feel really bad because I want him to think highly of me like before because I like to be successful in that job and I also like him.. But, now it just seems like a mess and it sucks ... What should I do?
2006-12-23 13:31:38 · update #1
never get involved with someone you work with, it is a hard lesson. But somehow you need to separate work from home. It can be done but it is hard, and You have to think about something is this his choice to tell you things, or is he doing his job, being told what to do from the higher up?
2006-12-23 13:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's doing his job as a supervisor. If you can't do the job, then what do you think they should do? It seems to me that you have a crush on him. That is never a good idea. Never have a boyfriend or lover at work with you. Like the old saying, "Never cut your meat where you make your bread". He can't give you special treatment, if he does, then that's favoritism and he can get in trouble. You need to get your head on straight, try your best at your job, or go find another one before they terminate you. I wish you the best of luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 21:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont date/like coworkers. Its not a good idea
2006-12-23 22:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋