my partner left me yesterday without any warning of any sorts, my mum made some comments about her that I told her about cause I couldn't keep them from her at all......and so close to christmas too, we were due to spend xmas together but now I am spending it with my family insted and I am abit sad, I feel angry, upset, hurt and I dont know what to do now as I just feel like I had no warning of any sort before she left me....if you want a copy of what she sent to me send me an email but I just dont know what I can do now or how to cheer myself up at the moment, I feel almost depressed, I am also mad because of everyone being so happy at this time of year apart from me it seems at the moment, I just feel like maybe the world should end, she told me that she would never leave me and always be there for me but obviously not now!!! I just dont know what to do anymore in life.
so how can I help myself?? please dont say get pets as i already have a dog a 3 cats.
thanks in advance
Mtich
2006-12-23 11:59:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to talk to her and explain why you told her, and that you didn't want any secrets between you, tell her you love her if you do, and see if you can work things out.
2006-12-23 13:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by janieloveday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont just have been the comment your mum made,she must have been planning to go anyway or thinking about it,that's a shitty thing to do at this time of year,remember you are not the only one going through a horrible time at the minute,even though it feels like it and everywhere you look people probably all seem really happy,if she could hurt you like that,she obviously didn't feel as strongly as you,try to muddle your way through Xmas,I'm not going to say enjoy,because that would be insulting.you never know whats around the corner,remind yourself you wont feel this badly for ever,take care and good luck
2006-12-23 20:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when we go thru moments like that we think we are the only ones but believe me, you are NOT the only one. I know this wouldn't change your situation, but try to understand that life is made of UPS and downs. Yours came in a moment when everyone seems to be so happy, which is not true because not everyone is really happy. There are people who are going thru a terrible situation. If she left because of your monther, she may return but she may have used this as an excuse, if so, time is the best medication. Try to think positive, I know it hurts, boy, don't I know but I guarantee that time will heal and soonr or later things will get into place. RIght now, just take a deep breath, try to relax, try to believe that God is always, ALWAYS in control of any situation of your life. I have been there, please, believe me that for those who believe in Him nothing happens as a coincidence.
MERRY CHRISTMAS and know that God loves you.
2006-12-23 20:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by blueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get her back and let her know that in spite of what mommy has said, you still care. To win her heart just bring her a christmas gift and card and spend a little time and hopefully the two of you both will be happy for christmas.
2006-12-23 20:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋